The REALationship Method

Send us Fan Mail Model, Twitch streamer and Foodie, Sasha Emiri, rolls through the podcast while on vacation.   We got into how Chris and Jay do their outreach for the podcast, why is everyone visiting Japan this time of year, reacting to Twitch comments, pros and cons of being on many platforms, and much more on this episode.  IT'S CALLED STREAMING, NOT TWITCHING.

Send us Fan Mail Lily rolled through the set and she spilled the tea. We discussed how she got her IG name, going from tequila to being sober, her main 'ick', answered questions from our listeners, bar tips, giving advice for seeking men, the importance of eye contact and more on this episode.  Sh*t your shot!

Send us Fan Mail One-on-One with Lori and Chris! We talked about learning from past guests, Chris moving on from his baby mama, Lori's open relationship with her daughter, joining the military at a later age, the newbies in the guard having no damn discipline, who's more mature, the younger or older generation, and more!

Send us Fan Mail Chris tried the hottest gummy and almost died, Kayla's first time modeling, Lori's argument tips, debunking the first date list, worst thing to say when first meeting someone, coming back to the same person to keep your body count low, worst things to say to a woman you just met, guys faking it for the opposite and more.

Send us Fan Mail A first!! Chris is dominated by women in this episode. Nohea and Anu (with her babies) rolled through the set and we got into it! We spoke about rubbernecking, Nohea's early life in Japan, what Hawaii locals really feel about the military folk, Nohea's turn on and turn offs, Anu's Waianae boys, Bumble and Tinder experiences, meeting people outside their bubble, Anu...

Send us Fan Mail Jay and Chris get into it! We got into Chris' new cat, Jay traveling to Washington,  is it sus when you truly clean your asshole, do women like it when guys go bare down there, 1st class vs. middle-class seat flights, is it okay to be selfish, going over childish arguments, ever thought that there was someone better out there, and more

Send us Fan Mail We did a live, spit-fire podcast for KAEO Studio's one-year opening anniversary.  Jay announces that he is leaving the island of Hawaii (for the time being)! Wah Wah Wah! We had several people come on the podcast and went off on several topics!   Enjoy!

Send us Fan Mail Hawaiian R&B and hip-hop artist, Kalalea, rolled through the set and we popped his podcast cherry. We talked about Kal's first break in the music business, advice on high school relationships after graduating, the meaning behind the silent treatment, how women aren't used to chivalry nowadays, and much more! LOVE IS THE FORM OF INTELLECT

Send us Fan Mail The infamous Franny rolled through and as you know, we got it in!  We talked about what made Franny comfortable with his sexuality, how common for straight guys to hit up gay men, gay men making out with lesbians is a thing,  Franny found out he was dating a married man with kids,  dick choice: skinny or girthy, how common straight men/women go to gay clubs, and more! SPITTERS ARE...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we have Youtube content creator, Dr. Okada! We talked about  Tik tok trends, how hard it is to be original nowadays, getting caught off guard by a fan, and more.  MIND YO BUSINESS AND LET GOD TAKE THE WHEEL.

Send us Fan Mail SLAY TE HOUSE, BOOTS DOWN!! In this episode, Lori, Jay, and Chris talk about how they were in their past relationships and how they were once they broke it off, handling work wives/husbands, having close friends of the opposite sex that you WILL NOT shoot your shot at, what is the synopsis of 'taking a break?', and more.  PROTECT YOUR INNER PEACE AND ENERGY!

Send us Fan Mail Our first time going live on IG and it was......  We talked about how men are still men and women are still women, regardless of status, how to break up with someone who doesn't communicate, the aftermath of letting go of someone that you clicked with, the value of chillin' with our boys and girls, high school should stay high school, and falling for people we have no bu...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we go into the REAL reason why Chris started the podcast, to talk about 'The REALationship Method' blog that he wrote 20-25 years ago.  In this episode, they primarily go in on, 'That noise, that glow'.  Lori, Jay, and Chris go into the importance of core values, being careful about how much love we give people in our hearts, being an option in...

Send us Fan Mail YOUR FAVORITE TRIO IS BACK!!!  Lori, Jay, and Chris gave updates on what has been happening the past couple of months. We talked about Jay receives his first Army coin, Lori's powerlifting start, and how Chris received free drinks at the club with his first aggressive female. Also, Lori is off the market folks!!

Send us Fan Mail We got Fashion Model and teacher, Sienna, rolled through the podcast!! We talked about her degree in Elementary Education, how Chris tried to be cool by bringing a cordless home phone to school, the era of pagers, are elephant/white lies okay?, how to deal with modeling gig rejections, how to correct your partner in public, and is it possible to work with an ex. 

Send us Fan Mail Unfortunately, our disk ran out and the last fifteen minutes of the podcast got cut off. Vid on youtube will be up soon.  We got Gavin of Kampai Sugai Podcast rollin' through the set and we talked about BJ Penn being a guest on his podcast, what gyms need, addressing DM's that want us to speak more about serious topics, how Chris got his black card, if it's okay to...

Send us Fan Mail We have digital creator and foodie, Cassie, on this episode of the REALationship Method podcast.  We got into how Cassie got into digital creating, realizing that we're digital creators/influencers, responding to someone saying 'that's cute' after confessing you like them, using the race card to get what you want, and more. 

Send us Fan Mail Recording artist, Sophia Alfa , rolls through the podcast. We talked about producers shooting their shots, taking in the bad comments, whether is it okay to get with your godsister/brother,  the first lay after a long relationship, how to work around micro penises, and more. 

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we introduce Lori to the REALationship Method team, how Chris started podcasting, Lori breaks down statistical stats in shit-talking, how Jay doesn't pay attention during arguments, our personal glow-ups, and more. 

Send us Fan Mail Jose Dynamite rolls through the set and we chopped it up about hating more and more things as we get older, our assholes looking like starfishes, guys make peeing a game, ever wonder what the person in the next stall is doing?, taking really long in the shower, the significance in smacking your partner's ass when you pass by, feeling violated after getting getting 'credi...

Send us Fan Mail We got James Mane rollin' through the set to speak his shiiiiit about kickin' it with pornstars, how he started comedy, coming back from bombing on stage, how he turned down smoking weed with Dave Chappelle, different comedian material for different types of people, the debate on who's cooking better chicken nowadays and more. 

Send us Fan Mail UH Women's Hooper, Kelsie, came on the set to speak her shit! We answered your ex questions; could wishing a an ex happy birthday open a door, still having presents from an ex, etc.  It all went down in this episode from naming our Sanrio characters, going to the book fair and NOT buying books, Chris' reason why he wore clothes from his exes, buying presents for your oth...

Send us Fan Mail 94 Blocc foreva!! Crystal, jackie of all trades, came through and just killed it. We talked about making fast money, hookin' up during the job, drunk stages, how big is too big,  drawing in while being vulnerable, recovery time when you get older versus the recovery time when young, the lost art of fingering, the last time the ladies got 'swooned', and more!

Send us Fan Mail Allow me to introduce her ass, her name's Lori!  We have Sati rollin' through the podcast and we talked about being sexually free, lower enlisted soldiers shootin' their shot with her and Lori, Strawberries and whip cream booty eatin', falling asleep/passed out while getting oral, conducting an 'after- action- review' after the deed, is biting the vag...

Send us Fan Mail We got Bey-sia from Music.ly folks!!!  Shout out to Asianna for choppin' it up with us on this episode.  We talked about her being a mental health advocate, handling depression and being bullied, being an actress in high school, her secret talent as a SLAM poet/writer, and more. Such a genuine, down-to-earth person to have as a guest on the podcast. If you know anyone going t...