Hermit Haven

Ever notice how the quiet work you do on yourself starts to change everything around you? In this heartfelt episode, we’re exploring the ripple effect of self-growth—and how tending to your inner world begins to overflow into your relationships, parenting, creativity, and confidence. We talk about what self-development really feels like (not just what it looks like), the not-so-glamorous parts of...

Is it possible to love solitude and still value deep, meaningful connection? In this episode, we’re diving into what it really means to be a “hermit” at heart—especially in a world that often rewards constant availability and social energy. We talk about the very real tension between needing quiet time to recharge and wanting to be there for the people we care about. From overstimulation and guilt...

Ever feel like you’re falling behind in life? That invisible pressure to hit every milestone—marriage, babies, a dream job, a house—on someone else’s schedule? Yeah, us too.  In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the unrealistic timelines we’ve been handed and exploring how to actually define success on your own terms. We’re sharing real stories, honest reflections, and gentle reminde...

This week, we’re slowing down and reflecting on the wild, beautiful, emotional journey of becoming—and being—a mom. With Mother’s Day approaching and Ashley welcoming her first baby boy, we wanted to take a moment to talk about the real stuff: birth stories, identity shifts, the quiet ways we grow through motherhood, and how we hold onto the spark that makes us, us.  Whether you're a brand new mam...

Ever wondered what we did before we were co-hosts of Hermit Haven? This week, we’re getting personal and sharing all about our past jobs—how they shaped us, what we learned, and the funny, heartwarming, and unexpected stories that came from them. From Michaels craft runs to preschool nap time routines, Disney cast member moments to early social media beginnings—each role we had became a stepping s...

What if the key to feeling more connected, confident, and at peace… was simply learning how to lean into your strengths—and letting others do the same?  In this heartwarming episode of Hermit Haven, we’re getting real about what it means to be part of a team—whether that’s in friendships, relationships, motherhood, or building something creative together. We’re sharing the importance of celebratin...

Today we’re slowing down and tuning in to something that’s been tugging at our hearts lately—your why. That deeper purpose behind what you do, what you dream about, and how you show up every day. In this episode, we’re talking about: What it really means to have a “why” Why it’s so easy to lose sight of it (especially in the busy seasons of life) How to uncover your own unique purpose Practical ti...

Today’s episode is all about something we’re super passionate about—helping you build the kind of self-belief that makes you unstoppable. We’ve been there... wishing someone would hype us up, only to realize that sometimes, we have to be that person for ourselves. So, we’re spilling all the tips and personal stories that have helped us: Hype ourselves up with affirmations and small wins (even when...

In this episode of Hermit Haven, we’re exploring what it really means to be a girl’s girl — someone who celebrates, supports, and uplifts the women around her. We’re unpacking the myths around this term, talking about the power of community over competition, and sharing practical ways to show up for the women in your life. We discuss simple ways to be a girl’s girl, from celebrating her wins and s...

We’re back with a fun and cozy episode sharing all our faves right now! We’re talking about the little things that are making life sweeter—from cozy drinks and small luxuries to self-care habits that are helping us feel more grounded. In this episode, we cover: Our current favorite products and little must-haves The books and you tube creators bringing us joy Simple habits and routines that have b...

What if the smallest habits could completely transform your life? In this cozy book club episode, we’re diving into Chapters 8 & 9 of The Power of Habit and uncovering how everyday routines shape not only our personal growth but also entire social movements.  We’re breaking down: ✨ The Power of Community: How habits fueled the Montgomery Bus Boycott & Saddleback Church’s growth. ✨ Are We...

Romanticizing the Little Things to Live a Richer Life What does it really mean to live a rich life? Spoiler alert: it has nothing to do with money. In this episode, we’re redefining richness as finding joy, fulfillment, and meaning in the little things. From family moments to small self-care rituals, we’re sharing personal stories and mindset shifts that help us feel abundant every single day. 🎧...

In this episode of Hermit Haven, we’re slowing down to talk about the little moments that bring the most joy. We often think happiness comes from big milestones, but the real magic is in the everyday—morning sunlight through the window, an unexpected text from a friend, or the smell of fresh bread baking. Join us as we share our own simple joys, ways to cultivate more happiness in daily life, and...

In this episode, we’re diving into chapters 4-7 of The Power of Habit and exploring the concept of keystone habits—those small but powerful routines that create a ripple effect in our lives. We break down how habits shape our decisions, the science behind willpower, and how small shifts can lead to big transformations.  We also share personal insights on how habits impact health and wellness, from...

The Secret to Making Progress (Without the Pressure to Be Perfect) Have you ever found yourself waiting for the perfect time to start something—only to realize that time never comes? Or maybe you’ve achieved a goal and still felt unfulfilled? You’re not alone. In this episode of Hermit Haven, we’re getting real about the battle between progress and perfection—and why the key to growth isn’t about...

Ever felt like you’re not interesting enough to share your life online? Or worried about what people will think if you start posting content? We get it. In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it really means to be a content creator—not just the tips and tricks, but the mindset, the challenges, and the growth that comes with it.  We’re sharing: ✨ How we started our content creation journey (...

Hey bestie! 💛 Our Hermit Haven Book Club is back, and we’re diving into our second book—The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg! This book has us deep in thought about the small (and not-so-small) habits shaping our daily lives. In this episode, we’re breaking down the first three chapters and discussing: ✨ The Habit Loop – How cues, routines, and rewards drive our behavior ✨ Keystone Habits – The...

We’re switching things up this episode with a fun, lighthearted Q&A! 💕 We’re answering hilarious icebreaker questions, sharing fun facts about ourselves, and just having the best time chatting. If you've ever wondered what Disney movie we’d live in, where we’d teleport for dinner, or what three things we’d bring to a deserted island—this is the episode for you! We love these cozy girl chats a...

Life is full of challenges, and in this episode of Hermit Haven, we’re opening up about the obstacles that have shaped us and the personal growth we’ve found through them. From navigating grief and guilt to rediscovering ourselves in different seasons of life, we share honest stories of struggle, resilience, and healing. Here’s what you can expect in this episode:  ✨ Overcoming grief and finding...

Welcome back to the Cozy Haven Book Club! In this episode, we’re continuing our journey through The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo, diving into Chapters 3-5 and exploring her approach to decluttering by category. We’re talking about: ✨ The power of only keeping things that spark joy ✨ Why folding your clothes properly can make a difference  ✨ How to let go of sentimental items...

✨ Episode Highlights: Welcome to another heartfelt episode of Hermit Haven! In this cozy conversation, Ashley and Jacqui reflect on their journey from an idea to a podcast that’s become a meaningful part of their lives—and hopefully yours, too. Here's what you'll hear in this episode: Looking Back on 2024: How the podcast started as a dream in a carpool line and grew into a shared passion project...

In this episode of Hermit Haven, we’re diving into why mental health is a cornerstone for living a balanced and fulfilling life. With so much focus on physical health, it’s easy to forget that taking care of our minds is just as important—if not more so. ✨ What we’re covering in this episode: How prioritizing mental health helps you show up as your best self The personal routines we use to rechar...

Welcome to the very first episode of the Hermit Haven Book Club! 📚✨ We’re starting with Marie Kondo’s bestseller, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up  and diving into the transformative lessons from Chapters 1 and 2. Here’s what we’re chatting about: ✨ The KonMari Method and how it’s so much more than just tidying—it’s about sparking joy in your home and life. ✨ Why traditional cleaning meth...

🌟 Vision Boards: Turning Dreams Into Reality 🌟 In this episode, we’re exploring one of our favorite tools for personal growth: vision boards! Whether you’re a seasoned pro or new to the concept, we’re sharing everything you need to know about creating and using vision boards to align your actions with your dreams.  Here’s what we cover:  ✨ What vision boards are and why they’re such powerful to...

🌍 Episode Summary In this episode of the Hermit Haven Podcast, we’re embracing our inner wanderlust and diving into all things travel! From cherished memories of past trips to bucket-list destinations and exciting plans on the horizon, this episode is a cozy journey through our travel diaries.   We’re sharing:  ✨ Our favorite travel experiences, including road trips, Disney adventures, and unfor...