The Season of Self Love

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me You've visualized it, affirmed it, and put it on the vision board. You're asking for the relationship, but you're still single. You're declaring abundance, but you feel blocked. And you're wondering what you're doing wrong. In this Mindset Monday episode, I'm sitting down with you to talk about the part of manifest...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me You know how to love other people. You know how to show up for everyone else. But somewhere along the way, loving yourself became the hardest relationship of all. That's not a character flaw. Nobody ever taught you how. This week, I'm kicking off Season 6 Wisdom Wednesdays with Jonathon Aslay, author of What the Heck Is Self-Love Anyway? a...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Season 6 is here, and Mindset Monday is back. I'm opening with something real: a few weeks ago, I taught on divine timing while still waiting on dates, confirmation, and proof that things were actually happening. Fear was loud. So I went to my altar, released it, and the very next day after that episode went live, I got the confirmation I'...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me You look fine. You're managing, holding it all together, showing up. But inside, you're running on empty. Here's the thing — that's not a willpower problem or a mindset problem. That's a nervous system problem. This week I'm joined by Katherine Chestnut, a mindfulness and nervous system expert who helps people who look...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me This week was a lot — fresh off New York Fashion Week, deep in chocolate tempering trial and error, a movie release date looming, and fear creeping in about all of it. Then I watched three people I love achieve dreams they'd worked toward for years, and it reminded me: time is divine. Not our timing — divine timing. In this episode, I'm te...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Monday, we talked about rebuilding self-trust after betrayal, trauma, or burnout. Today, my guest shows us what that actually looks like in practice. Alexandra Beller — dancer, choreographer, educator, and author of the upcoming book The Anatomy of Art — has spent decades helping artists and educators break free from old fear patterns and rebuild tr...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Betrayal breaks something inside of you. So does trauma. So does burnout. All three break your ability to trust yourself — if you couldn't see the betrayal coming, how can you trust your instincts? If you burned out, what does that say about your judgment? So you stop trusting. You second-guess everything. You wait for permission. And that&apos...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Monday, I told you about choosing healing ways — building a #1 podcast while managing invisible illness, explanting, and recovering. But nobody talks about what you actually do on the hard days, when your energy is depleted, your brain is foggy, and your nervous system is activated. Today I'm giving you the real tools I use — not theory, not wh...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Four years ago, I sat at my altar at 50 years old and heard: do daily shows. My entire body said hell no. I had breast implant illness (BII) — an invisible chronic illness I didn't even know I had — draining my energy, fogging my brain, and attacking my immune system. Fear told me I was too sick, too tired, and too unbelievable to build a five-...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Monday morning, I sat down to record about fear — your guardian, real danger versus imagined danger — and fear showed up so loud I couldn't finish. My shoulders tightened, my throat closed, my breath got shallow, and I heard my guardian say: if you teach this, people will see you're scared and won't believe you. So I stopped recording...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Fear isn't the problem — your body needs fear. It's kept you alive since the day you were born. But what happens when fear stops protecting you and starts controlling you? That's when protection becomes a prison. This month, we're breaking free. In this episode, I kick off September's series, Faith vs. Fear, by breaking down...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me On Monday, I told you fear came back — loud. Today I'm giving you the actual tools for what to do when that happens, because fear will return. That's not the problem. What you do with it is everything. In this episode, I walk you through the exact practice I used this week to move through fear instead of bypassing it: how to recognize fear...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me I came back from vacation proud — 30 Hard complete, explant anniversary celebrated, the documentary released, Patreon launched. I thought I'd done the work. Then fear came back, bigger and louder than before, and I almost missed it because I was too busy thinking I was past it. In this episode, I get real about what happened when I sat at my al...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Thirty days ago, I started the 30 Hard thinking it was about discipline — pushing my body, checking boxes, staying consistent. Four days after completing it, I'm sitting with the real lesson: it was never about discipline at all. It was about listening. In this episode, I break down what 30 days of daily meditation, movement, altar work, learni...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me One year ago today, I made a choice to stop proving myself and start trusting myself — I removed my breast implants. Today, I'm celebrating that choice with proof: real footage, the full journey, not the highlight reel. In this episode, I open up about what it's meant to live one year past my explant surgery, why "the choice created t...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me From Fear to Freedom: The Power of Making the Choice Season 5 | August Week 2 Mindset Monday | Day 27 of 30 Hard | Hosted by Nyomi Banks 📖 EPISODE SUMMARY Fear kept me from making the choice. But the moment I made the CHOICE — to reclaim, to listen, to trust — everything shifted. Not my body. My MIND. Not my circumstances. My KNOWING. Today we talk...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Monday: Fear is held in your body. Reclamation means taking back what's yours. Last week (Ask Nyomi): Discipline is sexy because it's RESILIENT. Not perfect—resilient. Today: We put it together. We do the WORK of reclaiming your body. Not perfectly. But CONSCIOUSLY. And we do it from where we are RIGHT NOW. 🧘 60-SECOND MEDITATION Place bo...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Day 20 of 30 Hard. Exactly MIDWAY. The gym quote on my wall: "Don't be afraid to work hard enough to find out how good you really can be." I've been sharing it for weeks. But today it HIT DIFFERENTLY. Because this isn't just about fitness. This is about reclaiming your body. This is about what happens when you stop being afr...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me THIS IS IT. THE FINAL WEEK OF JULY. We've been on a JOURNEY together. Week 1: Being the messenger (stay visible) Week 2: Journey from broken to unbroken Week 3: The messenger effect (how visibility creates permission) Week 4: CLAIMING YOUR FULL MESSENGER STORY Today: We WRITE it. We OWN it. We COMMIT to LIVING it. No apologies. No hiding. No sh...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me We're closing July's "Look at the Messenger" journey. Week 1: Being the messenger (stay visible) Week 2: Journey from broken to unbroken Week 3: The messenger effect (how visibility creates permission) Week 4: Claiming your FULL messenger story Not parts of it. All of it. No apologies. 🧘 60-SECOND MEDITATION "I own my full...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Monday: We talked about the MESSENGER EFFECT (how your visible transformation creates permission). Today: We IDENTIFY who's watching you and AMPLIFY your impact. You're already a messenger. Now let's make it CONSCIOUS. 🧘 60-SECOND MEDITATION "People are watching me and they are learning from my transformation. I am already a mes...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me What happens when you let people watch you heal — not just the "after" photo, but the real, messy middle? On this Mindset Monday, Nyomi Banks breaks down the Messenger Effect : the ripple that happens when you stay visible through your own transformation instead of disappearing until you're "fixed." Nyomi gets personal about...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me 📖 EPISODE SUMMARY Monday: We learned transformation is a JOURNEY. Today: We MAP YOUR JOURNEY. Where are you? What work do you need? What support do you need? Transformation isn't theoretical. It's PRACTICAL. It's REAL. 🧘 60-SECOND MEDITATION "I accept where I am. I commit to the work. I don't have to be fixed. I just have...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me From Broken to Unbroken: The Journey of Transformation Season 5 | Week 2 Mindset Monday | Hosted by Nyomi Banks 📖 EPISODE SUMMARY Last week, we talked about being the messenger and staying visible. This week, we go DEEPER into the actual journey from broken to unbroken. Not the destination. Not the highlight reel. The ACTUAL WORK. What real healing...

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Monday, we talked about being the messenger. About staying visible. About refusing to hide. Today? We identify YOUR messenger story. Not your past. Not your label. Who you are NOW. What you've overcome. What you're building. What you're becoming. 5 POWERFUL EXERCISES: Exercise 1: What Have You Overcome? Name what you came from (povert...