The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In today’s video, we will learn why is it so important to have standards in your dating life, particularly for anyone struggling with retroactive jealousy. So what are your relationship standards? Zachary Stockill: Relationship standards are your criteria for anyone you invite into your life. There are different kinds of standards that most people have […] The post Relationship Standards: What The...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about “the cost of doing business,” and how this concept applies to things like obsessive jealousy, and retroactive jealousy. So how can this help when you are suffering from retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: Every endeavor in life, anytime we pursue something worth having, there’s going to be some […] The post Suffering From Retroactive Jealousy? This Can...

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you what to do if you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, obsessive jealousy, or any other kind of emotional/ psychological problem. So, how to cure retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: I saw a video recently posted by a well-known dating coach named Dr. David Tian. I did an interview with […] The post How to Cure Retroactive Jealousy: Go Beyond “Just th...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a very unusual technique for dealing with any kind of unwanted intrusive thoughts. So how to escape intrusive thoughts? Zachary Stockill: I remember reading about a surgeon who was talking about the incredible power of keeping a to-do list when you’re in the middle of something like neurosurgery, […] The post Escape Intrusive Thoughts: A Weird (But Effective) T...

In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is worried about her partner viewing pornography. How to handle retroactive jealousy and pornography? Zachary Stockill: I recorded a video recently related to retroactive jealousy and sex. And one of the viewers of that video posted an interesting question beneath that video. S writes… How do […] The post Retroactive Jealousy and Pornography: How to...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a superpower that you should cultivate that will help you avoid 99% of drama and chaos in your relationships. How to choose the right partner? Zachary Stockill: So, I have officially entered my mid-30s. And I have been enormously lucky in my relationship life. To this point, I’m […] The post How to Choose The Right Partner: The Most Important Step [VIDEO] appea...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to get started getting momentum when it comes to any kind of personal development project, and how to deal with resistance that you might have along the way. So, how to stay motivated when beating jealousy? Zachary Stockill: I have received some YouTube comments recently, and […] The post Staying Motivated Beating Jealousy: How To Get Started [VIDEO] a...

In today’s video, I’m going to answer an email from a retroactive jealousy sufferer, who’s worried their partner had sex in the house that he now shares with her. So, what are some methods for overcoming retroactive jealousy triggers? B asks… How do I stop thinking that my partner had sex with other people in […] The post Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy Triggers: Some Practical Tips [VIDEO] appear...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what you should do if you broke up with your partner because of retroactive jealousy. Maybe you’re wondering what you should do now if you’re experiencing any kind of regrets or doubts about your decision. So, let’s learn how to get over retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: A […] The post Get Over Retroactive Jealousy: Will Breaking Up Help? [VIDEO] app...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about retroactive jealousy and sex. So, what is a good way to start thinking about retroactive jealousy and sex? Zachary Stockill: Being in this position, being the retroactive jealousy guy for so long, I get a lot of emails and feedback from retroactive jealousy sufferers. A question that […] The post Retroactive Jealousy and Sex: A Strange Way to Think About I...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to break free from the various vicious cycles associated with retroactive jealousy. For anyone who has been struggling with retroactive jealousy for a while, there are various, vicious cycles, associated with retroactive jealousy. So, how to beat the retroactive jealousy cycle? Whether it’s retroactive jealousy, OCD, […] The post Retroactive Jealousy C...

In today’s video, I’m going to share what I believe to be one of the secrets of life that will help you overcome retroactive jealousy. So: what should you do when you’re exhausted by retroactive jealousy? This will help you overcome unwanted, painful intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, and in general, will just help […] The post Exhausted by Retroactive Jealousy? Give This a Try… [VIDEO]...