Live Your Why

Do your parents still get in the middle of your marriage? Is your mother-in-law wanting equal voice in the plans you are trying to make!? THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU! In my practice, couples frequently get into struggles because they don't know how to truly cleave together.  This short episode is packed full of great ways to establish your marriage as your first priority!

This is information that EVERY COUPLE needs to understand!!

Have you met Geoff Steurer!? He hosts the "From Crisis to Connection" podcast and is an amazing therapist. He's on the Live Your Why podcast talking about dealing with porn in marriage. Look him up on Instagram @geoffsteurer

00:00-04:40 Introduction to erotic discipleship  04:41-07:20 Jennifer’s thoughts on sexual thinking + discipleship  07:21-08:28 Tammy’s thoughts on discipleship  08:29-13:27moral frameworks and adjusting our thinking about sexuality  13:28-16:06 Our Heavenly Parents  16:07-16:48 Appreciating our bodies  16:49-21:39 Wisdom and sexuality  21:40-23:56 Accountability and trauma  23:57-32:45 Past sins...

This episode is for anyone not currently living in a married relationship, who is also striving to live personal covenants with God. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and I discuss having sexual integrity while being single.

This fun episode with life coach, Jody Moore, is perfect for anyone wanting to understand how to live aligned and emotionally regulate. Don't miss this amazing Live Your Why podcast episode!

00:00-01:00 - Introduction  01:00-07:33 - Why understanding female orgasm is important 07:33-08:55 - All about Jennifer Finlayson-Fife 08:55-15:08 - Culture and gender's influences in discovering pleasure 15:08-19:09 - The brain as an important factor in female orgasm 19:09-25:00 - Learning to surrender 25:00-31:25 - The importance of connection and commitment 31:25-38:00  - The Psychological...

This science, research-based episode will give you important information on how to really show love for the men in your life.

Soooo many couples struggle with learning how to make decisions together. This Live Your Why podcast episode will give you some important ideas around partnership marriages. Listen as Hank Smith and I tackle the tough topic of presiding and equal partnership.

Making friends as a newly married couple can be SO tricky!! My dear friend, Hank Smith, shares some great suggestions on. this Live Your Why podcast episode.

Hank Smith and I share our thoughts on how to start married life together! This episode is so much fun and we share ideas for learning to live together in love!

This episode is SO fun! My friend, Hank Smith, discusses honeymoons with me!

Listen in as Hank Smith and I discuss several ways that couples can celebrate their marriage relationships. Hank is so much fun! Don't miss his insights to marriage.

NOTICE: I recorded this podcast episode prior to changing Season 4's focus. IT IS EXCELLENT! Have you heard of Erika Ettin, dating coach on Instagram? Account titled @alittlenudge ... She is fantastic! Her direct, no-nonsense approach to dating in the world today is refreshingly helpful. If you're single, or know someone who is ... LISTEN IN! Our conversation is fun, informative and very...

NOTICE: I recorded this episode prior to shifting the focus to Marriage & Sexuality in Season 4. It is excellent!  Do you know Trevor Hanson? He is amazing! He specializes in helping people find and keep secure relationships.  Listen in to this podcast and learn more about overcoming Dating Anxiety. I know when I taught at BYU, many students experienced this challenge. I love Trevor's app...

Scrupulosity is a form of OCD that affects about 5% of the Western population. It can be especially prevalent in religious communities, like members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I have worked with and know many people who experience this challenge. In marriage, where sexuality is an important part of the relationship, when one (or both) partner experiences scrupulosity, sexu...

You know that Brooke Romney writes all about how to help teenagers have manners and be kind, but have you ever heard about talking sex with teenagers!? This Live Your Why episode is excellent! Tammy and Brooke discuss talking with teens about sex AND about navigating a passionate marriage while teenagers are living at home. Listen and enjoy this informative and entertaining interview.

This Live Your Why episode is filled with important information for couples to understand as they navigate their sexual relationships. Men have different needs then women, but unfortunately in our culture, often feel shamed for experiencing sexual needs and wants. This conversation with marriage therapist, Daniel Burgess, is straightforward and helpful. Don't miss it!

Chelsie Dort is a woman who believes in prioritizing marriage and family life.  The diligence and energy she continuously puts into her family relationships is inspiring.  On the episode of Live Your Why, I visit with Chelsie about how she has created such a close, dynamic, and passionate marriage in the midst of real life responsibilities. Listen in and have some fun as I pick Chelsie's brai...

What do you think? Does the amount of money you earn impact your happiness in your sexual relationship? This episode of Live Your Why is an interview with Dr. Jeff Hill. His research has included how money impacts sexuality. This is such a fun episode with my most favorite person on the planet!

Do you ever feel so annoyed that your spouse never initiates sex? How about feeling frustrated that your spouse doesn't help out with the family, but always wants sex at bedtime? This interview with master marriage therapist, Elizabeth Earnshaw, has practical and proven strategies to help couples work through sexual resentment. Listen and learn! You won't regret it!

Tammy and Becky Squire @beckysquire discuss various religious family rituals on this week prior to April 2024 General Conference. Listen to this short episode and learn something that you can do to add depth to the time you share with your family.

In this episode of the Live Your Why Podcast, Tammy shares her personal witness of Jesus Christ and her gratitude for Easter. Listen to this short and inspired message.

This Live Your Why Podcast episode is a MUST LISTEN!! Tammy discusses the confusing religious messaging and personal shame that is too frequently associated with masturbation. Dr. Dean Busby, BYU School of Family Life professor and former co-teacher with Tammy in BYU's first Healthy Sexuality course, come together to talk about this important topic. If you are a parent, teacher, leader...PLEA...

Katie Runyan, owner of Faithful Fling and advocate for passionate marriage, is on the podcast today to answer Tammy's questions about sexual role playing and fantasy. If you've ever wanted to understand a little better how to get out of your comfort zone and get into something more ---listen in!  You will not regret it!