Feminine as F*ck

Today I am talking about why selling is sexy, and investing is a turn on. No matter what area you are in, we are always selling ourselves. Whether you are in business or not, this is an important episode to listen to, I riff on: 🌹 We are always selling ourselves 🌹 Why you need to fix the root to get out of your trauma cycle 🌹 The qualities you need to be able to sell easily 🌹 How your blocks a...

Who should text first? In this episode Monica answers a question from a listener who has been receiving backlash for believing the guy should text first. Monica dives into: ·  Gender roles ·  Why men need to chase ·  The importance of understanding the opposite sex ·  Dealing with backlash ⇢ Want to find our what Monica would do? Join the BTS Bubble to have your question answer...

In this episode I talk about how to get your man to ‘do the work’. I chat about: ❤️‍🔥 How you doing the work and becoming the ‘light’ inspires him ❤️‍🔥 Men wait to hit rock bottom, how about starting with you? ❤️‍🔥 Giving an ultimatum vs giving a nudge ❤️‍🔥 Why you should not push anyone to do this kind of work ⇢ Follow the Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feminineasfck/?hl=en ⇢ Fo...

Today we are going to talk about ‘nice guy syndrome’ for men, this will be helpful for you to notice these behaviours and stop doing it. For the ladies, it’s going to be helpful to validate some of your experiences and feelings towards guys that are really, really nice. In this episode I riff on: 🌹 The difference between a guy who is nice and a nice guy who is a door mat 🌹 Boundaries are sexy 🌹...

The WWMD segment today is extra juicy 💦 Monica shares what she would do if her man wasn't going down on her after having mentioning to him that she likes it.  ⇢ Want to find our what Monica would do? Join the BTS Bubble to have your question answered on the show: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Join The Feminine CEO: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/bad-ass...

Today I want to talk about redefining what it means to be a man. In society a masculine man is painted in one way and I think we are finally coming away from that ‘traditional alpha man’. The way that you’re raised will shape how you view what a man ‘should’ be. Masculine is an energy, if you don’t feel masculine, that’s where the problem is. In this episode I dive into: 🌹 What has shaped your vi...

Today I want to talk about attachment styles towards money, refunds, debt, and manifestation. I dive into: 🌹 What anxious and avoidant attachment styles are 🌹 Why healing your relationship with money is so important for your life as a whole 🌹 The power of regulating your nervous system 🌹 How your trauma response may be negatively impacting your business 🌹 Why your manifestations aren’t coming...

In this episode of WWMD Kates asks what Monica would do if she was constantly coming up against challenges and hitting a wall. Kate also wants to know how to navigate being a leader in a masculine work space whilst remaining in her feminine. This is a juicy episode, listen to find out what Monica would do. ⇢ Want to find our what Monica would do? Join the BTS Bubble to have your question answ...

Today we are talking about the difference between leading and being a dictator or authoritarian to your partner. This is an episode for the men, ladies you will get a lot out of this too. Leadership is sexy but being so dominant with no space of accepting is controlling and not in a sexy way, let’s dive into the differences between these two spaces and how you can avoid being a dictator or authori...

In this episode of girl chat, Monica and Louise dive into:  🌹 BTS of running a business (what people don’t tell you) 🌹 Dealing with overwhelm and asking for help 🌹 Implementing more masculine structure 🌹 Navigating a long-distance relationship 🌹 A mindset shift for outsourcing and investing 🌹 Cancel plans or push through? 🌹 Procrastination and productivity ⇢ Follow the Podcast Instagra...

Ever wonder what Monica would do if she was growing but her partner was procrastinating? Find out in todays episode of 'What Would Monica Do?' ⇢ Want to find our what Monica would do? Join the BTS Bubble to have your question answered on the show: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Join The Feminine CEO: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/bad-ass-btches-academy/ ⇢ Fol...

Let’s talk about staying in abundance even in economic downturn. You can still tap into the frequency and energy of abundance even when everyone around you is running around like a headless chicken and going into chronic saving mode.  In this episode, I dive into: 🌹 Why abundance money mindset are aspects you need to constantly work on 🌹 How I purchase and invest from a frequency of abundan...

Today I am talking about money leaks, and I want to kick off with a chicken nugget I said that someone emailed to me..   “Investing in yourself is setting your value, not paying a bill.”   When you are investing in yourself, you are not paying a bill, what you are paying for is your future, the better and truer version of yourself. The way you invest is claiming how you value yourself.&n...

Today I am talking about balancing your hormones, this is an episode that men also need to listen to because men have hormones too.  I dive into: ☾ The seven top foods that I love to incorporate into my diet that help with balancing hormones ☾ Eating for optimal health and fertility ☾ Foods that cause inflammation ☾ How trauma can impact your cycle and imbalance your hormones ☾ Not embracing...

In this episode of Girl Chat, Monica and Louise chat about their Green flags and riff on: ❤️‍🔥 What gives them the ‘ick’ ❤️‍🔥 Masculine holding space for the feminine ❤️‍🔥 Plastic surgery, body image and self-acceptance ❤️‍🔥 Thoughts on alcohol and drinking habits ❤️‍🔥 Mommy’s boy vs a healthy relationship with their mother ❤️‍🔥 Communication without ego ⇢ Follow the Podcast Instagram: https...

Today we are talking about Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadochism and Masochism (BDSM). I am all for BDSM, kink and all of the things, whatever your sexual fantasies are, I am here for it. Something to be mindful of is that your sexual fantasies in the bedroom should also be coming out in your life. I riff on why this is in today's episode and also dive into:  🌹 What are...

Today I am answering your questions that have come up from the episode that I did regarding Roe V. Wade, I have gotten my research from reputable articles but encourage you to do your own research also. ·  Overview of the specifics, conditions and differentiation of abortion law in each state ·   The difference between abortion and the morning after pill ·  My thoughts on abort...

This episode is all about how I am navigating this new season of my life. I grew up in New York and it is the only city in the world that felt like home so moving back to New York as an adult felt so good. I had my dream apartment, in the Jenga building, Tribeca and worked with an interior designer to fit it out, it felt so good to make it mine. Then, I met the man of my dreams who lives in Atlant...

Today I am talking about understanding the blocks to your zones. You have different zones throughout your life, different zones of genius, love and money etc. What can happen is you can get stuck in one zone that inhibits you from getting to the next zone but the next zone is where you need to get for something to happen.  Chicken nugget: Just because it doesn’t feel safe, doesn’t mean you sh...

Today we are going to talk about abortion, Roe v. Wade and the influence that these things have on us as women.  Regardless of the reason of your abortion, terminating a pregnancy is a very emotionally challenging thing for you to go through. I have had clients come to me after an abortion who are unsure why they are feeling the way that they are because they backed themselves 100%. I want to...

In this episode of Girl Chat, Monica and Louise dive into: ·  Monica’s feelings about relocating to the South ·  The expansive nature of investing in your comfort, time and health ·  Being the ‘bread winner’ as a woman does not mean your man can’t provide in other masculine ways ·  Examples of how your man can provide for you even when you earn more money ⇢ Follow the Podcast I...

Today we are talking about how the ‘girl boss’ movement is hurting women. Our core desires as a feminine woman are to feel connected, loved and nourished in our body and without those things we feel out of alignment. In this episode I dive into how striving to emulate the ‘girl boss’ ideal leads women to ignore those very desires. I touch on: ·  Where the ‘girl boss’ idea came from ·  Th...

Today I am talking about losing weight from a place of love and I am so excited to jam on this. I have had my own journey with my body and let’s be real, I think every single man and woman has had some sort of journey in terms of their relationship with their body. My purpose always is for us all to be living within our truth and in a respectful, kind and loving way with ourselves and with those a...

This episode is from an interview I did on the ‘Make Shift Happen’ Podcast with Samantha Daily. We discuss masculine and feminine energy in relation to life, business and dating. I dive into: ·  What you need to consider before hiring a coach ·  The decision you need to make to have a successful business ·  How masculine tasks can feed the feminine ·  Why emasculating men stops...

In this episode of Girl Chat, Monica and Louise dive into: ·  Monica receiving backlash on her views of being led by your man ·  Balancing your masculine and feminine energy ·  Living your life for you and not by societies standards ·  Why not letting a man lead keeps you in the dark ⇢ Follow the Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feminineasfck/?hl=en ⇢ Listen to The...