Shades of Trauma Healing | Childhood Trauma, Trust Issues, Coping Skills, Growth Mindset, Trust God, Discernment, Purpose

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   This month is National Recovery Month and my guest today is Dr. Norm Wielsch who was a police officer for over 26 years. During that time, he experienced many traumatic incidents. He shares his story of diagnosed with a neuromuscular disease that caused him to endure over 30 surgeries, which led to an opioid addiction. Norm made some poor decisions that landed him in a fe...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Is it just me, or are you finding that life is becoming more distracting? There is always something to think about, do, or solve. I was finding that my mind was getting preoccupied with all the things in my day and world, and it was robbing my peace. At the end of the day, I felt like there were more things to do than I got done, and I did not like where my head was, so I...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   The movie Diary of a Mad Black Woman is one of many that does a good job of showing what can happen when a woman takes and takes without processing her emotions in a healthy way. In many cultures, women are not encouraged to get mad, they are expected to remain poised, polite and in control, but often there is rage beneath what is seen because of all they are experiencing...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Today, let's talk about something real, something maybe a little raw: trusting God when life feels…well, not so trusting. You've been hurt in the past, you’ve dealt with some heavy stuff, and now the idea of trusting anyone, let alone God, feels like a big, fat "NOPE!" Been there, believe me. But here's the thing: I believe the healing journey for women of faith includes...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Are you a trauma survivor looking to make positive changes in your life? This episode is for you! Today, I am speaking with Dr. Toni Cooper, a Christian psychologist specializing in helping women heal from abuse and trauma. Dr. Cooper shares her wisdom on the unique challenges of change for trauma survivors and offers a practical 4-step framework to navigate the journey tow...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   I’m taking how to attune to your body for better stress management today. As Christian women, we're often called in a million directions – family, church, work, our passions. It's easy to get overwhelmed, right? But hear this: taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's essential! Because when we're stressed and depleted, how can we truly live out our calling? I hope this...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   You’ve probably heard this phrase bantered around a lot “live your calling” or “find your purpose”. These terms set people on this existential hunt to find the divine reason for their existence. But what does the term calling mean anyway, and more specifically, what does it mean to you? Today, I’ll be talking about the two types of calling and what you can do to gain clar...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Opening your heart to others can feel downright scary when you've been hurt in the past. The last thing you want to be is vulnerable, and this can impact your ability to show genuine empathy. Empathy isn't just about feeling someone else's pain; it's the bridge to a deeper connection, stronger friendships, and a more fulfilling life. Something that most trauma survivors cra...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Do you have an insatiable desire to prove your worth, or are you constantly pushing yourself to showcase your abilities but never fully satisfied with your achievements?   This is a struggle for many women, who find it difficult to bask in the glory of their accomplishments even when they do succeed.    Today’s guest is Jamie Vollmoeller, a clinical therapist, radio show ho...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Let’s talk about a topic that can leave us feeling drained and defeated: conflict. Navigating disagreements can be tough, especially when you're carrying the baggage of childhood trauma and dealing with someone who likes a verbal tussle. It is worth learning how to deal with conflict as you go through life, and I will share more about the acronym JADE and how to avoid it…to...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 The Shades of Trauma Healing podcast had its official birthday on July 31st, and what a year it has been. If you’ve been with me from day one, you know a bit of my story, but if you’ve joined in later, know that launching this podcast was an obedient response to God’s call. Along the way, I learned so much as I took the step towards this call from God. In today’s episode, I...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Today, we're diving into a topic that can feel heavy, but trust me, it's one we all grapple with in some way or the other, so we need to talk about: self-loathing, and I’m going to provide 6 tips to help you address it. I hope this episode blesses and inspires you. In Healing and Love 😊   Jenniel   🌟Your Next Steps🌟 👉🏼 Download the Free Guide: 10 Signs You Need Inner C...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Today I have a treat for you. While I talk a lot about trauma on this podcast the main goal is to help you find healing so you can remove barriers that keep you from fully living out your true purpose. My guest today knows all about this journey. He is Dr. Peter Rios, a sought-after motivational keynote and conference speaker, lecturer, founder of Peter Rios Consulting, and...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Emotions are powerful forces. They impact our experiences, drive our actions, and shape how we interact with the world. Emotions are vital to being human, but we don’t have to let them run wild and control our lives because that can be detrimental. You’ve got to take charge of how you feel and react. Learning to control your emotions is not about suppressing them; it's abou...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽  The Anniversary Celebration Event is in Full Swing Share your opinion and be automatically entered to win 1 of 3 FREE coaching sessions with Jenniel. Enter to Win Here: https://sthyearonegiveaway.grwebsite.com/ My guest today is Stephanie Scarminach, an intuitive somatic practitioner who guides people through overcoming past trauma and back to their body’s natural wisdom T...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Do you ever feel stuck on repeat? Like you're making the same mistakes or attracting the same drama over and over again? A lot of survivors feel that way and one way to address this is by looking at your blind spots. Blind spots are those things we do not see about ourselves, but they show-up day after day – they include the thoughts, behaviours, and triggers that we're not...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Today's topic is close to my heart, and I know it might resonate with many of you. We'll discuss emotional abuse in childhood, how it impacts adults, and the path to emotional wellness. Emotional abuse is subtle, and that makes it easy to deny that it's happening. We’ll look at some of the signs of emotional abuse, how it prevents you from living your God-given purpose and...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Life throws us curveballs. Sometimes, those curveballs come early, leaving deep scars from a traumatic childhood. But even in the face of immense pain, there's hope: you have the unwavering presence of a God who specializes in new beginnings. He is the weaver of shattered lives, the mender of broken hearts, the God of new starts. The Bible paints a vivid picture of this red...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Have you entered the Anniversary Giveaway for your chance to win a free coaching session? Share your opinion and be automatically entered to win 1 of 3 FREE coaching sessions with Jenniel. Enter to Win Here: https://sthyearonegiveaway.grwebsite.com/   Today, I’m talking with Karen Deloach. Karen is an artist/ art mentor, author, actor, and creativity specialist. She teaches...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 We’ve all heard of fear failure, but have you considered that fear of success may also hold you back? If you’ve ever hesitated to pursue a dream or if you tent to downplay your achievements, you might be experiencing a fear of success, a surprisingly common hurdle even for Christian women. Fear of success isn't about laziness. It's a complex web of anxieties that can hold y...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 It is the anniversary month of the Shades of Trauma Healing podcast, and I have a special announcement and giveaway for you. Listen to the episode to find out more and see the link below to participate. In this episode, we explore the topic of emotional breakdowns, specifically for Christian women healing from childhood trauma. I’ll share more about what is an emotional bre...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Staying consistent with trauma healing habits is crucial for long-term progress and recovery. Consistency allows you to build momentum and make steady progress in your healing journey. Regular engagement in healing habits reinforces positive behaviors.   Today I have six tips to help you maintain consistency.   With Healing and Love 😊   Jenniel   🌟Your Next Steps🌟   👉...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 I’m talking with trauma survivor Katy Parker today about her journey from unprocessed childhood trauma that was brought to light after an accident. Following the accident, Katy was diagnosed with PTSD and had to learn to navigate a new reality. Her journey includes journaling during lockdown in hospital, grieving and facing the pain of the past, finding purpose in her pain...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Setting boundaries is an important aspect of self-care and maintaining healthy relationships. Yet, it is so difficult for Christian women to do so, partly because of beliefs and partly because they don’t know how. I’m a firm advocate of healthy boundaries, and today, I’ll share five quick tips for setting boundaries so you can enjoy emotional wellness and healthier relati...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 I’ll be talking about coping mechanisms today, but not just the ones that you consider to be "bad" or that go against your values or health principles. I’ll be exploring how every day, even good activities, can be used as ways to self-soothe, distract and avoid the pain of trauma. I’ll explain how to determine whether your behaviors are healthy or used as a coping mechanism...