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What does a child really need from a father? Not a perfect dad—but a father who shows up, knows them, listens and communicates, “You matter to me.” Dr. Sharon May talks with fatherhood expert Dr. Ken Canfield about the qualities of effective fathers and the lifelong influence a dad can have on his sons and daughters. And if you haven't fathered the way you wish you had, there is hope: relationship...

Shame doesn't simply say, “I did something wrong.” Shame whispers, “There is something wrong with me.” Dr. Sharon May talks with psychologist Dr. Mark Baker about where shame comes from, how it quietly shapes relationships and self-worth, and why hiding usually makes it stronger. Learn how to recognize the voice of shame, separate who you are from what has happened to you, and begin moving toward...

Every marriage goes through difficult seasons. But how do you know when normal marital struggles have crossed into something unhealthy or destructive? Dr. Sharon May talks with relationship expert Leslie Vernick about the important difference between a disconnected, difficult and destructive marriage.

In this special episode, the usual interview format gets turned around. Instead of hosting a guest, our host Dr. Sharon May takes the guest seat as her husband, Mike May, interviews her about some of the most relevant challenges facing families and relationships today. Drawing from conversations and insights she has gathered from professionals in the field, she explores timely topics, asks honest...

How do you cope when the "suddenlies" of life come? This conversation with Dr. Sharon May and Corri Graves will help listeners feel seen in the shock and grief when life changes, such as in the midst of cancer, while offering hope, faith, connection, and practical wisdom for living with courage in a season they never expected.

Sometimes the strategies that helped us survive difficult childhood experiences become the very patterns that keep us from living freely as adults. Dr. Sharon May talks with bestselling author and nurse Tana Amen about trauma, resilience, self-protection and the journey from surviving to becoming whole. How do you face painful parts of your life story without allowing them to define you? And how c...

Sometimes the strategies that helped us survive difficult childhood experiences become the very patterns that keep us from living freely as adults. Dr. Sharon May talks with bestselling author and nurse Tana Amen about trauma, resilience, self-protection and the journey from surviving to becoming whole. How do you face painful parts of your life story without allowing them to define you? And how c...

What do you do when life suddenly becomes a life you never planned? Loss, illness, disappointment and crisis can divide life into a “before” and an “after.” Dr. Sharon May talks with grief and crisis specialist Dr. Kevin Ellers about what helps people endure devastating seasons without losing hope. How do we grieve what has changed, find strength for today and slowly begin creating a meaningful li...

When your children become adults, your relationship with them has to change—but letting go isn't always easy. In Part 2, Dr. Sharon May and Jim Burns talk about boundaries, unsolicited advice, disappointment, adult children's partners, family tension, and what healthy connection looks like when your children no longer need you to manage their lives. Learn how to move from parenting your child to b...

How do you stay close to an adult child whose choices, beliefs or lifestyle may be very different from yours? Dr. Sharon May talks with parenting expert Jim Burns about one of the most complicated transitions in family life: learning to love your adult children without controlling them. Discover how to handle disagreement, listen differently, let go of old parenting roles and protect the relations...

What actually makes a life good? Success, comfort and achievement can matter—but they don't necessarily create a flourishing life. Dr. Sharon May talks with pastor and author Mark Foreman about relationships, faith, purpose, resilience, character, belonging and learning to take ownership of the life you're building. A thoughtful conversation for anyone asking: Am I simply getting through life—or a...

Why can the first years of marriage be so much harder than we expected? Dr. Sharon May talks with marriage and family expert Julie Baumgardner about disappointment, communication, conflict, emotional connection, and the everyday choices that help a marriage grow stronger. If marriage hasn't turned out exactly as you imagined, this conversation offers practical ways to listen better, repair after c...

While John has spent his entire career in aviation with the federal government, he has spent much of his spare time seeking answers that are real, lasting and deeply true. In his new book, Beyond the Broad Path, you will be encouraged to seek answers to life’s challenging moments. This book is an invitation to pause, take a deep breath and begin your journey toward enduring hope, clarity, and a vi...

John Frey's story will capture your heart. It's a poignant rendering many of us will identify with in our own families. He and his wife Lynette share a wonderful story of love for family, commitment to their faith and a desire to show the love of Christ at every turn. His story of hearing Choose Life Radio on the car radio during Covid and being with his near-death daughter, initiated an i...

In part two, J.J. Jasper continues to unfold the story of God’s redemption. The loss of Cooper—while devastating to us “ earthlings ,” is a story of glory and eternity with the Father of Life. J.J. has a wonderful way of dealing with the tragedy we humans experience and the glory of eternity with God that Cooper continues to experience.

Some stories are fun and exciting. Others are absolute heartbreakers. They start out great—and then the reality of a fallen world shows up. And that’s the case with J. J. Jasper and his son, Cooper. We welcome J.J. today to share the story of the most “ wonderful ” and the “ worst ” day of his life. I’m grateful for how God continues to use J. J. and his amazing family as they share Cooper’s story...

Today I’m talking with my friend—Berry Carter. When I served as the CEO of several Pregnancy Centers, Pastor Berry was an incredible encouragement. His congregation raised financial resources so centers could impact their communities for Life. No one believes more in the sanctity of human life than Berry. But we all face challenges. And sometimes they shake us to the core. Berry and his wife, Pegg...

Linda Keener Thomas reminds us that we have memorials for people who have died in wars, protecting our nation. And it's a gift we should remember. But in 2019 alone, 629,898 legal induced abortions were reported to CDC from 49 reporting areas—so we obviously need a memorial wall for those humans killed in the battle of abortion, right? Don't miss Linda's soft and caring words about the...

We are so glad Kelly Lester is back with us this week for an even deeper dive into her life. After hearing her story last week, I do hope you shared her testimony with family and friends and that they were able to hear part 1. And I'm assuming you also invited them to join us for part 2. Her life before Christ is a dark journey. Drugs, alcohol and gangs make for scarry experiences! But have NO...

Kelly Lester is a strong woman who dealt with a deeply hurtful childhood. And once that pain is experienced as a child—it’s far likely to continue into adulthood. Kelly shares her complicated past and the painful ways she disappointed her praying father. He prayed—at just the right moment—calling on God to save her life. This interview shows the love of a father, his commitment to Christ and Kelly...

Linda’s story—unfortunately—is like so many others. As a child, teen and young adult—she visualized God as an angry father. And no matter how much she tried—she failed. At least in her eyes. In the midst of perceived failure and rebellion—she became a teenage mom. It was then she began to see and experience God is a totally different way. Listen and experience Linda her incredible journey from emp...

Dr. Jack Graham is the senior pastor of Prestonwood Baptist Church, Texas—one of the nation’s largest Baptist congregations. With Jack as senior pastor the church has grown from 8,000 to more than 45,000 members! A noted author and biblical teacher, he is also seen and heard across the country world on PowerPoint Ministries. But today he shares some personal insights and why there is an absolute p...

After ten gratifying years of parenthood and 25 in high tech marketing, Terri founded Unplanned Good . The goal is for young women facing unplanned pregnancies to be a gift to childless couples who want to adopt. Now an “empty nester”—with daughter in college—she invests time in Unplanned Good . Terri has authored two books. Pro Choice, Pro Adoption and Pro-Family, Pro Adoption—a Christian’s guide...

Terri is a marketer. She helps Silicon Valley companies grow and develop—sometimes beyond their hopes! She’s also the founder of MarketSavvy , a consulting firm offering a mix of practical and effective marketing advice. Terri is the adoptive mom of a now 26-year-old woman who is the love of her life. Terri’s all-time favorite “action hero” is her daughter’s birthmother—who made an adoption plan w...

Chief Jeffrey Yarbrough is one of those guests who becomes an immediate friend. The Chief’s philosophy of public safety is one of breaking down silos. Silos don’t speak of teamwork—and that’s what the Chief of Hutto, Texas is all about. If we were to find ourselves in a precarious situation—we would be reaching out to Jeffrey for help. A true Christ follower—this policeman understands spiritual ne...