Detours

In this episode, we dive into Genesis 41, where Joseph goes from forgotten prisoner to Pharaoh’s right-hand man—all because of a dream. We’ll explore how God’s timing, wisdom, and favor unfold through Joseph’s life, and what his rise to power in Egypt teaches us about preparation, trust, and purpose. Whether you’re in a waiting season or stepping into something new, this chapter has something powe...

Betrayed by his brothers, sold into slavery, and falsely accused—Joseph’s journey in Genesis 39–40 is anything but easy. Yet, even in the darkest moments, God’s presence never leaves him. In this episode of Detours, we explore how Joseph remained faithful despite injustice, how God was working behind the scenes, and what his story teaches us about trusting God in our own seasons of trials.

Favoritism can divide families, destroy relationships, and lead to devastating consequences. In this episode of Detours , we dive into the story of Joseph and his brothers from Genesis 37; a powerful example of how favoritism fueled jealousy, betrayal, and suffering. Why did Jacob’s preference for Joseph create such deep resentment? How did God ultimately use this painful situation for good? Join...

Relationships shape our lives—whether they’re friendships, family bonds, or romantic connections. But what does it mean to have a truly healthy relationship? In this episode , we have real, honest conversations about building strong connections, communicating boundaries, and recognizing when it’s time to walk away. Join us as we explore what healthy love and friendship look like, how to communicat...

Enabling often feels like love, but is it truly helping? In this episode, we dive into the tough reality of enabling—what it is, how it affects relationships, and why setting boundaries is both biblical and necessary. With real-life examples and Scripture-based wisdom, we explore how to love others without fueling unhealthy patterns. If you’ve ever struggled with saying "no" or wondered if you’re...

In this episode, we fill everyone in on where we've been and the detour God has put our family on. 4 weeks ago, Deb's father fell and broke his hip. One of the ripple effects of this has been a new appreciation for one of God's names, Jehovah Jireh. We discuss what it's like depending on God to provide and guide.

Almost everyone begins a new year with some sort of fresh start. In this episode, we talk through spiritual and general resolutions and how to keep the discipline we all start the year off with.

In this episode, we talk about all the key players in the nativity scene as Jesus came down to our level and entered our world as a mortal.

In this week's episode we talk about Christians who struggle with depression. The Bible says that in this world, we will have trouble. This means we are susceptible to depression, as well as other mental health issues. What is it like to live with depression? How do you talk to someone who suffers from it? Lets talk about this issue that is running rampant in today's world.

In this episode, we talk through one of the most prevalent themes running through society right now... anxiety. Christians are by no means immune to it. As a matter of fact, it's just as common inside the church as outside. Below, you'll find additional resources from Calvary Chapel and Deb's website about useful tools to help combat this overwhelming feeling. https://subsplash.com/u/ccftl/media/l...

A question was asked to us on social media, "If someone never hears about Jesus, will they go to hell?" In today's episode, we visit that question along with some other common questions people have for Christians.

In this compelling episode of "Detours," we delve into the heartfelt journey of two devout Christian parents grappling with their son's embrace of an LGBTQ+ lifestyle. With unwavering love and faith, they navigate the complex emotions and challenges that arise, constantly pointing him back to God. Through candid conversation and spiritual guidance, this episode explores the delicate balance of mai...

Detours family, season 5 is coming in 2 weeks! Join us for a brand new season filled with inspiring conversations and deep dives into the heart of Christianity. We have an incredible lineup of guests who will share their unique insights and experiences, covering a range of compelling topics.

As we wrap up season 4, we review how God opens and closes doors in our lives, and how we can respond. Everyone goes thru trials and seasons of celebration. As God opens and closes doors, the only thing you can control is how you respond. Have a listen to times where we reacted well, and times where we did not.

Why is this topic so difficult to talk about? Nobody likes a breakup. How do we handle this as Christians? People choose sides. Fingers are pointed. It's never an easy thing, especially when the friendship was close. Linda and Jenna are back in the studio with Mike and Deb to talk thru this difficult topic, the friendship breakup.

People will fall into one of 2 categories, either authentic or counterfeit. Sometimes, counterfeits look so much like the original that it takes experienced discernment skills to see the difference. Join Mike and Deb as they invite guests Linda and Jenna into the studio to talk about friendship and how to find what everyone is looking for, authentic friends.

We bring in special guests Savanna and Murielle to share their story of a mother and daughter's detour we all can relate to. Savanna was a teenager who began working in the restaurant industry filled with late nights and trips to the bar after work with co-workers. Over time, her relationship with Jesus faded, and alcohol tightened its grip on her life. Hear her story, and get her mother Murielle'...

Deb and Mike have never experienced so many opened and closed doors as when they were sent to Poland to help Ukrainian refugees when the war broke out. In this episode, they recall a mission trip that changed perspectives, created tears, and was filled with detour after detour. Listen to the retelling of a story that this world needs to hear.

In today's episode, we revisit Deb's toolbox that she derived to help her with anger. Anger is something that will constantly resurface in our lives and if you sharpen your toolbox, you can be much more proactive when it starts to rear it's ugly head. How do you know when you're getting angry? Once you are, what can you do to healthily diffuse the situation? What's the difference between anger and...

Anxiety, who hasn't felt that? It can hit on a daily, hourly, or seasonal basis. How do you control it? Can it even be controlled? The prescription for anxiety is found in Colossians 3:15. The answer is having the peace of Christ rule in your life. So how do you let it? It's a choice. It's an easy choice to make, but difficult to execute so be ready to arrest and replace! Learn more in this episod...

In this episode we talk about how the sin we are prone to in life often resurfaces when we are put under pressure. Many times when we are working through sin with God, we often believe we are finished with it and want to put it in the rear view mirror. However... if you've been a Christian for any period of time, you know that isn't the case! Let's talk about how to dust off old tools God has give...

This season we'll be looking at what it's like when God opens and closes doors in our lives. Do you have the spiritual awareness to know what season of life you're in? Do you know how to read God's signs? Let's take a look at what God has done and talk thru His love language of opened and closed doors.

In this episode we discuss the current Detour we are walking through. Deb's mom is in the hospital and it's amazing to see God opening and closing doors on a daily, even hourly basis. How do you trust God at a time like this? How do you prevent yourself from burning out? We discuss it on this week's episode.

Our good friend Ricki is back and shares some of the stories of her children and how God has and is working in their lives. Prodigals weigh heavy on all our hearts as Christians, so how do we navigate the required patience, while extending love and grace as we wait on the Lord. Listen to Ricki's stories and be encouraged when you're weary!

In this episode, our friend Ricki visits the podcast and shares an amazing story of how a 23 & Me test revealed that the man who raised her was not her biological father, and how God was answering her father's prayers behind the scenes.