Relationships and Relatable Life Chronicles

I'm putting this episode out after missing putting out an episode on Monday. I've never missed putting out an episode since I started podcasting. I was in an area hit hard by the storm. This episode talks about people who you allow into your life. Bottom line is whatever or whomever you allow to cause you problems will do just that. Unfortunately, many people are in relationships with manipulative...

When you go through life trying to please and appease others you normally end up losing a sense of who you are. Not having the will to say no will make you always be that person to say yes, which leads to a lot of unnecessary drama and self-inflicted pain. You have no peace because it is you who gave it up. People treat you exactly how you have taught them and how you've allowed. Become a supporte...

Although it may hurt, it isn't the end of the world. Some of you totally disregard the fact that they DON'T want you. You only see what you want (you wanting them), which is why you're suffering so much. You allow them not wanting you to alter your life in a negative way. If a person doesn't want you, it should give you enough strength to want better for yourself and move on. Unfortunately, many p...

Everything we do begins with a thought! You're in your own way and your mindset is your greatest enemy. Staying in the same negative place (mindset) is a choice no one should make. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support .

What else is there to say? Unfortunately, due to the hearts and minds of many, there is a lot more to say, because people don't want to hear the truth. If it's wrong, it's wrong for you! You can't see it until you can see past your feelings, wants, desires, and what you see. You can't see past it until you allow healing in your life. Stop chasing love, when you don't love yourself or know what lov...

Sadly, the one person most people need to give attention to is the one who doesn't get it, which is self.  That inner you is who's neglected the most and because of it people are living their lives in despair. Prisoners to their own wrong ways of thinking. The focus of most people is in the wrong place. You can't become better if you remain the same! Allow yourself to heal from your past pains. If...

Most people look outward for love, only to get everything but love in return! It is the reason most people never experience true love. Looking for some to love, validate, and complete you, will always having you chasing and seeking after love. If you want to know what love feels and look like, look inward. You must first learn to love yourself. Allow the inner you to heal so you can move on to bec...

A parent can make or break their children. The sad part is because of unhealed hearts and minds, people can't see the damage they're doing to their children. They can't see the devastation they're causing in the children's lives. Many people are unhealed adults who are still carrying around past pain that has hindered and tainted their lives. Unfortunately many of these people are parents who proj...

You can't mature, grow, and progress by remaining mentally where you've always been. There's no way you can get past something you refuse to let go of. You can't let go until you allow yourself to heal and become better. Many people, although grown in age, have not mentally matured because of remaining stuck in the mental states they've always been in. When people don't heal from their issues they...

Most people in the world are holding on to pains they should have let go, long ago. The past is gone forever, yet most people allow the memories of their bad experiences to ruin their lives. When you carry that baggage it taints you and causes you to lead a dysfunctional lives. People are carrying old pain and is allowing it to affect them in many ways. If you don't let go of the baggage, you can'...

This is one of the biggest problems people face in life. They compromise their mental health for love, when it isn't love at all. People have gone to the extreme only to end up with mental health issues. If someone is bringing that much stress into your life, it's because you have given them permission to do so. When you allow it, it's considered as self-inflicted. Become a supporter of this podca...

The Bible is the most controversial book in the entire world.  That alone, is a phenomonen? There are millions of book people haven't heard of, but everyone has heard of the Bible. Don't just know of the Bible; read it, and live it! It will change your life! People seek after everything in this world, but I'm here to tell you that the "Good Book" has everything you need! Become a supporter of this...

Too many people blame self when they're cheated on, but truth is although many cheaters will have 101 excuses, you're not to blame. A cheater will cheat, because that's who they are and what they've become comfortable with. It's a problem within the individual. If you're an insecure person you may be manipulated into thinking it's your fault. It's NOT!! Cheaters are individuals with their own issu...

This mindset affect many facets of a person's life. Most people go through life inflicting pain upon themselves because of their own mindsets. Unfortunately, because people haven't healed from their pains, they allow drama and chaos from others into their lives. Self inflicted pain is real! You must know and love yourself enough to let go of the pain that's keeping you stuck! Stop giving your powe...

It's NOT their fault, it's yours! You are responsible and accountable for who and/or what you allow into your life! If you find yourself not being able to walk away from something or someone that's not good for you, the person responsible is self. You can't walk away because of who YOU are. You got into that situation because of who YOU are. You're the one, with the power to change your life! Beco...

Going through life with your own unhealed inner issues, allowing those of others, and along everything life throws at you, makes you worse when you aren't trying to become better. People go through life holding on to negativity and projecting it too! You can't become better by remaining the same with the same ole mindset. Everything and everyone along the way will affect you negatively because of...

It's a very unfortuante thing, the many people who don't care what they have to do to get what they want or who they want. Anyone with this type of mindset is a person who is bringing drama and self inflicted pain into their own life. Any time a person don't care what they have to do, they will end up doing anything! These types of people are dangerous because they lack integrity and honest. In th...

I do understand there are some people who live under the same roof, but aren't actually together as husband and wife. However, they are still husband and wife, if they're still married. Some people says it's such paperwork. Well, funny thing is it took paperwork to get you married and therefore, it will take paperwork to get you divorced. People want to make all types of excuses, but the bottom li...

Many people are walking around with eyes to see, but they're blind of freewill. They're blind because they want what they want and who they want. Most people don't care about the drama they have to endure, they want what and who they want. Unfortunately this mindset leads many into bad situations and unhealthy relationships. This is a clear sign of a person with an unhealed heart and mind.  You're...

Most people have unhealed hearts and minds, which comes from past bad experiences and trauma. How you allow your past pains to affect you, falls on you! You can choose to live a cycle in life, or you can choose to become the best you possible. You're responsible and accountable for your OWN life!! It's not your trauma or past bad experiences that's the problem, it's you! The mindset you have can m...

You never know who you're dealing with when you're out there cheating/messing around. Many people think they're slick until they are caught up in unnecessary drama. Be careful, becuase while you're playing around, the other person isn't! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support .

Most people lose self, while focused on their significant others even when they're being treated like crap. Whatever you allow from your significant other is exactly what you'll get. When you're angry and hurt about it, look at the person staring back at you in the mirror. It falls on you. If you take it, they will give it. When you heal from your pain, you become a better person, one who loves hi...

 Hearts have truly wax cold. There is so much murdering going on. The devil is busy doing what he does, killing, stealing, and destroying. He's tricking people into doing the unthinkable, because they've given him entry through thier negative thoughts. If you let the devil in, he will try to take over, and will; if you let him. People are murdering out of anger, hurt, old pain, etc. Others are mur...

Most people are unhappy in their relationships, because their relationships are unhealthy. I don't care how much you love someone, you have to put in the work to make it work. However, it shouldn't be hardwork. Too many people settle for unhealthy relationships and think it's the best they'll ever have. Most people just want to be with someone, and unfortunately, many people settle for just that;...

Who you love and how you love is determined by your mindset and their mindset. In relationships, most people put all of their everything into who they're with, while the other person isn't treating them the same way. People settle for one-sided love and it's normally that love, which comes along with a lot of unnecessary drama. As I always say, if a person isn't enhancing your life then, they're t...