Kimology 411

I know we've talked about this before but Tick Tock was just reminding me how finding a new relationship is almost impossible today because of social media. Social media gives people access it's too easy to find the next branch.

It's very hard to not realize all the different things that you have to go through when you're grieving the end of a relationship. The biggest part is of course the relationship part and knowing that your present and your future are not going to be what you had imagined. But what I wasn't focusing on are all of the unanswered questions and things that we were dealing with while in a relationship /...

I kept asking myself how does your ex just move on to another person so fast. Move them into the house that you guys were living in and just act like everything is just fine. Well today on tick tock I came across a video that kind of resonated with me.

Today I heard on tick tock that once you get to sobriety the good thing about it is that you're going to live the best life you've ever had. Which means that leading up to alcoholism you were going through a lot of different things and you weren't able to deal with them on your own. So using alcohol to self medicate made you fall asleep believe things were better. But when you get to the other sid...

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I've walked in my neighborhood for over 30 years and have never had a time where I felt something was not right. But on Sunday I had that feeling and it's not a good feeling that women have to carry around all this caution because there are so many things out there that could be a threat to us. I would rather listen to my gut and be wrong than to ignore it and something bad happened.

So now there's a trend on Tick Tock with a bunch of women saying that you don't have to forgive. That it's okay that you like to carry around all the feelings and I would say the darkness I'm not sure what they say. We all know this is not a good way to live life. Yet here we are having people say, Young people, say it's okay if you're wronged you don't need to work on forgiveness.

This isn't the first time I got blamed for something I didn't do. And it will not be the last. But I'm okay if I have to be the bad guy it's not the first time and of course it's not going to be the last time. So blame away

I had so much fun last night going to movie night/comedy/karaoke! It's fun to be

Simply said you are responsible for you. And just because society says one thing doesn't mean you have to listen. But we're going to talk about stay-at-home moms and a couple other things I saw on tiktok.

Just because you forgive someone or something doesn't mean it's necessarily fixable.

For years I have been carrying around this wall! Something that protects your heart because we know when you give out your heart you have a very high potential of getting that heart hurt. But now I know I no longer need this wall. I know that I can get through anything that is handed to me so I no longer have to take the weight of this wall.

Today on Tick Tock videos a young woman who graduated from college with two degrees and a certificate was talking about how she was only being offered entry-level jobs.

There's a song on Tik Tok that is very popular right now. And of course Dax at the Grand Ole Opry talked about his struggle with addiction. This is very serious but it's even more serious when doctors decide to give you a pill without giving you other things to work on to make your life better. Or for people to think it's just easy enough to take a pill or take a shot to help them cope with life....

Tyson and I fill out the questions on eHarmony.

I definitely have more work to do. It's not easy when someone you trusted lies and cheats to you the entire time. It really makes you rethink a lot of stuff.

We have some more stuff to talk about. We will talk about some very serious things but we both believe our past situations might be able to help other people.

So I woke up too early this morning and scroll through Tick Tock to try to find something interesting to talk about. Here's some random topics that really aren't that interesting but it's all I got. California $20 minimum wage, eclipse, discipline your kids, narcissist, and more.

2024 is going to be a great year but before it can be a great year we've got a lot of things that are going to happen. People with high energy have been working overtime and it's time for other people to find their energy to help make this place a better place. Evil is all around us and it's just going to keep coming but there are more good people than there are bad and we need to make that shown.

Time lets you reflect back on why you did certain things. And I know that after my second divorce I went a little crazy and needed to fix some things that I felt were not correct. However that behavior allowed me to justify other people's current behavior which of course is not good. So in this podcast we're going to talk about why I was able to allow bad behavior in a relationship and how I was a...

I was so excited to go tonight to our chamber and your meeting where Tiffany was our guest performer! I always wanted to be a mall singer and I idolized Debbie Gibson and Tiffany. Today was busy but it ended with a lot of fun.

Today on Tick Tock we were watching about why some people are never single and other people it takes forever to find someone.

Scrolling through Tick Tock today I came across a video of a woman finally speaking the words I say. Why do we not hate the person that we used to love?

We are in a time where everything has to have a label. So let's break down the different types of narcissism.

The scrolling through Tick Tock and I came across a video that asked if I had ever just taken a look at myself and how I viewed myself. The answer to that was yes I have and so that is what is in this podcast. Plus the other tick tock this guy said if they're the person with all the friends then they have no friends well we'll talk about that too.