Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed

Think divorce is hard. Try coming to terms with your sexuality and dealing with a divorce. This conversation with Cary Zackman (@caryzackman) takes you through a journey of self-discovery, fear, anger, confusion, and ultimately acceptance. Want to learn how to deal with the stress of divorce while keeping your head and life up? In this episode, we discuss: ✅ Loving your wife while not being "in l...

Think that going to court to get divorced is the only way to get out of your marriage? Think again! We discuss collaborative divorce and mediation with @nancismithlaw in this great interview. There is a better way to divorce...you just have to CHOOSE it. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ Difference between collaborative divorce and mediation ✅ What is collaborative divorce ✅ Who is on your collabo...

Dress for success. We have all heard that, right? Did you know that you need to dress for the life you want post-divorce too? We spoke to Rebecca Johnson, a personal stylist with J. Hilburn, about how clothes can make a big difference in your life.   We discussed: - What is a personal stylist? - How clothes can be life-changing - The science of dressing - How people can tell if you are wearin...

What do REAL MEN need to know about divorce? Find out from the author of "The Real Man's Guide to Divorce." We discuss the entire journey, from beginning to end, that men go through in divorce. We discuss: - Getting your mindset in the right place - Concentrating on your children - Parenting plans - Mental Health and men - The U.K. court system and its bias towards women - Taking care of your body...

Want to learn how you can get help organizing your home and your life after #divorce ​? Going through the end of a marriage is hard enough without worrying about finding new houses or organizing your children's schedules. Come learn how you can get it all done!   In this episode, we discuss: - Importance of organization - Savings of time and money when getting help - Impact of divorce and mov...

Deciding whether or not to get divorced is one of the hardest decisions you can make. Kim Bowen, the founder of The Marriage Place, teaches us how to figure out if you should get divorced or whether you should just take your marriage in a new direction. We discuss: - Figuring out if marriage is the right move - Referring out clients to collaborative divorce - Working through the past, present, and...

Ever wonder what children think about custody? Come hear from seven year old Sydney on what she thinks about divorce and children living in two different houses. The conversation is eye-opening!

Divorce does not have to be all bad. There are many divorces that open up your eyes to new possibilities and a life you never considered before. In this episode, we talk to James Bastian about his divorce and co-parenting with his ex in the years since the divorce process. We discuss: - Signs that a marriage is on the rocks - Should you regret a marriage that didn't work? - Hurtful comments during...

Divorce is never easy. You are destroying the vows you took at your wedding to love, honor, and cherish your spouse forever. After divorce, many question themselves, the choices they made, their value, their needs, and their worthiness. Join Allyson Fusella as she takes us through the choices you can make after divorce. We discuss: - Choosing to face your fears - Not ignoring or denying your feeli...

What do men need to know about approaching a custody dispute? Turns out, there is a lot! Join my guests Adelola Dow (aka Ade) and Stephanie Hunnell as we discuss this complicated topic. They are both divorce attorneys and the co-hosts of the "Undoing I Do with Stephanie and Ade" Facebook Show.  In this show, we discuss: - What to look for in hiring an attorney - Setting expectations for how a...

Divorce is hard. Add cultural issues into the legal process, and divorce is even more difficult. Come find out from our guest Stephanie Tang, Esq., a divorce attorney from Chicago, how men can navigate cultural issues in divorce.   We discuss: - Approaching divorce with the right mindset - Hiring the right attorney - How different cultures approach divorce - Educating your attorney on your cu...

Sex. What a loaded word! What mistakes in intimacy lead to divorce? How can you correct them for your next relationship? Join Certified Sexologist Beverly Perryman as we discuss:  - What is a sexologist? - How to build intimacy - Special room just for you and your spouse - The issues that people have with sex and intimacy - How to help people rekindle the flame - How working with a sex coach...

There are many reasons why people get divorced. At its core, unhappiness leads people to make the decision to end a marriage. Often, we later look back at our marriage and realize there were many signs that it was not a healthy relationship. It is always easy to Monday-Morning-QB. Join our guest Dadvocate (he prefers to not have his real name public as he has young children), as we discuss: - Deci...

Join our guest Christina Previte, Esq., as we discuss the common mistakes that men make when going through a divorce.  We discuss: - Making sure you get an attorney that understands your goals - You do not have to go directly to court when you start a divorce - Tips on hiring an attorney - Keeping things civil with your wife - Make sure your attorney is managing your EXPECTATIONS! - Communica...

Is Divorce on the horizon? No one wants to get divorced. But, when that situation becomes a reality in your life, you need to make a decision. Do not be paralyzed. In this episode, we go into detail about how you make the decision to get divorced, and what your first step should be. Want to join our free divorce support community called Divorce Shield TRIBE? Check out www.portal-thedivorceshield.c...

When you start down the road toward divorce, it is easy to forget about the most important person in your life....YOU. There is no planning for divorce that doesn't include working on you. Join our guest Bonnie Miller Ladds, LCSW, as we discuss: - What is therapy? - How do you find a therapist? - How do men and women differ when it comes to approaching therapy? - What does therapy do in a man's li...

Happiness. It is something that many men do not really think about. When a marriage ends, there is usually an absence of happiness in a man's life, whether he wants to admit it or not. Did you know that there are specific methods you can use to figure out what you want out of life and to help you find happiness? Join our guest Allyson Fusella, as she discusses: - Why marriages end - Learning to mi...

Divorce is hard on your body. Want to learn how you can eat healthy even in the most stressful of times? Come join our guest Irslan Ali, the creator of the FHIT Training Method, as he discusses: - How you must learn to de-stress before you can start on the road to being healthy - Figuring out if your body is in "fight or flight" mode? - The techniques to calm your mind before building health habit...

We all learn so much from those who have gone through the divorce process. What lessons do they learn? What would they do differently if they would do it all over again?  In this episode, we talk to Michael about his divorce, his post-divorced life, and what lessons he has learned. We discuss with him: - Why his marriage failed - How divorce impacted his relationship with his child - What sig...

Did you know that divorce can be influenced by your diet and exercise? A big part of protecting your sanity is making sure that your mind and body are right. In this episode, we discuss things you can do to keep your mind in top shape as you approach divorce. For more help, visit www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa 

Deciding whether to get divorced is one of the most difficult decisions that you will make in your life. It will have an impact on you, your spouse, and your children. So, should you get divorced? What are the signs to look out for? What do you need to know?  In this episode of the Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed Podcast, we look at 12 signs that your marriage may be at its end. These include...

We are in the middle of the holidays. Whether you celebrate Hanukkah, Christmas or any other kind of holiday, or if you don't celebrate any holidays at all, the end of the year is really a unique time. You have got a new year about to start. When we start New Year, most people think about new beginnings. They start weight loss plans, decide to exercise, read every night, and spend more time with t...

How do you prepare for divorce so that you don't get screwed? It starts by going back to school! Welcome to the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp (previously known as the Divorce Preparation Academy).  Learn more by clicking here: https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa  Question? Email us at john@thedivorceshield.com

In the process of preparing for Divorce, do you need a Divorce Coach? To start with, what is a divorce coach? Let's tackle this together.  www.thedivorceshield.com www.facebook.com/divorceshield www.twitter.com/divorceshield

There are so many important reasons to prepare for divorce. But, why should YOU think it is important? What will happen if you don't prepare for divorce?