Dr Tom LaHue, Enneagram

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What do Enneagram Type 9s really hate about being a Nine? In this video, we dive deep into the struggles, frustrations, and challenges that come with being the Peacemaker. While Type 9s are known for their calm presence, harmony-seeking nature, and ability to see all sides, there are also difficulties that make life as a Nine uniquely challenging. Avoiding conflict at all costsFeeling overlooked o...

Enneagram Type Eights are bold, confident, and fiercely independent. They value strength, self-reliance, and the ability to take charge — and they’re not afraid to stand up for what they believe in. But being an Eight isn’t all power and control. In this video, we’ll explore both the strengths and the challenges of being a Type 8 — including the frustrations, misconceptions, and inner struggles th...

Enneagram Type Sevens are known for their energy, optimism, and love of adventure. They bring enthusiasm, curiosity, and a contagious zest for life that inspires everyone around them. But being a Seven isn’t always sunshine and rainbows. In this video, we’ll explore what Type Sevens hate about being Sevens — the challenges, frustrations, and inner struggles that can make life tricky for this freed...

If you're an Enneagram Type 6—or love someone who is—this video dives deep into the inner world of the Loyalist. Type Sixes are known for their loyalty, preparedness, and deep desire for security, but they also face unique internal challenges that can leave them feeling anxious, second-guessing, and stuck in analysis paralysis. In this video, we explore:What Sixes don’t like about being a Type...

In this video, we explore the hidden frustrations and inner struggles of Enneagram Type 5 — the Investigator. While Type 5s are known for their intelligence, independence, and deep thinking, there are unique challenges that come with being a Five.🎯 What do Type 5s hate about being Type 5?🤔 Why do Fives often feel drained by people or misunderstood?💡 How can Fives grow and embrace both their str...

Why do Enneagram Type Fours sometimes struggle with themselves—and with each other? In this video, we explore the unique inner conflicts of the Enneagram 4 personality type. Known as the Individualist or the Romantic, Fours are deeply emotional, self-aware, and driven by a desire to be authentic and unique. But what happens when those traits clash within the same type? Discover what Type 4s secret...

What’s it really like to be an Enneagram Type Three? In this video, we dive into the inner world of the Achiever—exploring both the strengths and the struggles of being a Type 3. From the drive for success and recognition to the pressure of always having to perform, we talk about what Type Threes love and hate about their Enneagram number. Whether you're a 3 yourself or trying to better unders...

What’s Great About Being a Type 2 | What’s Hard About Being a Type 2 – The Helper ExplainedIn this video, we explore what it’s like to be an Enneagram Type 2 – the Helper. If you're a Type Two or love someone who is, this video will walk you through both the strengths and struggles of this deeply compassionate and relationship-driven personality type.✅ What do Type Twos love about being a 2?❌ Wh...

🔧 What Type Ones Hate About Type Ones | Enneagram Type 1 ExplainedIn this video, we’re diving deep into the inner world of the Enneagram Type One—the Reformer or Perfectionist. What’s it really like to be a One? What do Type Ones secretly hate about their own personality? And why does that famous inner critic make life so exhausting? If you’ve ever felt like nothing you do is ever “good enough,”...

Feeling alone in your struggles? You’re not. And you were never meant to do this life alone. In this video, we’re exposing one of the biggest lies we believe in hard times — that no one understands or cares. The truth is, support is closer than you think. There are people who care, resources that can help, and communities that will stand with you. If you’ve been carrying the weight by yourself, it...

Enneagram Type 7, often called The Enthusiast, brings energy, joy, and a zest for life wherever they go. But where does that enthusiasm come from? And what’s really going on beneath the surface? In this video, we dive deep into the core motivation of Type 7s—why they chase new experiences, avoid pain, and constantly seek what’s next. Whether you're a Type 7, love a 7, or coach 7s, this breakdo...

Are you stuck in negative thinking? Feel like life is unfair and nothing ever changes? In this video, we’re talking about the power of focus—because what you focus on grows. If you constantly think about what’s wrong, how hard life is, and how far you still have to go… that mindset will keep you stuck. But the good news? You have the power to shift your focus—and change your life. We'll walk t...

How to Love an Enneagram Type Five | Relationship Tips for the InvestigatorBeing in a relationship with a Type 5 can feel like trying to access a hidden world—quiet, thoughtful, and deeply private. But once you understand how Fives are wired, you’ll discover a well of loyalty, depth, and wisdom that runs deeper than words. In this video, we explore what it really takes to love a Type Five well.💡...

You may feel broken, tired, or forgotten… but you’ve already survived 100% of your hardest days. That’s not weakness — that’s proof of strength. 💪In today’s message, we’re talking about what real strength looks like: showing up when you don’t feel like it, forgiving yourself when you fall short, and choosing hope one more time. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, defeated, or stuck — this video is for...

Enneagram Type Nine: The Peacemaker in RelationshipsWhat’s it really like to love — or be loved by — a Type Nine? In this video, we explore how Enneagram Nines show up in relationships: their strengths, their struggles, and what they need most to thrive. Whether you're a Nine yourself or you're in a relationship with one, this video will help you understand the heart of the Peacemaker.🔍 W...

Feeling burnt out? Ready to give up? You're not alone. In this video, we talk about what to do when life feels heavy and you're tempted to quit. Whether you're struggling with burnout, stress, emotional exhaustion, or just feeling stuck — this message is for you.🔑 You’re in a season — not the whole story. You don’t have to figure it all out today. You just need to take one small step.👉 Watch now...

The strengths and weaknesses of Enneagram Type 9s are explored in the context of leadership roles. Learn how to leverage their natural peacemaking abilities and avoid potential pitfalls in managing teams and driving results. Enneagram Type 9 in Leadership Roles What is an Enneagram Type 9?- Introduce the Enneagram Type 9 personality type: The Peacemaker, The Mediator- Describe core traits: Agreeab...

Are you feeling like a failure — at work, in your relationships, or just in life overall? You’re not alone. In this video, I’m here to remind you: feelings aren’t facts, and your current struggle doesn’t define your story.💥 You are not a failure — you’re in the middle of a comeback. This episode is all about how to start again, find encouragement, and grow through what feels like defeat.🔹 Whethe...