FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

You’ve listened to all the podcasts and read all the books. You understand, on an intellectual level, what happened, and you’ve worked to both forgive and accept what happened. But you don’t feel healed. Most affair recovery programs address betrayal on an intellectual or spiritual level, but they don’t address healing on an energetic level. Unless you heal the betrayal wound energetically, you wi...

Infidelity and betrayal leave a wake of emotional upheaval, sadness, and pain. Here’s how to transcend the situation's intensity, reclaim inner peace, and perhaps even find spiritual healing. Join me in an engaging conversation with John Burgos, as we delve deeply into the journey of self-discovery, spiritual growth, and the pursuit of inner peace after betrayal. Top Takeaways Prioritize Self-Care...

In this episode, Lora’s client Leigh bravely shares her betrayal recovery journey. Get a new perspective on infidelity, find out what you can expect ten months out, and get tips for healing your heart, strengthening your relationship, and bravely looking within. Top Takeaways Healing and Personal Growth: Leigh emphasizes the importance of confronting trauma and emotional pain to heal and grow pers...

Whether you stay or go, knowing your rights is important. There is much misinformation about the divorce process, what happens to your assets, what you are and are not entitled to, and how parenting time or custody is established. Although every state has different laws and everyone’s circumstances are unique, this show will give you a broad understanding of everything you need to know.   Top Take...

Dr. Robert Weiss, the founding director of Seeking Integrity LLC, dedicated his career to understanding and treating sex addiction. If your partner struggles with any addiction, or you are concerned they might, this show provides vital guidance that will benefit you both. After all, whether or not infidelity is involved, addiction is still a betrayal.   Top Takeaways Idleness of Threats: Dr. Weiss...

Infidelity is a situation that rocks your world and changes the way you see your partner, your life, and yourself. In other words, it changed your perspective. While you might feel broken and afraid right now, the truth is your perspective will change again. One day, you will see things differently, one day, you will understand, and one day, you will be happy. In this episode, we dive deep into th...

Most people get it wrong when they talk about the betrayal recovery journey. In this episode, we zoom out and take a high-level view of the affair-recovery journey, filling you in on everything you need to know. Recovering from infidelity and affairs is tough. But it’s not just a catastrophe. It’s an initiation. An initiation by fire that burns away all illusions and leaves you with a choice. To s...

In this deeply personal show, I share the astounding revelation that Shawn and I had about being done. Our work together is complete and now is the time to relax, play, and enjoy each other.   Do you want to know more about Soul Contracts and what might be coming up for you? Let's have a session and figure it out. Book and Pay for your session Here: https://buy.stripe.com/3csg205Fu8pQ1RSdQT     To...

Have you been so focused on one thing that everything else falls apart? If so, you are not alone. Instead of either/or thinking (scarcity), this episode focuses on both/and thinking, and the power of making a choice. Life, health, and business coach Sara Allen sits down with Lora for a practical and inspiring discussion on how to create the next chapter of your life with intention and calm. BONUS!...

Do you sometimes feel like you won’t survive the pain of being cheated on? Healing takes more than tactics, it takes a solid strategy. In today’s episode, we will break down the five key steps in the healing process: falling apart, seeking help, prioritizing self-care, moving the body, and connecting with others to nurture a sense of belonging. I'll also open up about my personal experience with i...

S Saving your marriage after an affair is possible. After 23 years together, I was devastated by my husband’s infidelity, yet seven years later, we are happier and more connected than ever. Here are the five steps I recommend to my clients, and the five rules of engagement that will help you and your partner find peace and happiness again, or maybe for the first time. Five Steps to Save your Marri...

Free Workshop & Webinar Betrayal hurts. But you don’t have to stay in pain. Somatic processing is using the body to process emotions. Whether you are aware of it or not, the body sends and receives energy. Like a wire, when too much energy builds up, it either needs to discharge (in the form of an emotional outburst) or it short circuits and blows out the system (in the form of disease or pain...

Are you suffering from intrusive or obsessive thoughts? This free workshop and webinar will help. Learn the tools and strategies necessary to break free from intrusive thoughts after experiencing infidelity and betrayal. During our time together you will receive support, learn coping strategies, connect with others who understand your struggles, and begin your journey towards inner peace and freed...

Throughout today's episode, we’ll explore the root causes behind infidelity, not to excuse or justify the cheater’s actions but to better understand the true causes. It is through this understanding that we can start to heal, transform, and ultimately create lives filled with more self-love, authenticity, and genuine connection. Top Take-a-Ways: Understanding the Link Between Infidelity and Self-W...

Have you ever wondered if you were being patient or a pushover who was settling for less than deserved? If you have, you are not alone! In today’s episode, we’ll delve into the importance of setting clear and specific boundaries within your relationship, protecting yourself while creating realistic and measurable healing goals, and will discuss the essential steps for both partners to take charge...

In this candid episode, Lora will share her personal story of discovering her husband's 15-years of cheating and the transformative journey that followed. We will discuss the vital importance of confronting and understanding past trauma to heal and foster healthier relationships as well as how to reclaim one's identity and live authentically from a place of love, strength, and unconditional self-w...

amYcyqlEopeur8Qlpiaa While it can be worthwhile to see if your marriage can be saved, sometimes you are better off apart. While the road to dissolving your marriage can be long and challenging, it doesn’t have to be terrible. If you have felt shut down because you think your situation is unresolvable, this episode is for you. Today’s guest is Gabrielle Hartley, an attorney and mediator who special...

Whether you’ve already divorced, are just beginning the process, or have no idea what you want to do, this show will give you the lowdown on all things divorce, and how to divorce with ease, grace, and even joy. With topics ranging from handling anger and fostering forgiveness to navigating the dating world as a fresh start, Jackie Pilossoph, founder of Divorced Girl Smiling shares her wealth of k...

Intrusive thoughts are the number one complaint of those facing infidelity and betrayal. Here’s how to prevent intrusive thoughts, manage them in the moment, and prevent them long-term. If you want to learn what your obsessive thoughts are trying to tell you, and reclaim your sanity and peace after betrayal, then listen up, this is the show for you. Top Take-a-Ways: Identifying what intrusive thou...

Betrayal hurts. But what if it was the medicine your heart needed to transform into the fullness and beauty of who you were meant to be? Today’s guest is the inspiring and creative Alana Fairchild, who will share her divine wisdom on healing the heart after the storm of betrayal. We’ll discuss how to come home to your true self, embrace your divine feminine, and discern between intuition and wishf...

Feeling stuck after infidelity or betrayal is common, but what does it mean to “move on?” Are you subconsciously “pushing away” love and healing or do you need more time or more tools to heal? In this episode, you will learn what it means to move on, how to move on, especially when you are stuck, and what to do when others (especially your cheating partner) are telling you that you should move on,...

Do you feel broken after infidelity or betrayal? What if you aren’t “broken” and need to be fixed, but have been “broken open” for good, and called to evolve? Like a seed, your evolution begins by being broken open, and depending on your perspective and choices, you can either flourish and thrive, or wither and die. Learn the pivotal difference between being broken and being broken open, and how t...

Do you ever get frustrated that your partner just won’t listen? If you are anything like me, you see your partner, and all of his flaws, pretty darned clearly. You’ve said (or at least thought) things like, “If he would just _____, then things would be so much easier!” And it’s true. If your partner would just take responsibility for their actions, atone for their mistakes, admit what they did, sh...

Whether it’s taking you and the kids off of your soon-to-be-ex-husband’s cell phone plan, protecting yourself from a psychotic affair partner who is lashing out on social media, or trying to get out of a lease that you signed in haste when you found out about the affair, legal questions, and legal remedies are all around and more available to us than we might imagine. In this episode, consumer pro...

In this episode, Lora answers six questions from her Facebook group, Affair Recovery for Women – Flourish After Infidelity. If you’ve got a question that you’d like Lora to answer in her next show, reach out, join her Facebook community, and ask! Join the Facebook Community Here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/affairrecoveryforwomen/ Your Questions Answered: How do you “get over” the act that you...