Radical Creative Sanctuary

Wait, what? Can’t remember what you were “supposed” to be doing? Deep into a project and then…you feel kinda lost? This is your pep talk about regrouping, redefining, realigning – and why it is not just something you do when you’ve gone “off track”. In fact, making reassessing part of your practice is its own […] The post Time to Realign appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

What if you think marriage is bullshit? Or a huge letdown? Or undeniably anti-feminist? What if you love the idea of loving yourself forever but the word marriage is just….ew? In this episode Danette makes a case for reclaiming the idea of marriage, including the role it has played in the success of her 20 […] The post Reclaim Your Marriage Baggage appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuar...

Sometimes the hardest thing to do is notice how easy it could be. And sometimes we do need some help to access our own strength. It’s not a willpower problem. Listen in to be reminded that you have everything you need right where you are. Want to take a workshop with Danette to help you […] The post You Have the Key appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Making space for a new feeling? Decluttering is one of Danette’s favourite self care practices. In this episode, she shares her 5 favourite questions to ask when deciding what items to keep or release. The post Favourite Decluttering Questions appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Sometimes the win doesn’t look the way you think it should. And those are the sneaky celebrations – so sneaky they almost go unnoticed. But you deserve the confidence that comes with noticing how you have changed. Sometimes the growth is in out-growing goals you set when you didn’t yet know how much more amazing […] The post Sneaky Celebrations appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

If you often rush from one project to the next without slowing down to feel your achievements, this is for you. This is a reminder to stop and allow yourself the fruit of your labour. In this episode, Danette shares some phrases you can use to practice receiving, and one little tweak that makes all […] The post Do You Rush Through Receiving? appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

As things begin to “open up” after lockdowns, you may find yourself feeling pressured to move faster than you are comfortable. What if you took lessons from responsible kink to help you navigate your post lockdown transition? They have more in common than you might think. theartofselfmarriage.comradicalcreativesanctuary.comallisontarr.comtechcoven.com The post Be a Good Lover to Your Post-Lockdown...

How quickly personal growth can turn against us! When you strive to be your best self, it can be easily to slip out of love and into fix-it mode. Being in a relationship where you’re never quite good enough is a special kind of pain…especially when that relationship is with yourself. This is for you […] The post You’re a Person, Not a Project appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Marrying yourself and dating other people? Maybe for the first time? Not sure how to talk about it or nervous about the response you’ll get? In this episode, Danette helps you imagine what a catch you’d be by listing the perks of dating someone who has already married themselves. theartofselfmarriage.com The post Why Date Someone Who Has Married Themselves? appeared first on Radical Creative Sanct...

Who wants pain? How can a strong self marriage save you – and others – unnecessary pain? It’s like travelling with or without a compass. You might still get a little lost along the way, but having the clarity of direction can make all the difference. Theartofselfmarriage.com The post How Self Marriage Saves You Unnecessary Pain appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

So often we think we’ve decided on something but we really haven’t. What happens to our energy when we do that? What do we miss out on, by not making the commitment of choice? Especially when it comes to growing and learning, making a conscious decision can make all the difference. In this episode Danette […] The post The Gift of Decision appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

If Soul Mates aren’t loot bags that get handed out to everyone. And relationships with others don’t solve all your problems, as you may already know. What are you waiting for? Are there experiences your heart wants but you are not allowing yourself…until? Until you meet “the one” or are gifted something from an external […] The post You Can Stop Waiting appeared first on Radical Creative San...

How can you date yourself when in a lockdown? How do you know if you really are committed to something? Do you force yourself to finish every book you start? What does that have to do with self love? In this episode, Danette speaks from the heart (and from a playground!) offering many journal prompts […] The post Solo Dates and Commitment appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Why do we fantasize about dating musicians? Danette shares her theory that goes beyond “feeling cool” and explores what we might really be after when we want to be the subject of an artist’s admiration. What does it mean to “love like an artist” and how can we do that for ourselves? The Art of […] The post Love like an Artist appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Have your self-visualization tools lost their spark? Were you a perky little personal growth nerd once and now feel a little….stale? What does it mean to be a fully realized you? What is the difference between a dreamy future self and an unattainable desire of “perfection”? What does self marriage have to offer in this? […] The post Fully Realized You appeared first on Radical Creative Sanct...

Of course you can love yourself without ever marrying yourself. Lots of people love their partners and sometimes spend decades in a committed relationship without ever saying “I do”. So how might self marriage serve you? In this episode Danette shares the 5 ways in which self marriage serves you as a container for your […] The post Self Marriage as a Container appeared first on Radical Creat...