The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about “anti-role models,” a subject often overlooked in discussions in personal development. Read or watch below to learn more about a unique anti-role models exercise.  Zachary Stockill: You’ve probably heard of “role models” before. A role model is someone you look up to, someone you feel some connection […] The post “Anti-Role Models”: Try This To Gain Clarit...

In today’s video, I share my view on how to break the deadly retroactive jealousy cycle. Read or watch below to learn how to break the retroactive jealousy cycle. Zachary Stockill: What do retroactive jealousy sufferers and drug addicts have in common? The answer might surprise you, and that’s exactly what I will go into […] The post How To Break The Retroactive Jealousy Cycle: Hear This [VIDEO] a...

In today’s video, I’m going to offer the best piece of dating advice that I have encountered. Read or watch below to discover the best dating advice.  Zachary Stockill: You may look at the title of this article and think it’s absolute clickbait, but it’s not. I assure you: in today’s video, I’m going to […] The post The Best Dating Advice, Period: Listen To THIS [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcomin...

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how to stop seeking reassurance and start building confidence in yourself and your relationships. Read or watch below to learn about how to stop seeking reassurance.  Zachary Stockill: A frequent behavior among those suffering from retroactive jealousy is something I term ‘reassurance seeking.’ Reassurance seeking involves approaching […] The post How To STO...

Today, I will address guys who tell me ‘My girlfriend’s past bothers me’ and explore ways to process these concerns. Read or watch below if you have ever felt like ‘My girlfriend’s past bothers me…’  Zachary Stockill: Just about each and every day, I receive some variation of the question: “Zach, my girlfriend’s past bothers me. […] The post “My Girlfriend’s Past Bothers Me… What Should I Do?” [VI...

In today’s video, I share some crucial tips on how to improve your self-talk. Read or watch below to learn more about how to improve your self-talk. Zachary Stockill: “Self-talk” is a trendy topic nowadays. Self-talk can be defined as the things we tell ourselves about ourselves repeatedly. Our self-talk is usually subconscious. We often […] The post How To Improve Your Self Talk: Listen To This [...

In today’s video, I discuss the touchy topic of a ‘wife’s number of sexual partners,’ and a new way to think about it. Read or watch below to learn more about this sensitive topic – a wife’s number of sexual partners… Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of emails and comments from men on my […] The post “Wife’s Number Of Sexual Partners Is Higher Than Mine…” [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroact...

In today’s video, I’ll share a story of how Eric overcame retroactive jealousy. Read on or watch below to learn more about the story of Eric, a student who overcame retroactive jealousy with the help of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Zachary Stockill: So Eric, to start off with, could you […] The post How Eric Overcame Retroactive Jealousy: Listen To This [VIDEO] appeared f...

In today’s video, I’m going to attempt to answer a viewer question: “How do I stop comparing myself to my boyfriend’s ex?” Read or watch below to hear my response to the question, “How do I stop comparing myself to my boyfriend’s ex?” Zachary Stockill: I was doing an Instagram Q&A recently. And I received a […] The post “Comparing Myself to My Boyfriend’s Ex?” Q & A [VIDEO] appeared first on Overc...

In today’s video, I want to talk about how to build trust in a relationship. I’ll share my perspective on this important topic and offer some suggestions based on my own experience. Read or watch below to learn more about how to build trust in a relationship.  Zachary Stockill: I am a person who speaks publicly […] The post How To Build Trust In A Relationship: Listen to This [VIDEO] appeared firs...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a crucial question that I think every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves. Read or watch below to learn more about putting together your vision for the future. Zachary Stockill: When you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, it’s all too easy to get completely consumed by the past. This is […] The post Your Vision For The Future: Ask Yourself...

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you why it’s a great time for men in the West to be dating. Read or watch below to hear my response to a common question: “Is dating for Western men getting worse?” Zachary Stockill: Over 10 years of coaching, I’ve worked with a lot of men of various […] The post “Is Dating For Western Men Getting WORSE??” Q & A [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive J...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a technique that’s going to help you power through difficult moments with retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about how to deal with difficult moments with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you clicked to watch this video today, chances are good you’re struggling with retroactive […] The post Difficult Moments with Retroactive Jealo...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a little retroactive jealousy tip that you’ve almost certainly never considered before. Read or watch below to discover a new retroactive jealousy tip. Zachary Stockill: At this point, after 10 years of working on the topic of retroactive jealousy, every time I think that I’ve covered it all […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Tip: Consider THIS… [VIDEO] appeared...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about living true to your dating standards without anger and bitterness. Read or watch below to learn more about living true to your standards and having a good time along the way. Zachary Stockill: Over ten years of dating and relationship coaching have taught me something interesting… My […] The post Living True To Your Standards Without Anger or Bitterness [V...

In today’s video, I talk about how to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse at any point in the future. Read or watch below to learn more about how to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse. Zachary Stockill: On this channel and elsewhere, I’m often asked about retroactive jealousy relapses. As I have been working on this issue […] The post How to PREVENT A Retroactive Jealousy Relapse: Try This...

In today’s video, I offer my thoughts on the notion of “alpha widows” as it relates to “The Red Pill,” and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to hear my thoughts on so-called “alpha widows.” Zachary Stockill: If you have any familiarity with the “red pill” section of the internet, otherwise known as the “manosphere,” you’ve […] The post “Alpha Widows” and Retroactive Jealousy: My Thoughts [...

In today’s video, I respond to a viewer who wonders what to do about an imbalance of experience in his relationship. Read or watch below to hear my response to the question of “I’m not her first… and she’s mine.” Zachary Stockill: What do you do if you’re struggling with painful, unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your […] The post “I’m NOT Her First Love… And She’s Mine. What To Do?” Q & A [VIDEO...

In today’s video, I offer my opinion on exposing yourself to retroactive jealousy triggers. Read or watch below to hear my answer to the question, “Should I be exposing myself to retroactive jealousy triggers?” Zachary Stockill: When you are struggling with retroactive jealousy, is it a good idea to be exposing yourself to retroactive jealousy triggers? […] The post “EXPOSING Myself to Retroactive...

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how mindfulness for 5 minutes a day will help you start beating retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn about mindfulness for retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how just five minutes a day can start helping you beat retroactive jealousy.  […] The post Mindfulness for Retroactive Jealousy: Try THIS [VIDE...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about why it’s so important to “not make your woman your world.” Don’t make your woman your world… here’s what I mean: Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while, if you’ve read one of my books or anything like that, chances are you may have […] The post DON’T Make Your Woman Your World: What I Mean [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retr...

Today, I will talk about what beating retroactive jealousy feels like and what keeps me motivated after 10 years of being a retroactive jealousy coach. Read or watch below to learn more about what beating retroactive jealousy feels like. Zachary Stockill: This year marks 10 years into my career as a full-time coach devoted to the […] The post What Beating Retroactive Jealousy Feels Like (Listen to...

In today’s video, I share my thoughts on what I look for in a therapist or a coach. Read or watch below to learn more about what I look for in a therapist. Zachary Stockill: I have been a full-time coach working on the issue of relationships and jealousy for about 10 years now. It probably […] The post What I Look For In A Therapist Or Coach [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealous...

In today’s video, I talk about the secret of meditation, and discuss the misconceptions many people have about this ancient mindfulness practice. Read or watch below to learn about the secret of meditation. Zachary Stockill: I often speak about the incredible benefits of meditation. Meditation, breathwork, or any kind of mindfulness are practices that help strengthen […] The post The SECRET of Med...

In today’s video, I share a technique for dealing with unwanted retroactive jealousy thoughts. Read or watch below to learn more about overcoming unwanted retroactive jealousy thoughts. Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with a problem like retroactive jealousy, chances are you’re struggling with unwanted intrusive thoughts. There are thoughts that sometimes pop up out of nowhere […] The post...