The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In today’s video, I’m going to answer a viewer question: “My girlfriend’s past is a dealbreaker. Should I try to work through this, or leave?” Read or watch below to hear my response to a viewer who tells me “my girlfriend’s past is a dealbreaker.” Zachary Stockill: I received an interesting and thought-provoking comment on […] The post “My Girlfriend’s Past Is a Dealbreaker… Time to Leave?” Q & A...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a quick method to know whether you’re truly trusting your partner or not. Read or watch below to discover more about what trusting your partner truly means. Zachary Stockill: If I were to ask most of the people watching this video whether they truly trust their partner, my guess […] The post Trusting Your Partner? Here’s How to KNOW For Sure [VIDEO] appeared fi...

In today’s video, I talk about one of the most important and impactful books that helped me overcome retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below how the book Man’s Search for Meaning can help you beat retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Back when I was struggling with retroactive jealousy, it probably won’t surprise you to know that I […] The post “Man’s Search for Meaning” and Overcoming Retroa...

In today’s video, I share my number one tip for any man who is interested in “vetting” for a potential girlfriend or wife. Read or watch below to learn more about how to vet a potential girlfriend. Zachary Stockill: So you’ve met some incredible woman who you can’t seem to get enough of. She laughs at […] The post How to Vet a Potential Girlfriend: My #1 Tip [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Re...

In today’s video, I talk about four crucial steps for how to feel more confident in your relationship. Read or watch below to learn more about how to feel more confident in your relationship. Zachary Stockill: If you follow me on Instagram, you’re probably aware that periodically I will do Instagram Live Q&A’s. Occasionally, I get […] The post How To Feel More Confident in Your Relationship: 4 Tip...

In today’s video, I’m going to offer a few thoughts for men troubled by the fact that their girlfriend or wife used to be promiscuous. Read or watch below to discover my response to the question “My Girlfriend Was Promiscuous in Her Past… Should I Be Concerned?” Zachary Stockill: For almost 10 years of one on […] The post “My Girlfriend Was Promiscuous… Should I Be Worried?” Q & A [VIDEO] appeared...

Today, I’m sharing an inspiring conversation with Matt, as well as his story of overcoming retroactive jealousy, a former student from my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Read or watch, below to learn more about Matt’s story of overcoming retroactive jealousy. Zachary: Thank you so much for doing this. I really appreciate […] The post Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy Story: Matt...

In today’s video, I respond to a common question: “What can you do when you’re single to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse in your next relationship?” Read or watch below to learn more on how to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse. Zachary Stockill: I was recently hanging out on Instagram doing a Q&A with my followers. […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Relapse: 3 Tips to PREVENT One In The...

In today’s video, I respond to a viewer of my YouTube channel who’s worried because his girlfriend has a “past,” and he doesn’t. Read on or watch below to discover what to do if your girlfriend has a past, but you don’t. Zachary Stockill: The term retroactive jealousy refers to unwanted intrusive thoughts and obsessive curiosity […] The post “Girlfriend Has a Past… And I Don’t. What to Do?” Q & A...

Today, I’m going to address a question I occasionally get from male retroactive jealousy sufferers: “My girlfriend’s past turns me on. Am I weird? What does it mean?” Read or watch below to discover why some men may feel “my girlfriend’s past turns me on.” Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to address a common […] The post “Girlfriend’s Past Turns Me On… What Does It Mean?” Q & A [VIDEO...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about having the right perspective on risk-management in dating and relationships. Read or watch below to learn more about risk-management in relationships. Zachary Stockill: Risk-management in relationships… This is something I’ve been interested in for a long time. This is something that I’ve created a lot of content about. […] The post Risk-Management in Rela...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the number one mental fallacy when it comes to retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to discover the number one retroactive jealousy fallacy. Zachary Stockill: There are so many dangerous mental fallacies that you can buy into when you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy. It can cause you to […] The post Retroactive Jealousy FALLACY: Don’t Believe...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my definition of self-care, what I do to take care of myself, and why it’s essential for everyone. Read or watch below to learn more about what is self-care. Zachary Stockill: If you’re at all interested in things like health and wellness and personal development, chances are very good […] The post What is “Self-Care?” A Simple Exercise [VIDEO] appeared first o...

In today’s video, I’m going to share the worst advice for retroactive jealousy sufferers that I’ve ever heard. Read or watch below to discover the worst advice for retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Advice about retroactive jealousy is often suspect simply because public knowledge of retroactive jealousy is so lacking. Academic knowledge of retroactive jealousy is also […] The post Retroactiv...

In today’s video, I wanted to offer some in-depth advice for husbands who are angry about their wife’s past. Read or watch below if your wife’s past makes you angry, and you can’t let go. Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of emails and requests for content from people who are angry about their wife’s past. […] The post “My Wife’s Past Makes Me ANGRY:” How to Start Letting Go [VIDEO] appeared first on...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about discovering values and defining your boundaries in dating and relationships. Read or watch below to hear my thoughts on boundaries and values in dating. Zachary Stockill: On this channel and my blog, I talk a lot about boundaries, red flags, and values in relationships and dating. What are […] The post Boundaries and Values in Dating: What’s MOST Important...

In today’s video, I will talk about how to start healing from retroactive jealousy and start letting go of your partner’s past. Read or watch below to learn and start healing from retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you are struggling with constant unwanted intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past relationships and/or sexual history, chances are good […] The post Healing from Retroactiv...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to get just about anything you want. Read or watch below to discover how to get anything you want. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to get just about anything you want. And I mean, in terms of your relationships, your business, your […] The post How To Get ANYTHING You Want (Really) [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Re...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the most effective way to let go of your partner’s past. Read or watch below to discover how to let go of your partner’s past. Zachary Stockill: Today’s video will probably end up being one of the most important free videos that I’ve ever recorded for this channel. […] The post How to Let Go of Your Partner’s Past: The Truth [VIDEO] appeared first on Overc...

In today’s video, I want to talk about the number one mistake I see jealous men making in dating and relationships. Read or watch the video below to discover the number one mistake made by jealous men. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I want to talk about the number one mistake that I see jealous men […] The post Jealous Men: STOP Making This Mistake in Your Relationship [VIDEO] appeared first...

In today’s video, I share an important perspective that any man should consider if he feels like “My wife’s past is killing me.” Read or watch below if you feel like “my wife’s past is killing me”. Zachary Stockill: As I record this video, I have been on hundreds of coaching calls with married men struggling […] The post “My Wife’s Past is KILLING Me. What Should I Do?” Q & A [VIDEO] appeared firs...

In today’s video, I want to talk about an extremely dangerous mental trap of neediness that I see a lot of jealousy sufferers falling into. Read or watch below to discover what is neediness (and why it’s so harmful). Zachary Stockill: Hello and welcome to my dad’s backyard here in beautiful northern Ontario, Canada. And in […] The post What is Neediness? How to KNOW If You’re Needy [VIDEO] appeare...

In today’s video, I want to talk about the least discussed (and possibly the most important) element involved in overcoming retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to discover how to beat retroactive jealousy faster. Zachary Stockill: If you’re watching this video, chances are pretty good that you realize that overcoming retroactive jealousy is not easy. The […] The post How to Beat Retroactive...

Today I’m so excited to announce my all-new video masterclass for beating retroactive jealousy, “The Path to Peace.” “The Path to Peace” is for anyone struggling with the question of whether or not their retroactive jealousy is mostly irrational or rational. In other words, this course is for retroactive jealousy sufferers who have questions, often […] The post Announcing: “The Path to Peace,” My...

In today’s video, I share an extremely important message for young men. Read or watch below to start taking ownership of your life. Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of requests from young men for advice; guys talking about their relationship life, sometimes their careers, and asking me for advice. This has been happening for many, […] The post Taking Ownership of Your Life: My #1 Message For Young Me...