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If A Man Pulls Away | Avoid THIS Mistake Sometimes we confuse the word “chasing” with the idea of making effort. Chasing a guy implies that you’re texting and contacting him regularly even if he’s not showing an interest in you. Whereas making an effort is when you’re initiating communication and he’s reciprocating. There’s a give and take to making an eff...

If He Does THESE THINGS, He’ll Be Loyal To You  ‬ ‪ I’m willing to bet that people who are looking for a long term, loving relationship want their relationships to be successful. These are the people who are focused on deep conversations and willing to put in the personal development work so they can be the best versions of themselves. But sometimes while doing our own work, we forget...

Get Him To Open Up Emotionally? TRY THESE 7 THINGS  ‬ ‪ Is your guy from the generation where they learned boys don’t cry and to be a man means stuffing your emotions? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Unlearning these lessons can be time consuming but it’s not impossible for your guy to do the work and come around to having healthy, vulnerable conversations with you. Let&#821...

5 Stages Men Go Through Before They’ll Commit To You  ‬ ‪ If you’re looking for a guy to go the distance in a long term relationship, embrace every ounce of patience and listen to this episode! As always, every man is different and if he’s done any kind of self-improvement work, then he may move through these stages faster than someone who is brand new to this idea. But more impo...

Men Who Agree To THIS Are More Likely To Commit To You  ‬ ‪ How do you define a successful relationship? Now ask your guy the same question to see if you’re anywhere close to having the same definition. If you’ve never thought about this question, it’s time to sit and contemplate your answers and go a step further to question why you’ve never thought about this meaning befo...

Do THIS When He Pulls Away  ‬ ‪ Men pulling away from a relationship isn’t a new phenomenon. In fact, ‘men pulling away’ is a common Google search term simply because it happens so frequently. This is no surprise because men in general don’t understand what it means to have a deep, committed relationship. And by deep I mean having those vulnerable conversations about what t...

STRONG Sign He’s Serious About You and He’s Committed To You  ‬ ‪ There’s a difference between wanting a physical relationship and being committed. Chances are you’ve already experienced this in your past relationships. Men who want a superficial, physical relationship generally come on strong but will start to pull away when you start asking your radically honest questions...

Is He Avoiding Me or Is He Really Busy?  ‬ ‪ We’ve all been there. You feel like your guy is pulling away but he just says he’s busy. You can take him at his word or you can start to worry that maybe he’s looking for someone else. It’s a terrible mind game to play! It may seem like an avoidance tactic but it’s important to understand the types of guys in the dating po...

Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman ‬ ‪ By the time we reach the midlife era, most adults have had 3-5 significant relationships lasting longer than 3 months. Even if those relationships didn’t end in the best manner, each relationship is a lesson for how we can grow as a person. And whether you want to believe it or not, every human is capable of personal growth and depending upon...

Every Man Wants A Woman Who Does THIS!‬ ‪ Today we’re diving into what makes a relationship successful and while I can give you the advice, it’s up to you to implement it in your own relationship. Also remember that every relationship is unique – just like the individuals involved – so do your best not to compare yourself to others. Some advice will resonate more deeply wit...

A Man Will Give You Everything If You Have THIS!‬ ‪ Chemistry between two people can be strong and overwhelming…and EXCITING! If you’ve had more than 3 relationships that lasted longer than 60 days, chances are you have felt that kind of chemistry that makes you want to forget the world and devote every waking moment to this guy. However, chemistry alone is superficial and it can give...

THIS Needs To Happen For A Man To Fully Commit To You ‪@MattAndJoyKahn‬ ‪ I’m thrilled to welcome intuitive healers and best selling authors Matt and Joy Kahn to talk about Divine Partnerships. Aside from being physically attracted to someone, being connected on the level of mind, heart, and soul will bring you to another level of intimacy. We’re talking a deeper connection than talkin...

3 STRONG Signs He’s Ready To Commit To YOU!!! ‪ Nothing takes the place of having honest conversations with your guy but not every conversation has to be about your deepest thoughts and dreams. He is likely to drop clues as he gets closer to the commitment stage and if he shows these strong signs, that’s your clue that it’s time for a sit down to discuss the future. I recommend h...

Is He Love Bombing Or Is He Serious? ‪ Believe it or not, love bombing is an abuse tactic some men use to lure women into a relationship. If you’re surprised by that definition, it’s important that you listen to this episode. Flattery can be a way to a woman’s heart BUT excessive flattery is something to watch out for, especially if it begins shortly after meeting. No one should...

His Silence Is A Decision | Do THIS When He Pulls Away ‪ Emotional trauma causes pain, which in turn causes men to go silent. This type of trauma can stem from any lifechanging event but in midlife, we most often associate this trauma with divorce. Even amicable divorces can cause a level of emotional trauma simply because your life is drastically changing and you’re being thrust into the si...

When He Says THIS, You’re About To Get Your Heart Broken ‪ Some guys just don’t know what the heck they want in life, especially when it comes to dating. Even if they say they want a long term, committed relationship, there are some tell tale signs that indicate they might not want YOU or they might be mistaken about wanting a relationship all together. Communication is so important to...

Want To Keep A Man’s Attention? Men Over 40 Need THIS! ‪ When it comes to midlife relationships, knowing what YOU want is vitally important. Not only will this weed out guys who don’t share the same vision but you’ll be able to verbalize to the right guy exactly what you want and see if you’re desires are compatible. It’s tricky combining two different lifestyles, esp...

Can An Avoidant Man Commit To An Anxious Woman? Guest Thais Gibson ‪ You’ve heard me talk about attachment styles before but there’s SO much information that it bears taking a deep dive into how people with these different styles behave. We’ll also talk more about how we develop these attachment styles from lessons we’ve learned in our childhood. I’m pleased to welcom...

Men (over 40) Show They CARE About You When They DO THIS! Our dating world is a mess because people looking for partners often focus on the wrong things. Some women are lonely and think that getting a guy into bed is a win and that they can develop a relationship based on their chemistry. But chemistry is superficial. Midlife also brings about lots of emotions – aka the ‘midlife crisis...

7 RED FLAGS You’re With An Emotionally Broken Man Emotional health is something that many women are either unaware of or ignore but it’s very important for building a relationship. In case you don’t know, emotional health is the ability to deal with positive and negative emotions in a healthy way. We’re all faced with challenges and how we react to these challenges is an in...

Avoid Making THIS Mistake If He Seems To Be Pulling Away! Communication is paramount in any relationship but especially when you’re dating someone new. You shouldn’t be afraid to bring up important topics to see if you’re compatible and if you sense him pulling away or going silent, talking about what’s happening is healthier than letting your mind make up stories about wha...

6 Factors That Determine His CAPACITY To Commit To You What is dating? Most people think it’s about having fun and being romanced but ultimately, it’s the vetting process to determine if someone is capable of being a committed partner to you. Dating is also a time to break free of the old thinking that chemistry equals a solid relationship. With the divorce rates still hovering around...

Green Flags Men (over 40) Exhibit If They’re A High-Quality Guy It’s so easy to talk about the negative red flags about guys in the dating world but that can build fear into a lot of women, sometimes to the point where they give up on dating altogether. So, in this episode I’m focusing on the green flags – or hints – that a guy is high quality and has the emotional ma...

Don’t Let THIS Ruin Your Love Life with a Man Every human on earth has some sort of trauma that we’re dealing with which can affect any aspect of our lives. And the word “trauma” doesn’t only describe violent or abusive incidents. Minor incidents that we remember from our past can ultimately affect our personalities and our future actions and I attribute that as traum...

#1 Sign A Man (over 40) Will Be Loyal and Commit to You Most people in midlife are done with the dating games and are looking for a committed relationship. Whether it leads to marriage or not, being committed to someone requires loyalty and emotional maturity. As you have probably discovered, many midlife men are low on the emotional maturity scale. But that doesn’t mean these men don’...