New Dad Order

Why are kids quitting sports at record levels? In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons behind youth sports burnout—and what parents, coaches, and kids are getting wrong. From shocking statistics like 70% of kids quitting by age 13 to the pressure of travel sports, specialization, and rising costs, this conversation dives deep into the hidden factor...

In this New Dad Order conversation, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons youth athletes walk away — from rising costs and travel ball pressure to divorce, scheduling conflicts, and parental influence. Is it burnout? Is it money? Or are parents unknowingly pushing kids out of sports? This episode dives into:The true cost of youth sports todayHow divorce and parenting schedules impact commitm...

In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons kids are quitting youth sports at record levels. From travel ball burnout and parent pressure to time demands and the rise of gaming, we dive into what’s driving this trend—and whether quitting is always a bad thing. We also compare today’s youth sports culture to past generations, discuss rec vs travel vs school sports,...

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive deep into one of the biggest debates in youth sports today — should kids be allowed to quit? From travel baseball and soccer to burnout, pressure, and parenting philosophies, this conversation breaks down the real reasons kids walk away from sports. Is it lack of passion? Too much pressure? Or are we raising a generation that avoid...

In this episode of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray and Parfait break down a surprisingly popular topic in fitness culture: what’s actually inside a gym bag — and what it says about your training style. Ray represents the traditional gym lifter, bringing practical, affordable essentials like wrist wraps, knee sleeves, boxing gloves, and a classic gym bag setup focused on strength training and consis...

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait dive into the world of fitness, gym culture, and the never-ending debate between CrossFit training and traditional weightlifting. Ray shares his return to the gym after a break, talking about rebuilding momentum, leg day routines, and the importance of consistency. From hack squats and leg extensions to ego lifting and HIIT traini...

Youth sports are supposed to build character — but what happens when adults let ego get in the way? In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the reality of travel baseball, toxic coaching, parenting regret, and leadership in youth sports. Parfait shares a wild travel baseball tournament story involving a coach who crossed the line during a 10U game — and how moments like that g...

In this episode of New Dad Order , Ray and Parfait break down the Super Bowl from every angle — the defensive battle on the field, the controversial Bad Bunny halftime show, and the redemption arc of Sam Darnold going from draft disappointment to Super Bowl champion. Was the game really boring… or just old-school football? Did the halftime show deserve the social media outrage? And is Roger Goodel...

Is the new high-protein food pyramid a real step toward better health—or just the next marketing scam? In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast , the hosts start with music, workouts, and unexpected Bruno Mars appreciation before diving headfirst into a raw, honest conversation about nutrition, protein diets, processed food, and corporate influence . As protein becomes the latest health buzzwo...

In this episode of New Dad Order , we have an honest and unfiltered conversation about modern fatherhood and why so many dads quietly feel invisible in their families, marriages, and daily lives. Fatherhood today often comes with clear expectations: provide, protect, and stay strong. But what rarely gets discussed is the emotional weight that comes with those roles. We dive into men’s mental healt...

Burnout is quietly affecting more dads than ever—and many don’t realize they’re experiencing it. In this episode of New Dad Order , we break down the six key signs of dad burnout , including emotional exhaustion, irritability, lack of motivation, detachment, poor sleep, and neglecting self-care. Through real-life stories and honest conversation, we explore how burnout develops over time through wo...

In this episode of New Dad Order , the hosts sit down for an honest, wide-ranging conversation about the state of America, global power, and the narratives shaping public opinion. What starts with a brief discussion on the NFL and leadership quickly evolves into deeper topics surrounding immigration enforcement, media influence, artificial intelligence, and U.S. foreign policy. A central focus of...

In this powerful episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive into why New Year’s resolutions so often fail—and what actually makes fathers, husbands, and families better over time. Instead of empty promises made on January 1st, this episode focuses on discipline, presence, and leadership inside the home. Parfait shares how his biggest life change didn’t happen because of a New Year’s resolution...

Navy veteran and father of three Charles Lyle shares his deeply personal story of resilience, faith, and rebuilding life after trauma, loss, and military service. From growing up in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina to serving as a Navy airman, Charles reveals how adversity shaped both the man and the father he has become. Charles describes how Katrina destroyed his childhood in Bay St. Louis, Mi...

New Dad Order – Episode 37 is a thoughtful, wide-ranging conversation about modern fatherhood, youth sports, resilience, and intentional parenting, featuring the real-life experiences of a former Division I athlete, attorney, coach, and dads. The episode explores how early life lessons, career pressure, natural disasters, and sports culture shape the way men show up as fathers today. The discussio...

In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the college football coaching carousel, reacting to Lane Kiffin leaving Ole Miss for LSU and the ripple effects it creates across the SEC and the national landscape. This conversation tackles the complicated intersection of NIL, the transfer portal, early signing day, and the evolving expectations placed on modern college coaches. Wh...

Will AI destroy us, or are we panicking about the wrong things? Through a fast-paced and honest conversation, we explore how artificial intelligence, social media, screen addiction, and technology are shaping modern life—and whether any of it actually threatens humanity. The discussion begins with the widespread belief that social media is destroying society. But the hosts challenge this idea, arg...

The Dad Rules Compilation explores a humorous yet relatable set of “dad rules” covering fitness etiquette, grocery store behavior, men’s fashion, and the culture of fatherhood. Blending real-life scenarios with bold opinions, the conversation outlines what it means to be a modern dad—and what behaviors should be avoided. A major focus of the discussion is gym etiquette. The hosts emphasize that da...

In this episode, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the real meaning of failure, discipline, and doing hard things—and how these principles shape success in sports, business, parenting, and everyday life. They break down why people fear failure, why excuses become our biggest obstacle, and how building discipline through small daily challenges leads to long-term growth. Sports becomes a central metaph...

In a special Father’s Day episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait welcome their longtime friend and first guest, Jason Lipscomb, a local real estate mogul and entrepreneur from Ponchatoula, Louisiana. Jason’s inspiring journey from dealing cards at poker tables to becoming a top-producing real estate broker, investor, and restaurateur highlights the power of hustle, motivation,...

New Dad Order, welcomes Ernie M. Burns, Jr., President & CEO of Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors and host of the TV show Total Retirement with Ernie Burns. With over 30 years of experience in retirement income planning, Ernie shares his personal journey of resilience, faith, and discipline, along with expert insights on retirement planning, wealth management, estate planning, and fi...

In this episode of The New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down what it truly means to have “Ice in the Veins” — that elite-level calm under pressure that separates average performers from true leaders. Drawing from college football memories, parenting lessons, and the psychology of performance, they unpack how emotional control, preparation, and resilience build both great athletes and confident...

This episode explores the often-unspoken reality behind modern masculinity — where strength and vulnerability collide. This episode dives deep into the emotional struggles men face in silence, the pressure to “be the rock,” and the hidden cost of suppressing pain. Hosts Ray and Parfait open a real conversation about how men can carry strength without losing their humanity, combining stoic principl...

In Episode 30 of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait dive into the unspoken rules of emotional intelligence, and conversation skills. The episode opens with a relatable truth—how men often default to saying “I’m good” even when they’re not. It’s a cultural shorthand for emotional restraint, politeness, and control, but it can also isolate men from real connection. The hosts explore ho...

In this episode of the Water to Wine Podcast, two dads open up about faith, family, and friendship—and how God often turns the simple, ordinary moments of life into the “good wine” that nourishes our souls. Drawing inspiration from Jesus’ first miracle at Cana, they explore what it means to live out faith not just in church, but in marriage, parenting, and daily relationships. One host shares how...