UnDoing We with Mardi Winder

High-Conflict Divorce: Respond Strategically, Not Emotionally - High-conflict divorce can be more than two people who simply cannot get along. Join Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder and High Conflict Divorce Strategist Ksenia Muench as they explore what can happen when conflict becomes a tool for control. They discuss legal abuse, smear campaigns, gaslighting, manipulation involving childr...

Join Mardi Winder, host of UnDoing We, as she welcomes Brynn Ungerleider, Founder of Premier Nanny Network, to explore an often-overlooked form of divorce support—getting reliable help with everyday family and household responsibilities. From childcare and transportation to household management and changing schedules, Brynn shares how professional support can reduce stress, create greater stabilit...

*** May Be A Sensitive Topic for Some Listeners*** Reproductive coercion is a form of abuse that often goes unrecognized, yet its emotional, physical, financial, and legal consequences can last for years. In this episode Mardi Winder welcomes advocate Lynn Stroud for an important conversation about reproductive coercion and how it can be used as a tool of power and control within unhealthy relatio...

Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder welcomes Robyn Vogel, psychotherapist, trauma-informed love and intimacy coach, and founder of Come Back to Love, for an insightful conversation about healing, recovery, and building healthier relationships after divorce. Robyn explores how past trauma can influence love, attachment, intimacy, and repeating relationship patterns. Together, she and Mardi di...

In this episode, Strategic Divorce Consultant and High Conflict Divorce Coach Mardi Winder talks with Laura Richards, international podcaster, author, and survivor of a 32-year marriage to a covert narcissist. Together, they explore the realities of leaving a toxic or narcissistic relationship, including love bombing, no contact, the gray rock method, setting boundaries, and managing ongoing commu...

What happens to the family home during divorce—and can you really afford to keep it? Join Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder and Jeffrey Landers, CDFA, CDLP, founder of Divorce House Sense®, LLC, for an important conversation about the financial, practical, and emotional realities of deciding what to do with the marital home. Mardi and Jeff explore emotional attachment to the home, maintain...

In this episode, Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder welcomes Kelly Sedwick Drummond, Certified Divorce and Life Coach and founder of KJSD Coaching, for a conversation about the value of divorce coaching during one of life’s most difficult transitions. Drawing from her own divorce experience, Kelly explains how coaching can provide emotional support, practical guidance, and clarity alongside...

Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder welcomes life coach and spark-restorer for women, Megan Bunnell, for an inspiring conversation about rebuilding life after divorce, trauma, and emotional abuse. Megan shares her deeply personal journey of leaving an abusive relationship, navigating grief and the loss of her identity, and ultimately creating what she now describes as a "10 out of 10" life....

Sometimes life changes because we choose it. Sometimes life changes because the change chooses us. In this episode, Mardi Winder welcomes transformational trainer, certified master life coach, and bestselling contributing author J. Lumen for a conversation about rebuilding your life after unexpected change. J. shares how, from the outside, her life appeared to be on track. She had a long-term rela...

In this episode, the conversation centers around the unique challenges that women with ADHD and other neurodivergent traits may face when moving through divorce and major relationship changes. Leanne Gawley, founder of The ADHD Advantage, joins the podcast to share her personal experiences as a late-diagnosed adult with ADHD and how this discovery reshaped her approach to both her personal and pro...

In this episode, the conversation centers around the real-life pros and cons of handling a divorce on your own. Mardi Winder talks with Tracey Bee, sharing her story as a former family law attorney turned court strategist. Listeners get a down-to-earth look at what it really takes to go through divorce without hiring a lawyer. Tracey talks about why she left traditional law to help people complete...

How do you know when pressure is pushing you toward your best performance and when it has crossed the line into stress that is quietly affecting your health, judgment, and confidence? In this episode, Mardi Winder welcomes award-winning executive coach and international speaker Shairose Gulamani for a thoughtful conversation about the important difference between pressure and stress, and why recog...

This episode takes a thoughtful look at something a lot of people don’t think about right away when going through a divorce: what to do about the family pet. The conversation centers around Karis Nafte, a pet custody mediator, who brings both humor and compassion to a subject that can get surprisingly complicated and emotional. With years of experience in dog behavior and working with separating f...

On this episode of UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder welcomes Keri Gwynne, CEO of Starting Point by Freedom, and Ryan Finley, Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, for a practical discussion on building the right divorce team. Drawing from both professional expertise and personal experience, Keri and Ryan share valuable insights on keeping children at the center of divorce decisions, creating e...

In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Keri Gwynne and Ryan Finley to talk about how divorce is about so much more than just legal paperwork; it’s a mix of emotional, practical, and financial challenges. Keri Gwynne shares about her own tough journey through an abusive marriage and a long, costly divorce. Her experience led her to start her own business, offering real support and coaching to...

Mardi Winder talks with Dr. Pamela J. Pine, an international health development professional and leading advocate on preventing and addressing child sexual abuse and other adverse childhood experiences. Together, they address the often unspoken realities of how conflict, whether high, moderate, or even low-level, within families can deeply affect children, shaping their lives long after the events...

Mardi Winder sits down with Julia Shteynberg, who brings her experience from the world of corporate finance to her work as a money coach. The conversation is friendly and easy-going, and Julia is quick to reassure listeners that you don’t have to be a celebrity or a billionaire to be considered a high earner. In fact, anyone bringing in over $100,000 is already facing many of the same emotional an...

Host Mardi Winder welcomes Kate Mayor, psychotherapist and emotional abuse recovery specialist, for an insightful discussion on healing after a toxic or narcissistic relationship. Drawing from both professional expertise and her own experience leaving an emotionally abusive marriage, Kate shares the challenges survivors often face, including fear, self-doubt, guilt, and manipulation during and aft...

On this episode of UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder welcomes Donna S. Cates, founder of Money Matters Wealth Solutions, Financial Strategist, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®). Together, they explore the financial decisions during divorce that can have long-term consequences. Donna shares practical insights on dividing retirement accounts, understanding tax implications, handling QDROs...

Host Mardi Winder welcomes transformation coach Pritha Dindayal, who shares her powerful journey through divorce, personal loss, and major life transitions. Together, they explore why many people feel stuck between endings and new beginnings, and how old fears and patterns can quietly hold us back. Pritha offers practical insights on recognizing limiting beliefs, building supportive connections, a...

In this engaging and thought-provoking episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Olya Piccirillo, an accomplished wellness practitioner whose personal journey through illness, loss, and profound transformation has shaped her holistic approach to healing. Their conversation explores the deep, sometimes overlooked connection between unresolved trauma and physical health, drawing on both Western and Easte...

On this episode, we shine a spotlight on a critical, but often overlooked, part of the divorce process: mortgages and refinancing. Host Mardi Winder is joined by Stacey Ellison, a certified divorce lending professional and experienced divorce mortgage planner. Together, they demystify the financial hurdles divorcing homeowners face, including talking about assumptions, equity buyouts, and why what...

Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 2 Financial empowerment and emotional preparedness are at the center of this meaningful conversation with Victoria Kirilloff, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, as she joins Mardi Winder for the second part of their discussion about navigating divorce with high-conflict personalities.  Victoria recounts her own journey through a decade-long relatio...

Today, Mardi Winder talks with Victoria Kirilloff, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst who brings both personal experience and a highly analytical lens to a high-conflict and toxic divorce process. The conversation explores how Victoria’s journey led her to create divorce analytics and develop the global settlement proposal, a powerful tool that gives individuals a complete and realistic view of...

On this episode, Mardi Winder talks with Karen Omand, a divorce and grief specialist who understands the deep emotional loss that can accompany the end of a marriage. Drawing from her own experiences with grief and a difficult relationship, Karen shares why divorce grief is often misunderstood and how it can affect everything from emotional health to identity and daily life. Together they discuss...