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It's one thing to have to learn how to adult, it's another when you have to take care of one, too. In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya is joined by co-host Vincent Bernard to pose a big question a lot of older millennials like themselves are facing these days: how can I make the most of my life while taking care of my aging parent? Not all folks are often met with the responsibility of taki...

It's been a while, but we're back — with a new episode of "Fifi After Dark" for this week's episode of "Adult-ish." In this episode, our CBD-infused hostess speaks to her recent issues with her health and how it's put a spotlight on the overall concept of wellness. While opening up about her current illness, Afiya talks very candidly about how we often neglect signs when our bodies are telling us...

It's time to celebrate, 'Adult-ish' fans and stans — our very own Vincent Bernard is striking it out on his own and we're taking in the full moment. Our favorite co-host's recent move to his own pad is the subject of today's episode and with host Afiya A., the pair discuss the differences between living on your own, living with your family, living on your own with others, and the importance of how...

It's the first week of March, and some of us are still feeling the result of all those chocolate-covered strawberries, seafood-stuffed lobster tails, and steak from Valentine's Day. With that in mind, it may be time for a reset — and on this episode of "Adult-ish," you'll learn how with an expert. Former guest and friend to the show Kwaku (aka Super Osei) flexes his personal training savvy to brea...

Drinking — it's something we love to do, and at times a hallmark, nay, a right of passage for adulthood. So, why does it seem like a lot of us are doing wrong? Well, because we are. In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya A. sits down with Kayla Mensah, a sommelier, to discuss the science behind drinking wine, finding the stuff you like, and some of the stereotypes that have come with drinking...

Still reeling over the titillating talk about porn with adult entertainer, Jet Setting Jasmine? Well, Afiya is — that's why this episode of "Adult-ish Presents: Fifi After Dark," she's really getting into it with a concoction and conversation about porn and her relationship with sex. The pseudo-sober host opens up about her introduction to sex, how she was able to understand her sexuality, and com...

Porn. Pornographic material. We all know about it. Some of us use it, some of us... not so much. Sometimes, uttering the word can bring about many feelings — including shame. So, let's talk about it with an expert! In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya A. sits down with psychotherapist, fetish trainer, AND adult entertainer Jet Setting Jasmine to discuss our feelings about porn as adults. Thi...

Valentine's Day is just around the corner, and for the single crowd, that day can be one of the worst days of the year. But it doesn't have to be. In this light-hearted episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya A. welcomes back relationship coach Alison Wellington of Align with Alison to discuss how singletons should take on the holiday. Not only does Alison give a few tips and tricks on how to celebrate...

Comics may be popular among the kids, but let's face it, a comic book fan will always be a comic book fan — and in this episode of 'Adult-ish,' host Afiya A. and co-host Vincent Bernard chat with one woman who's made her childhood love her current career! In this fantabulous episode, content creator Stephanie Williams joins the "Adult-ish" cast to talk about her LOL-worthy viral tweets to her new...

Hey, Adult-ish fans & stans! In this update, 'Adult-ish' host Afiya A. breaks down what's to come for the month of February and you don't want to miss it. While January has been a bit dry (and no, not because we were sober), we are aiming for February to be pretty juicy. This month, we have four AMAZING guests dropping by for some fun, quirky, funky, and kinky conversation. Tune into this quick up...

As the country has officially sworn in a new president, we can only hope now that this will be a time our nation will attempt to make peace with itself. Several of the rioters and domestic terrorists who have stormed The Capitol are facing the consequences of their actions. No one should ever feel like they are so entitled — whether it's the law or your life. In this uncovered Fifi After Dark, hos...

The first week of 2021 has already taken the nation by storm — literally — as rioters and domestic terrorist waving their Trump flags stormed the nation's Capitol building to overturn the results of the election. It's an embarrassing display that has the whole world looking at the USA sideways and the hosts of "Adult-ish" get into this failed coup. Listen on as they talk about the grand level of e...

It's just a few minutes until the ball drops and we all ring in 2021... but 2020's path is still in plain sight. In this episode 'Fifi After Dark,' host Afiya A. laments on how time changed in 2020 and what the year gave to us, both good and bad. Dubbing it a forced "moment of stillness," the slightly inebriated host talks to the moments of opportunity and reflection 2020 gave us in the midst of a...

2020 is about to go to dust, but not before leaving its mark. In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya A. and co-host Vincent Bernard take a quick look back at how 2020 has changed their lives — and the lives of everyone on planet earth. Between the circus we called politics, to the devastation of the COVID-19 virus, the duo talk about the losses and stresses 2020 brought with and how quickly it...

Grammy nominations are out and per usual, many musical artists are in their feels about being "snubbed." One in particular, Teyana Taylor, took the snub pretty hard and went on to announce her potential retirement from music... but was it really warranted? In this episode of "Adult-ish," both host Afiya A and co-host Vincent Bernard examine the "WTP" singer's decision to leave the industry and pos...

As we approach the frosty cold and near the end of the year, we often use this time to reflect on our past — and in this Fifi After Dark (FAD), the "Adult-ish" host does just that. In this new episode, host Afiya goes it alone for another liquor-fueled moment of self-reflection as she laments over the words of relationship coach, Alison Wellington of Align with Alison. Doing a call back to S4, Ep....

In this episode "Adult-ish", host Afiya A. is joined by co-host Vincent Bernard to do a call back to 'Ep. 25: FAD #22 — Giving Yourself Time to Grieve Relationships Like an Adult-ish' and our dear Vincent takes the reins to talk about his experience with grief and mourning. Dubbing this episode an "Adult-ish Quickie," Vincent speaks to a recent loss of his and the thoughts behind having to grieve...

The 2020 Election season has come but it's not-so-quiet gone... In this (mildly delayed) episode of "Adul-tish," host Afiya is joined by co-host Vincent Bernard to discuss their feels about President-Elect Joe Biden, Vice President-Elect Kamala Harris, and the Don's attempts to keep them out of the office. The two mull over the relief that's been washed over, simmering rage that's bubbling over, a...

*Note: This episode of "Adult-ish" was recorded a week before the Election Day results* The 2020 Election season has been one filled with bigotry, racism, social injustice, and just plain ol' stupidity — and we're getting into it. In this overdue episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya and co-host Vincent Bernard get together to discuss the circus that our democracy has turned into and the drive to vot...

You've heard talk about investing in your mental health, your physical health, but what about having a healthy, meaningful relationship? Just like you can seek out a therapist and physical trainer for the former, there are relationship coaches for the latter — and "Adult-ish" snagged one! For this episode of "Adult-ish" host Afiya is joined by fellow Brooklyn College alum and relationship coach Al...

There are many reasons to consider a person a friend, but are looks one of them? For some, this may actually be the case! In this episode of "Adult-ish," host Afiya tackles the topic of an Insta meme with friend and fellow Aquarian, Jen aka the original Hot Mess Mom. The two HS friends mull over the idea of maintaining friendships due to a physical — and possibly romantic — attraction. Do you hang...

In this latest episode, "Adult-ish" host Afiya A. brings back the true feel of her "Fifi After Dark" segments with a liquored-up lesson on grief and mourning. In these somber times where death and devastation is all around us due to COVID-19 and racial injustice, host Afiya reminds everyone that we can mourn more than just the loss of someone in the physical space — but in the emotional space, too...

Host Afiya A. and co-host Vincent Bernard may have talked about 'Avatar: The Last Airbender' and 'Legend of Korra,' but never like this! In this episode of 'Adult-ish,' the duo are joined by none other than voice actor, Janet Varney aka the Korra herself, and they get a chance to geek out like ever before. While getting an opportunity to fan and fawn over Janet, the trio discuss Legend of Korra's...

And we're back with another episode of "Adult-ish," and the conversation regarding the levels to sex continues... With her co-host, Vincent Bernard, in tow, host Afiya talk over the concept of how there are levels to the kind of sex a person may have dependant on the partner and impression they are trying to impart. While going through multiple scenarios, the conversational couplet discusses how t...

We know there are levels to the kinds of relationship with have with our friends and loved ones, and we even acknowledge there are loves to how we love, but can there also be levels to this sex thing? After hearing one woman's discussion on how she breaks down the kind of sex she gives to a partner, ranking the love-making by his role in her life, "Adult-ish" host Afiya got to thinking... and drin...