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For today’s episode, Alexandra sat down with one of her besties, Sah D’Simone, in her house in Colorado for an in-depth conversation where they discuss some things Sah has never discussed publicly before! If you don’t yet know our guest, Sah D’Simone is a spiritual guide, meditation teacher, international transformational speaker, best-selling author, and creator of The Sah Method, who has dedicat...

On today’s episode, Alexandra answers a listener question about working with women as a coach and a healer - from the beginnings of leading moon circles to owning a successful coaching practice - and how to have the confidence to step into the role of supporting women. In this episode, you’ll hear: How ‘building the confidence’ to work with women in the transformational space was really around mon...

On today’s podcast, Alexandra speaks with two of her friends, Sophie and Adi Jaffe PhD, a married couple with children who also run their own businesses. Adi Jaffe PhD is a world-renowned specialist in mental health, addiction, and shame. Sophie Jaffe is a health and wellness expert who shares with her millions of followers how to live a life full of unbounded bliss and balance. Together they are...

On today’s episode, Alexandra answers your question about how to balance service to others and taking care of yourself and your own needs at the same time. In this episode, you’ll hear: Questions to ask yourself when trying to discern if you are over-giving or over-extending yourself in service to others. Ideas on understanding and remembering that nothing in life is ever completely black or white...

In today’s episode, Alexandra speaks with Pat Bailey, who is a poet, artist, and founder of The Hell Yes Life and so much more. In this episode, you’ll hear: Pat’s experience of losing her Instagram following of 100k and not getting it back, alongside losing her sister around the same time, and how this time in her life was a period of great loss and surrender. The ins and outs of evoking Kali ene...

In today’s episode, Alexandra answers some of your questions about love, business, and different ways that codependency can show up in our lives. In this episode, you’ll hear: Using discernment around celebrities or well-known people in the public eye, and how to distinguish between being attracted to someone’s spotlight vs. seeing them as a human being underneath it all. Ideas on how to be comfor...

This week, Alexandra speaks with Danielle Paige, who is a Spiritual Teacher, Intuitive Astrologer, Healer, and Guide here to help you remember your unique soul blueprint so that you can live your life with purpose and passion! In this episode, you’ll hear: Why Danielle ultimately chose to remove her breast implants, even though she initially felt resistance to the idea when she first received the...

This week, Alexandra shares with us all about her move from Los Angeles to Colorado and how her life and her rituals are adjusting to the new scenery. In this episode, you’ll hear: How being surrounded by nature is actually being surrounded by the unknown, and how that relates to the unknown within our own bodies. The similarities in the learning curve of adjusting to living in the city or the mou...

This week, Alexandra speaks with Gabriela Herstik! Gabriela Herstik is a witch, author, and fashion alchemist residing in the city of Angels whose work lives at the intersection of the esoteric and erotic. She is the author of "Inner Witch: A Modern Guide to the Ancient Craft", "Bewitching the Elements: A Guide to Empowering Yourself through Earth, Air, Fire, Water and Spirit" and...

In this week’s episode, Alexandra shares a personal story around her evolution and relationship to women’s beauty standards and how we present ourselves to the world. In this episode, you’ll hear: Alexandra’s experience of building a business while using pretty glossy pics and how over time that felt less authentic as a brand message. Why it’s important to bring awareness to our actions, thoughts,...

This week, Alexandra speaks with Ruby Warrington, author and Founder of Numinous Books. Creator of the term “Sober Curious,” her books Sober Curious and The Sober Curious Reset have helped spearhead a global movement to reevaluate our individual and collective relationships to alcohol. Other works include Material Girl, Mystical World and The Numinous Astro Deck . With 20+ years’ experience as a l...

In today’s podcast, Alexandra answers a listener’s question on how to find joy through pain. In this episode, Alexandra discusses: The importance of using your breath to feel into your pain and the emotions associated with it. How to express how you feel about pain in a healthy and necessary way, and how to avoid staying stuck there in the healing process. Ideas on using creativity to transmute th...

On today’s episode, Alexandra speaks with Annie Sprinkle and Beth Stephens, who have been collaborators for 18 years and are founders of the “ecosex movement” where they aim to make the environmental movement more sexy, fun and diverse through art projects. They were official Documenta 14 artists (2017) where they premiered their film, “Water Makes Us Wet”, had a visual art exhibit, and gave Ecose...

On today’s episode, Alexandra is answering a listener question around healing the father wound and learning how to trust men in order to be healthy in love. In this episode, you’ll hear: Alexandra’s healing journey of transferring hate into love with her father, and how to discern for yourself which shade of acceptance and forgiveness you can begin to work with in your own process of healing. How...

On today’s episode, Alexandra speaks with Madison Margolin, one of the founders of Double Blind Magazine, a super sexy and inclusive magazine on psychedelics! Madison Margolin is the co-founder and editorial director of DoubleBlind, a media company and education platform at the forefront of the rapidly growing psychedelic movement. As a working journalist based between New York and Los Angeles, Ma...

This week, Alexandra is back answering your questions!  And today’s topic is all around ritualizing your love and sex practices to help call in what you desire. In today’s episode, you’ll hear: Examples of how you can ritualize every aspect of your life, especially when you feel that some parts of your life may have become routine, or are feeling dull or numb. Ideas on creating rituals for yoursel...

This week, Alexandra speaks with Ingrid Coronado, who is a native Mexican, a television host, radio host, writer, and lecturer! She is a Mexican content creator and digital leader with a 25-year media career, and a leader of female empowerment and icon of integral well-being. In this episode, you’ll hear: The common narrative around femininity across many cultures as consisting of self-sacrifice a...

On today’s episode of Holy F*ck, Alexandra is back and answering your questions solo-style, diving into the topics of love, loss, and how to process the ending with a beloved. In this episode, you’ll hear: Ideas and rituals on how to process loss in your life through intentionally creating a container to grieve, so that you are working with your emotions rather than letting your emotions work you....

On today’s episode, Alexandra speaks with Emily Miller, a contestant on the Netflix show, Too Hot To Handle! What Alexandra loved about working with Emily on the show was how unashamed Emily was about her sexuality.  She didn’t seem to be afraid to speak about her sexuality in a very blunt and honest way, and that was very inspiring to witness and see presented on tv. This episode may be a great c...

This week on Holy F*ck, Alexandra speaks with Carly Lawrence from the Netflix show, Too Hot To Handle! Carly is one of the contestants on season two of the show that Alexandra had the pleasure of leading in a few workshops and rituals throughout the season, and was very real and honest throughout their work together.   In this episode, you’ll hear: Ideas on what a healthy romantic relationship is...

On today’s episode, Alexandra speaks with one of her dear dear friends, Moun D’Simone!   Moun is a Spiritual Godmother, supporting womxn to find strength and courage in their story. She works with clients and students doing deep transformational and empowerment work, through one-on-one mentorship and group programs. She also speaks and leads retreats for clients such as Maha Rose, Kripalu, Three J...

On this week’s episode, we have an incredibly inspiring story for you today!  Alexandra speaks with Marlee Liss, a sensual reclamation coach, speaker, author and restorative justice advocate.  She is a queer, sparkle-loving feminist and trailblazer.  Marlee made history in the justice system when her sexual assault case became the 1st in North America to conclude with restorative justice.  Since t...

Today’s episode of Holy F*ck is a special solo episode with Alexandra where she answers your questions on love, work, spiritual growth, and more! This one gets personal as Alexandra shares her own stories of healing in many different aspects and areas of life, and discusses how doing such deep healing work has opened the door to receiving great love in sacred partnership. In today’s episode, you’l...

For this week’s episode, Alexandra speaks with EbonyJanice, an incredible woman who is a mega-manifestor and creative, she is the founder of Black Girl Mixtape, a writer, a dreamer, an advocate for joy, a mover and a shaker, a playwright, an activist… so many friggin’ things! OH!   And she is also working with Alexandra in 1-1 mentorship and coaching for a year in the space of heart-opening femini...

On this week’s podcast, Alexandra speaks with Eryn Wise! Eryn Wise is a co-director at Seeding Sovereignty, an Indigenous-led grassroots organization working on land, body and food sovereignty issues. They are also a co-founding director of the Indigenous Impact Community Care Initiative, a mutual aid program within Seeding Sovereignty, and are a co-founding mentor to the International Indigenous...