Unholy Feminists

What were you wearing? What did you go there? Boys will be boys. He bullies you because he likes you. These sentences that enable victim blaming and rape culture has been normalized and we delve into the harm it causes in this episode.  1. What is rape culture? 2. In what ways does society reinforces, normalize and excuse rape culture? 3. How do power, gender, class and race play a role in who is...

Ever heard the phrase, "Men will embarass you!" because they sure will!  Sit with us as we dissect the viral vogue articles and share our opinion on if and why having a boyfriend is embarrassing. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

What happens when feminism meets the boyfriend in modern dating? The 50/50 conversations, the emotional labor trap. Let's get into how patriarchy thrives on romance and what equality looks like between and beyond the sheets. In this episode, we talk about; 1. What does soft life even mean and who gets to live it? We can localize it... 2. Can you be a feminist and still want a provider partner? Or...

Is every choice inherently feminist? As much as sex workers deserve to have rights and the industry needs legalization, can we say it is an empowering choice? Why can't it just be a job?  In this episode, we delve into;  1. What is sex work? 2. The debate amongst SWERFs about sex work 3. Purity culture and its damnation of sex work 4. Is sex work exploitation or empowerment? 5. White feminism and...

How do we feel after having an orgasm? Do we feel post-nut clarity or something more glowing than that? And of course, we're also going to talk about aftercare as well, but a good orgasm has to end with a good aftercare as well. Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on pleasure, the big O, sex positivity and body positivity as a feminist with your hosts...

Existential crisis? Don’t worry, we’ve all been there!  This is a yapping session, no structure, no wise words, just women talking about how weird men are and why we are saddled with periods.  Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on pleasure, the big O, sex positivity and body positivity as a feminist with your hosts, Cath and Gail.  Find us on Instagr...

Incel culture, Charlie Kirk, Misogyny we talk about the red pill "movement" and the adverse consequence of this on society and women. On this episode, we dive into;  1. What happened with Charlie Kirk 2. Charlie Kirk is a symptom to a bigger problem 3. What are red-pilled men 4. How does all this tie to the male loneliness epidemic 5. Honestly, should we even care if the men are lonely? 6. Call fo...

How many people have you slept with? Don’t worry, we don’t actually want your answer. But isn’t it funny how that number, your so-called ‘body count’ has become society’s favorite scoreboard? If it’s too low, you’re a prude. High, a slut. In this episode, we dive into;  What is body count culture and who's counting? The slut/prude trap (being called a prude when you're not sexually active and a sl...

Girlhood, friendships and platonic soulmates.... In this episode, we get into beauty standards, navigating body image with support people; 1. What were some of the first comments you remember getting about your body as a child or teen?  2. What beauty standards did you internalize growing up? 3. Tell each other what stands out when we look at the other person, could be physical, emotional etc and...

Virginity is a social construct used to control women like so many things. Purity culture was born out of the need for men to feel like they fully own a woman. In this episode, we explore: 1. What is purity culture? 2. How did purity culture come to be and how does it serve patriarchy? 3. How does purity culture harm women? 4. What can we do to fight purity culture?     Find us on Instagram and Ti...

Men as romantic partners is a great concept but in reality, you always need to watch your back and your front. We explore the nitty gritties of dating men as a feminist and talk about;  1. How patriarchy shows up in relationships?  2. What are some red flags feminists and women in general can look out for when dating to avoid these men? 3. In your ideal world as a feminist, what will dating look l...

Will the way people perceive sex change if it's looked at through a feminist lens? In this episode we delve into;  1. Bell Hooks - The will to change; men, masculinity, and love 2. How are boys and men taught about sex? 3. Sex and male domination 4. How the word "fuck" is used in a violent way, giving ways to violence in sex 5. How do we deconstruct all that Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholy...

Every girl/woman knows a pick-me. In this episode, we talk about pick me culture and give some pointers on how to beat the system and choose yourself. We delve into;  1. What exactly is a pick me? 2. Share personal experiences and how  internalized misogyny pit women against each other for male attention. 3. Ways in which pop-culture, media, class, race, politics and upbringing influences pick-me...

How dark does your sexual fantasies get? Do you ever wonder if you're crossing a line? Does it terrify you? In this episode we delve into this topic and why your fantasies can be problematic. We talk about;  1. Cybrothel in Germany 2. What are dark sexual fantasies? 3. When is it okay and when does it cross the line into real-life danger? 4. What's the difference between women and men having dark...

As girls, we are told to be likable to society. As women, we are told to be pretty but not too sexy and treated as ornaments for men and society at large. In this episode, we talk about: 1. What does good girl conditioning look like? 2. Sexual shame, Patriarchy and religion 3. Impact of sexual suppression due to shame 4. Ways to unlearn good girl conditioning and reclaim your sexuality. Find us on...

Have you ever wondered how and why it's necessary for women to decenter men in their lives? Do you wonder how you can say f the male gaze while still pursuing romantic relationships with men? This episode is for you!  We talk about;  1. What is decentering men 2. Why should women decenter men 3. How do you decenter men when you still have to bang them Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminis...

Have you ever looked at your labia? Do you know how many holes you have down there? Let's dive into why you should.  As women, we are saddled with so many beauty standards and societal expectations of how we should look that sometimes we do not make time out to really see ourselves. Have you ever looked at your labia? Let's dive into why you should!  On this episode, we discuss;  1. How the beauty...

We talk about smut (all the different genres) and why men seem to have weird feelings about women who read. In this episode, we delve into: 1. The difference between erotica, smutty romance, and romance. 2. ⁠Is erotica porn?  3. ⁠Why are men anti-smut?  4. ⁠How erotica can help you discover your sexuality as a woman.  Whether you’re new to smut or an OG, this episode is for you!  Find us on Instag...

We’re not pros in kinks but in this episode, we delve into navigating power play kinks like submission, degradation and existing as a feminist. We discuss;  1. Whether being a submisssive makes you less feminist 2. ⁠Are all kinks internalized patriarchy?  3. ⁠How to center your pleasure as a feminist with kinks.  If you’ve ever been made to question your sexual preferences as a feminist, this epis...

Welcome to the first episode of our podcast with your feminist hosts, Cath and Gail, where we give you real, raw, unfiltered opinions on female sexual pleasure and sometimes overshare to get our points across.  Why is women's sexual pleasure stigmatized and overlooked? In this episode, we dive into:  1. Why female pleasure is so important 2. First time learning about female pleasure  3. Taboos aro...

On this episode, we have a candid conversation about s3x toys and dive into;  1. Our first time learning about s3x toys.  2. ⁠People's attitudes towards s3x toys in our countries. 3. ⁠Our experience using and buying them. 4. ⁠Why women should experiment with s3x toys.  Whether you’re a man, woman, or someone new to toys, we overshare in this episode to give you all the tips you need to use these e...