Dear Future Hubby Podcast

Well, insomnia must be so real that I couldn’t complete this Episode because sleep took over! However, it was 10,665 steps on 4/8/2022! I am just a little proud of that milestone right there! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

I can tell you right from the start, everyone will not agree with my take on this subject and that is really okay! However, I wanted to follow up on the episode where I spoke about Will Smith slapping Chris Rock. Especially after finding out about Chris Rock’s disorder. Truth be told, when we know better, we should strive to do better. However, this will Not be everyone’s testimony. I hope this Ep...

How are you showing up and how are you choosing? Sometimes we allow the superficial to be our choice maker and not allow wisdom to be our guide. Although there are many books out there on wisdom, how many of us truly read any of them? Do you know if you lack wisdom, you can read the book of Proverbs in the Bible to gain some wisdom?! Well, I ask this because I believe when choosing our purpose par...

OMG!!! I just finished moving over the last couple of days y’all and when I tell you that I have a newfound respect for Anyone who has chosen move furniture for a living! That is not an easy career to pursue! Let me tell you, I understand one must develop stamina for certain things, including moving furniture, however, this is not for the faint in heart! I learned a few valuable things during this...

Well, whether you asked for my opinion of the most recent fiasco or not, I am going to give it to you! Listen in as I speak on Will Smith defending his wife, Jada Pickett-Smith’s honor. This episode is as Real and Wise as I can be in this moment. Do you agree or Nah?! Remember, on this Podcast, it is okay for us to agree to disagree. I do not condone violence but I Do condone self-defense!!! I hop...

Rejoice!!! When was the last time you heard this word? Better yet, when was the last time that you did this?! Rejoice for Someone else? Or even Rejoice for Yourself! There is a saying, “Treat Others How You Want to Be Treated!” Well, do You want to be Celebrated? Do you wish other people would clap for you? Do you want other people to Rejoice for you too? Have you started with You? This inquiring...

Are you someone who goes around saying, “I Need To Be Loved” on a regular basis? Or do you just think it but no one really knows how you feel? Truth of the matter is, Love is Necessary. Quite similar to breathing if you ask me! And even if you didn’t ask me, I want to talk about love! So, listen in as I unpack this subject. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

Well, it must be because here I am waiting on you to manifest in my life! Right? It requires Patience to wait for your Purpose Partner to come into fruition! Or does it?! Some folks may agree to disagree. Nevertheless, over time, I have come to realize that I must be patient. Especially with myself! Then with others. Typically, whatever area I am impatient in, is an area I must need to grow in. I...

Sometimes we just need to be bold enough to ask the question, “Who Is Stopping You?” Are we standing in our own way? Is it our own false belief systems holding us back? Have we inadvertently co-signed for someone else’s negative perception of us? If the answer is ‘yes’ to any of these questions, the next question becomes, ‘Why’? Did you know you have the power to change your own narrative? It’s no...

🚨 If you are easily triggered, please do not listen to this Episode 🚨 Today I want to talk about Abandonment Trauma! I want to speak on whether or not we have experienced it. How to help ourselves or others to overcome it. If you know someone who suffers from PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) because of it?! This episode will require us to keep an open mind as I unpack a tough subject. If yo...

Do you know what your Purpose is here on this earth? Have you made any attempt tp discover your Purpose? Or have you allowed the Naysayers to have the final say concerning your Purpose? Listen in as I speak candidly about my journey of attempting to discover my purpose on this earth as well. Sometimes it sounds much easier than it truly is and other times, it is just that simple! I hope this Episo...

Do you have any idea what your purpose on this earth is? Have you allowed the Naysayers cloud your vision? Do you no longer feel driven to discover your purpose or are you content with not having the slightest clue as to what your Divine Purpose truly is? Listen in as I attempt to speak on this subject. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

This inquiring mind just has to know! After having an experience or two with a Coward. I made sure to include in my prayers that my Future Hubby would be a Non-coward? Why? Well, because I need a Man of GOD with a Spine! This may sound a bit harsh but for me, it is a requirement, not an option! Listen in as I unpack this subject and provide some insight on what it means to be a coward versus what...

Today, an interesting subject will be addressed, “Self-Work”. Many times, we may believe that if we have addressed a couple of things, it counts for the majority but when it comes to self-work, this includes addressing everything. So today, a part of ‘everything’ will be tackling relationships, both platonic and romantic. Tune in as I introduce my Special Guest, my Son, Xavier. I hope this Episode...

Am I the only person in the world who has had a “Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing” experience? I think Not! Where you were deceived into wholeheartedly believing that someone was truly for you, only yo discover over time that this was the furthest thing from the truth? Believe me, I could probably write an entire book on this subject write here! However, in the meantime, I have opted to share my perspecti...

This may or may not be a subject that I have touched on over the year but if it is, consider this an overview. Blended Families are beautiful in and of themselves, when all involved get a chance to have their voices heard. However, there may be times when their voices are not heard. I am referring to the child(ren) of those blended families. Listen in as I share one of my blended family experience...

“Thank You, Thank You, Thank You” to each and every one of you who Listen to the Dear Future Hubby Podcast! “Thank You, Thank You, Thank You” to each and every one of you who have Spread the Word about this Podcast! “Thank You, Thank You, Thank You” for your support. You are extremely appreciated. You helped me to see that No Dream is Impossible IF You Believe!!! You gotta Believe Y’all!!! Even wh...

Nowadays, the way this world is set up, it may be much harder for you to find Peace. I get it! I truly do. However, considering the fact that there is absolutely nothing like having Peace of Mind, what are you doing to ensure that you Keep Your Peace during these perilous times? Listen in as I share how I strive to keep my Peace of Mind, hopefully this episode will encourage you to find Your peace...

I think it is quite interesting how once I began to open up my mind to what it is I do not want to experience in relationships, that I have started to learn about subjects I have never even taken the time out to gain knowledge and wisdom on before. Is this you? Maybe you ran across a person who was gaslighting you, you weren’t even aware of what that word meant until it became your own reality. Ma...

Oftentimes, when life hits us kind of hard, we stop dreaming! Either we bury our dreams, defer our dreams or let our dreams go. Why is that? Remember how when we were young we used to Imagine beyond measure? Nothing and no one could stop us from Imagining whatever it was we wanted to imagine. Not even our parents! Well, as I have been listening/reading, this book inspired me to share my belief in...

Today, I wanted to share a Poem I wrote, entitled “A Fighting Chance”, it is a Tribute to Love. In my poem,I speak to the nuances of relationships. This poem was written from my heart as all of the poems I have ever written are. However, I truly hope that the words minister to those who can wholeheartedly relate. Give Love a Fighting Chance, Give Yourself a Fighting Chance and give those who genui...

Who can find a virtuous woman? Well, as much as I would love to believe that my future Hubby will be able to say that he found virtue in me, I decided to dig a little deeper and study “virtue”. Today on this Episode, I find the definition of some of them and talk about the 5 Love Languages as well. We often hear, “Patience is a Virtue”. And waiting sometimes can be a bit much. But while we wait, t...

🚨 If you are someone who is easily triggered, please do not listen to this Episode🚨 This Episode is Dedicated to my Six Beautiful Children. Today I will be speaking about Forgiveness and ways to practice Forgiveness. This is a heavy subject, one that many try to avoid. However, if I ever want to remarry someday, it is a tool I know I will need going forward. Not only to be applied towards my fut...

This episode is dedicated to a dear friend of mine, she knows who she is. I call her “Sis”. However, per our conversation on yesterday, I was encouraged by her to do an episode on Self-Sabotage. Because My sole intent is to Heal from the matters of my heart and from my past. I obliged. I hope this episode will help Someone to see this subject from a different perspective. Sometimes it takes Transp...

Today’s episode may be a bit short but it also may include a few nuggets of wisdom along the way! Listen in as I speak about the subject, ‘Imposter Syndrome’. The more I begin to learn, the more driven I am to share. It is my hope that something will be said to encourage someone else. Therefore, I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.