Attitudes/Answers with Olen Baker

What is most important at THIS MOMENT?  Not yesterday, or tomorrow.  This moment is where you start to manage frustration and turn the corner.  Tomorrow becomes a much better day.

High levels of frustration can produce self-defeating thoughts and behaviors.  You need to find the strength to power through.  Trust in God to help you find the way.  

Managing stress isn't easy.  Acknowledging what you feel and think is best managed through confession.  Jesus has everything you need to help that happen.

Failure is very predictable in every human.  We are imperfect.  How we rebound from failure is based on truth and faith in God.  He will cleanse your heart and soul, every time.

Suspicion that is unresolved can damage a relationship in many ways.  Allow God to direct your benavior and help you discover truth.  He is the only one who can do that in your life.

Anger CAN be helpful when it is expressed in the right way.  The right way gives helpful resolutions.  Without out that, your anger is wasted energy that endangers the relationship.

Life comes with surprises.  Remaining self-composed  can be tough.  Look beyond the moment and turn to God for direction.  He always knows the best way.

It's not easy, but essential to maintain calm.  Jesus has the power to help us resist anger and anxiety.  Just ask Him.

Being calm helps us keep anger and fear at bay.  The holy spirit helps is get there.

Controlling emotions reveals love and respect for each other.  Not always easy, right?  Here is a way you can get there.

Complaining can become habitual, even if you don't want it to.  Not resolving the issue can destroy a relationship.  Let's see if we can help get you out of the rut, today.

So, what caused the conflict?  If you don't understand that basic emotion, you will never discover an answer.  Let's get you started on the right path, right now.

Choose your battles carefully.  Ever hear that?  Let's find out how to make things right.

You're not ready, but they are.  So, how can you help them when they're not at home and they are ready for the next big adventure/  Let's find out.

Okay, so you just experienced a moment in your life that was bigger than expected.  How do you move forward?  Let's get you there.

You talk too much!  You always have the last word!  Okay, it's time to stop talking and start listening.  Your first priority, listen to God, and he will give you the widsom of words and common sense.  

Impulsive decisions often result in pain and suffering.  On the other hand, a decisive moment could be a positive experience.  The key:  When it's anchored in prayer and comes with God's blessings.  

Parents sometimes push their children to do so many things, they get frustrated and eventually end up participating.  Maybe you do that.  Let God help direct and guide you through the confusion.  You'll get much better results.

Maybee something simple, like seeking God, is all you need.  We live in a noisy world.  Find the quiet spot near God.  It's right there.

Simply, faith in God is the first step.  He can help you get there and stay there.  Trust in his blessing.

We need to believe in who we are and what we are.  That's self-esteem.  You cannot build on your character until you believe in your worth.  God can help you see the beauty inside, even on the most challenging days.  

We do not live life without facing some, maybe several, epic and challenging moments.  God is right there to experience those moments with you.  God is the foundational bond that helps you see beyond the challenge.

That's a scary question, as marriage is more than hopes and dreams.  Marriage is a huge adjustment in the way you live your life.  Make sure you've got that taken care of, first.

You have an ego.  We all do.  Keeping the ego part under control is called humility.  Not always easy, but always essential.  Let others shine your light for you.

Okay, so this amazing thing happend to me, today.  Did God plan that?  The answer is, yes.  He has a plan for you and he will help you finish it.