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This is the second episode of 2026, and once again, we’re joined by Ben, who is currently living in Spain. Our last conversation ended on a cliffhanger, so this episode continues the discussion on how people in China, the UK, and Spain perceive happiness. What truly makes people feel fulfilled? Let’s explore and reflect together. 2026年的第二期节目，继续邀请住在西班牙的Ben老师加入聊天。 上期聊到一...

In this episode, we dive into why micro-dramas have exploded in China — from emotional triggers to the so-called “instant pleasure economy.” We break down the traffic logic, commercial model and addiction mechanisms behind the trend. After this chat, you might rethink whether you’re really enjoying the shows or being driven by the algorithm. 本期节目我们一起聊聊“短剧”为啥能在国内突然爆火——从爽点经...

In this episode, Annie and Ben compare life in China, the UK, and Spain, exploring how different cultures understand happiness, daily life, and what it means to live well. We discuss lifestyle habits, work–life balance, social values, friendships, family expectations, and how each country shapes people’s sense of comfort and satisfaction. Why do some people feel happier in slower-paced cultures? W...

In this special year-end episode, Annie and Kerin look back on 2025 and share our personal growth and the growth of our podcast. We talk about the most memorable moments of the year, the challenges we faced, the changes we experienced, and how this year shaped who we are today. We also share our vision for the future of the podcast — new topics, new formats, and how we hope to connect with more Ch...

Social media has become a huge part of our lives — but is it helping us feel more connected, or is it silently pushing us further apart?  In this episode, we explore how platforms like WeChat, Xiaohongshu, Instagram, and TikTok shape our relationships, communication habits, and even our mental health. We also discuss why young people prefer “浅交往” and how online interactions are changing modern...

In this episode, we explore the rise of new professions in China, from AI system testers and drone flight planners to sleep health managers and rural economy coordinators. As China’s economy transforms and technology develops rapidly, many emerging jobs reflect the changing values and lifestyles of young people — emphasizing creativity, flexibility, and work-life balance. We also discuss what thes...

Netflix has changed the way we watch shows and movies worldwide. In this video, we explore why Netflix became so successful and the challenges it may face in the future. From content strategy to global expansion, we break down the secrets behind its growth. Join us to understand the world of streaming entertainment. 奈飞已经改变了全球人观看电视剧和电影的方式。在本期视频中，我们探讨了奈飞为何如此成...

By avoiding small, impulsive purchases, identity-driven spending, and anxiety-based shopping, you can save more without feeling deprived. Learn 3 simple “don’t buy” rules that turn everyday habits into wealth-building strategies. Start respecting your hard-earned money and watch your savings grow. 通过避免小额冲动消费、身份标签消费和未来焦虑消费，你可以轻松存钱而不感到克制。了解这三个简单的“不买”...

In this episode, we discuss the rapid rise of medical aesthetics (医美) among China’s younger generation. From subtle cosmetic treatments like fillers, light therapy, and skin rejuvenation, to the growing culture of “anti-aging as self-care,” beauty is no longer just vanity — it’s a lifestyle. 💉✨ We explore why more young people are turning to medical aesthetics, what this trend says about socia...

Today we’re talking about Zero-Sugar Socialising. “Zero-sugar” means low-sweet, low-sticky relationships — keeping comfortable distance and personal space. Since the pandemic, more people prefer this low-pressure, relaxed way of connecting. Do you prefer intense closeness, or calm companionship with space to breathe? 今天我们聊一聊 零糖社交。 “零糖”就是少甜、少黏的社交方式——保持舒适的距离和独立空...

In this episode, we talk about the rise of new-style tea drinks (新茶饮) in China — from HeyTea to Mixue Bingcheng, these brands are not only popular among young people but also changing the country’s economy. How does bubble tea connect with rural development, supply chains, and global expansion? And why has milk tea become a symbol of youth culture and emotional comfort in China? Perfect for int...

In this podcast, we talk about the rise of child influencers in China — kids who appear in livestreams, short videos, or reality shows. Why do so many parents let their children become online stars? What are the benefits and hidden risks behind fame at such a young age? We explore this issue from the perspectives of education, family, social values, and mental health . Perfect for intermediate and...

News about Barbie Hsu’s passing has sparked talks about inheritance and wills. 💰  Many avoid this topic, but without a will, family disputes can happen. 📜  Is writing a will really necessary?  Let’s talk about why it matters for everyone. 👇 大S（徐熙媛）去世的消息引发了关于遗产和遗嘱的讨论。💰  很多人避讳这个话题，但没有遗嘱容易引发家庭纠纷。📜  立遗嘱真的有必要吗？  我们一起来聊聊为什么每个人...

In this episode, we discuss emotional spending. What is it, and why are people willing to spend money to improve their mood or relieve stress? From massages, spa sessions, concerts, movies, to buying small items that make you happy — these are all examples of emotional spending. We explore the psychology behind it and compare attitudes toward emotional spending between Chinese and Western cultures...

In this episode , we dive into the rising trend of “buddy culture” in China. From gym buddies to lunch buddies to even parenting buddies – more and more people are choosing companionship without commitment. Is this a smart and efficient way to deal with loneliness, or does it lead to shallow relationships and emotional detachment? We share personal stories, pros and cons, and ask: Do you really ne...

In this episode, we dive into the hot topic of Xibei restaurants and pre-packaged food in China. We discuss why pre-packaged meals have sparked controversy domestically, while comparing how similar products are received in Western markets. By exploring cultural habits, convenience, and taste preferences, we aim to uncover the differences in attitudes between Chinese and Western consumers. 在本期节...

📌 English Description In this special episode, we answer questions from our listeners about the podcast itself: Why did we choose this name? What kind of content can you expect here? What style and atmosphere do we want to create? Most importantly: How can you use our podcast to improve your Chinese? We share the story behind the podcast, our vision, and practical tips on how to listen, take note...

In Chinese culture, saying “no” directly can be seen as rude or impolite. People often choose to be vague or give indirect responses, even when they want to decline. In this video, I’ll explore the cultural reasons why many Chinese people find it hard to say "no," and how this differs from Western communication styles — especially in the UK and the US. This is a key part of understanding...

Some people insist on making life harder than it needs to be — whether to save money, out of habit, or because of deep-rooted beliefs — even when modern technology could make life much easier. In this episode, we discuss: What does “无苦硬吃” (enduring unnecessary hardship) mean? Why do some people refuse to make life easier? How modern tools and technology can improve quality of life Balancing ha...

In this podcast, Kerin and I talk about our summer trips — I traveled to Africa, and she went to Dubai. We share our stories and reflections, and also discuss: Why do we travel? What does travel really mean in our lives? How does travel change our perspective of the world and ourselves? Is it about “seeing sights” or “experiencing life”? 🎧 Perfect for intermediate to advanced Chinese learners. Im...

AI can now write stories, create art, and even become a companion for your emotions. In this episode, we explore: How can AI provide emotional support to humans? Why are more young people in China turning to AI chatbots for comfort? The benefits and risks of emotional AI companionship Could human–AI relationships ever become “real” love? 🎧 This podcast is designed for intermediate to advanced Chi...

Should we enjoy life now or save it for the future? In this episode, we explore one of the biggest dilemmas of modern life — Delayed Gratification vs Instant Enjoyment. What does "delayed gratification" really mean? Why are more and more young people choosing to enjoy the present? What are the psychological and cultural differences behind these choices? 🎧 This podcast is designed for in...

In this episode, we discuss a question many overseas Chinese face: Should we stay and build a life abroad, or return to China for a new chapter? We share our own stories, what we’ve heard from friends, and the key factors influencing such decisions — from children's education to caring for ageing parents, career opportunities, cultural identity, and more. Have you thought about moving back to...

In this podcast episode,we talk  about the stereotypes people often have about Chinese people: Are Chinese people really all good at math? Do they really avoid expressing emotions? What about stereotypes like “eating dog meat” or “lacking privacy boundaries”? We explore where these ideas come from, which are true, and which are misunderstandings. We’ll also discuss stereotypes Chinese people may h...

In this episode,  we talk about the importance of emotional stability in everyday life. Whether it's work pressure, family stress, or relationship conflicts, staying emotionally steady often determines how well we deal with challenges. Emotional stability doesn’t mean never getting angry — it’s about learning how to manage our reactions. Tune in to hear our real-life stories and thoughts on e...