Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy

We talk sharing relationship responsibilities, a revelashe ’bout patriarchy, and the fact that Barbara IS ACTUALLY DATING SOMEONE SHE MET IRL!!!!@!! Plus! Did you say you were in the market for some ancient filthy stripper shoes (or 3)?? Make Bibi an offer, before it’s too late!

We work an event with Weird Al benefitting voting registrations org The Good Deed Corps, get caught in a police stand-off between the LAPD and a minivan, and drive Barbara’s date around town in Vera’s trunk. In Tip Jar news, thank you to FANG YANG! Stay tuned for a proper

Loneliness is bad – just ask your body. But all is not lost: there are Ministries of Loneliness, Men’s Sheds, EMDRs, and of course kayaking! And guess what, after this episode we are HALF WAY through the book! Plus, the meditative RAT : www.remote-associates-test.com

The twins talk gaslighting, edging, allergies, and their upcoming show THIS FRIDAY MARCH 3RD! Tickets here! (Also: Is it fetish? Well is it???) (Yes.)

A twinsight about Vera’s cat allergies preludes the next three chapters of HEARTBREAK, covering pair-bonding prairie voles, more head-harem bullshit, and complicated grief. Speaking of, Bibi tells a sad story.

Emergency Twinterlude! It’s nudes to Vera that one of us has gone under the knife, while Barbara breaks down the fax of May/December relationships.

Our upcoming live performance of The Slap Booth, Vera’s hospital husb, and a Reilly great show that un-Hinges Barbara: And yes, that’s right – we are performing this Saturday, February 4th, as part of Blonde Brunette Productions’s PEEK-A-VIEW. 9pm at Hello Stranger, 320 E. 2nd Street, Los Angeles. Get tickets

Bibi tells a diverting story, Vera accepts a helping knee, and Florence Williams loses her Ennis match in the next installment of HEARTBREAK.

Mon-knee for nothing, Bibi’s Rink Report, and a hard candy shell on this week’s Twinterlude episode!

Missed out on an episode this year? We got you covered! Please enjoy this recap of the last twelve, glorious months. Plus, we rebrand!! Thank you, dear Frands, for your continued love, support, and listenage. 2023 promises much more book!

We did it! We reviewed an actual DATING-TYPE BOOK!!! Please enjoy our take on chapters 1-3 of Florence Williams’s kayaklicious-tome. And also: Krampii! Read more about the “rickety bridge experiment” (aka “misattribution of arousal”) here.

Rollerskating, red flags, and THIS: Which was brought to you by THIS. And THIS:

Listener Jeremy writes in, twinspiring a convo; twins are thankful; and Bibi weighs a possible Hinge suitor.

Remember when Barbara was hurting over Hinge, and Vera said let’s go roller skating instead? A lot has happened since. Listen in on the update! Plus, we attempt to talk about the Five Love Languages, a book we have not read – yet (?)

Barbara has a new dating strategy, but Vera rolls with other plans. Also: ‘member this hottie? Class dismissed!

The twins are back from the Ottawa International Animation Festival with tales to tell! Check out Fran Krause’s Deep Dark Fears!

The twins are headed back to the Ottawa International Animation festival, pumpkin carving contest and all – but first, Bibi elaborates on last episode’s tale of unfulfilling sexy time.

The twins plan a swingin’ gathering for their 47th birthday!

The twins talk jerking ON, plus Bibi shares a relationship goals revelashe and Vera gets TWO new Instagram followers! Check out Bad Bitch Big Sis here!

Join us at the historic Mission Inn and Spa in beautiful downtown Riverside, California, where we talk about app dating, Surrealist balls, and why our hotel room door is barricaded with a chair!

This podcast about books and dating makes it’s long-awaited return to books and dating! Vera shares her insight into Brigid Brophy’s 1964 masterpiece of fiction about Mozart, sex, and death. It’s got everything: a lavish 18th century-themed New Years Eve gala, a mysterious masked man make-out, a kick in the

Incels, autoerotic asphyxiation, and thriving in chaos, plus Bibi examines some recent dates!

An episode that ranges from Victorian morality to “snowballs.” Yeah, you’ve been warned.

We twins and our resident expert on alternative relationships, Prix de Beaute, take a newly-single listener’s question about keeping her relationship status “open” in this audio edit from our Instagram Live chat. Plus a brief guide to reaching your US government representative!

Barbara fondly recounts a pants-on lady-time, and the twins get all Emo.