M’s Perspective

Why do we get married nowadays? Is it for status, so that we have someone to call our own (property)? is it because of peer/family pressure, or is it the idea of feeling as if we’re running out of time or even because it has become “a trend”? Are we getting married because we are genuinely ready or Is it because of the above reasons?

Is Love really about that one person or there is more to love? Should love be defined by society or our own beliefs of what it should be?

Is it fair to blame culture for how women are mistreated by the men? Should men be held accountable or culture?. I quiet believe that if we change our mentality then culture will fall into place itself. Therefore that being said, who is really to blame for how women are perceived and treated??

What comes or who comes to your mind when someone says Relationships?

How can you be a show off and still expect to be respected or liked? Sorry to say but you know those peers who tolerate your attitude it’s not because they like you or respect you but rather because they have their own selfish insecurities leading to them tolerating you. How is it hard for some to just be satisfied by minding their own business and not feel the need to downgrade other to feel good...

You do know there are different ways to enjoying life right? Then why do you always feel as if your ways are the main ways of how everyone defines “enjoying life”? Btw the same reason you give of why your way is the way to go about enjoying life, just a remind it’s the same way that someone can use to criticise you simply because they see it different. That’s why now this question comes out to you...

How is your Image affecting where you wanna be now or what you want to do? Is this due to the fact that you’re scared to change people’s perspective of who you are or you’ve just gotten comfortable within that image of yours? You do realise you can reshape what people think of you since you’re the one who gave them what to think about you in the 1st place....? It’s On You To Get Where You Wanna Be...

Do we not forgive because that’s who we are, or is that what the world has made us believe? Has the world made us so heartless and so egotistic that we are more likely to lose something good for ourselves just because we ain’t willing to forgive? Do you agree that the world has normalised some things to be forgiven and some others to not be? Yes/No!? But that’s the world’s, What is yours? Just bec...

So what if you couldn’t make it into your chosen career, so what if you’ve invested so much time into it, what if...that’s just one career out of other thousand careers out there, why don’t you chose something from there. Success does not just end at your passionate career, success can still be achieved even in the career you hate, why don’t you give it a go and see...

You Set Those Goals By Yourself Then Be Responsible For Them. Don’t Burden others For Them. It not fair how we feel the need to burden others with our success as if they already don’t have so much going on in their lives. It’s like we are always needing them to remind us what we owe to do as if they were there the time we set our mind into achieving whatever we think they can motivate us with. Pie...

Everything that happens to us is unpredictable, of course some thing are the type that we might have seen coming but others we didn’t. Now when all that happens, what do you do about it, how do you go about it? Do you say life happens and you move on and try to make the experience worthwhile or do you say life happens and still go about it negatively by projecting bad things about yourself that yo...

If you stop loving because of them, you then become them. Don’t become heartless for someone else’s heartless. Their Betrayal shouldn’t change how you LOVE or CARE For People. Don’t take away One Gift that God has blessed you with For their lack of love or affection for others. Keep yours and maybe that will be something that would draw them closer to it again....

It’s about time we all take ownership for the scars our nationalities and ethnicities are enduring. We can’t be out here trying to find someone to blame for the hate they endure ignoring the fact that we are the cause of it. We portrayed that about ourselves and yet here we are asking questions like “why do they hate us”As if we Don’t know why. We are the reason, how about we now own up to it. We...

My nationality and who I am are One, if I criticise them I criticise Myself. I don’t know why we are so busy criticising our own nationalities thinking that other nationalities don’t have some major issues within them. Yes of course we can only speak for what we know and within that lies your misunderstanding of what you know nothing about. The Less you know the more you love and the more you know...

How can I succeed when 1st I’m blackmailed to take part in what I ain’t Good at? Why am I burdened with your failures? Despite of what background you are you, can’t be in denial of the fact that You’ve been given this type of a Burden to carry which you don’t want to. We are all victimised by what our people think and we feel like we owe to go about life the way they want us too when in actual fac...

We sometime have to stop blaming others or the World for our downfalls. It’s not fair. We are so in denial about every flaws that are within in us that we start projecting those flaws in others making it more easier to blame them for all the negativity that are going on in our lives. Like, that needs to stop. Your in denial of not accepting that you’re not perfect and always feeling the need to pu...

Just Because They Put You 1st Doesn’t Mean They Respect You.......Why do You always feel the need to follow others schedules by rescheduling Yours? Why do You think that You can’t say no to someone if they need a favour as if You are obligated to give it? Are You though? Not sure about You but on this end You don’t, especially if that’s making You put yourself on hold for them. And You’re out here...

It’s so simple to give advices but it’s so hard to practice the same advices you offer. Stop trying to make people who genuinely seek for your advice an experiment 🧪 for you. Even to those who’ve experienced the advice they might be seeking, also try letting people have an option of what to take from your advice or not, don’t impose it on them. Just because you might have had a bad one doesn’t me...

BE YOU! But which me? The emotional me? The me that acts like I can’t talk back when I can? The me who allows you to say whatever about me and says nothing back? Or the me who can answer back. Which me exactly are you referring to because I have a lot of me within me that I am not aware of either. So please be more specific. Just because I am acting different doesn’t mean I am not the one you’ve a...

Who are you to determine that tomorrow won’t exist? What if it does exist? what are you going to do when you were so focused about the day you had yesterday that you forgot to reserve for it?. If we are going to focus more on negativity of what tomorrow will hold, we will never reserve anything positive for it. We should stop allowing our today to affect our tomorrow as if it does not exist becaus...

It’s so hard to understand how we are told that the only way we can access happiness is by sacrificing something. And the question begs here on how can one be happy by giving up what makes them happy? HOW!?

Why are we filled with so much negativity within us? Why can’t we just look at things/life in a positive way? How can we keep pushing when we are just being negative about everything? Not quiet sure about some of you but for some I believe that the only way to keep you moving forward is when you are being positive with everything that life throws at you. Why can’t we just embrace it as it comes an...

It’s important that we know the type of encouragement that can positively impact us and the type that can lead to our downfall. Why can’t we be honest with our encouragements to those we care about? Why do we always feel like we are in competition with them? If your encouragement is not coming truely within and somewhere within you you’re waiting for my downfall, then don’t give it.

Continued episode of episode 13. How do you exist if you’ve become who inspires You. Do you still exist and if so in which way? Does your existence and who God has made you even matter to you? You do realise we are all made different for a reason? Then why them and not You? Stop choosing others over yourself and be happy with “who your are” and what you have.

Let’s all be careful of whose life we wish for. It’s okay to be inspired of course, however, what baggage comes with those who inspire us is something that is less talked about. Of course those who inspire us have a positive impact of who we should be but it’s important to acknowledge that they also do impact us negatively on who we owe to be. What are we losing by focusing so much on those who in...