The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In today’s video, I had an inspiring conversation with Toni, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Toni’s retroactive jealousy testimonial, and how he finally got freedom from retroactive jealousy with the help of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Zachary: Okay, well, once again Toni, I wanted to thank you […] The post Freedom From Retroactive Jealousy:...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my ideas about anti-fragility, how it’s different from mere resilience, and how it’s directly related to retroactive jealousy. Read on to learn more about “anti-fragility.” Zachary Stockill: A few years ago, a Lebanese author named Nassim Nicholas Taleb published a book called Anti-Fragile. The book became an enormous […] The post Retroactive Jealousy and “Anti...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my personal views about “relationship red flags;” things that I look out for when considering a long-term relationship, or marriage. Read on or watch below to hear all about my “relationship red flags.” Zachary Stockill: I received a comment recently from a viewer asking me about my own […] The post Relationship Red Flags: What I Watch Out For [VIDEO] appeared...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my own definition of retroactive jealousy, and help to clear this up a bit. Read on or watch below to learn more about my definition of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: So here’s a strange little fact about retroactive jealousy: many retroactive jealousy sufferers aren’t actually jealous people. Many […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Definition: DON’T Ge...

In today’s video, I’m going to share an important message about retroactive jealousy that every retroactive jealousy sufferer needs to hear. Read on to hear an important message for retroactive jealousy sufferers. Zachary Stockill: I have a secret group on Facebook for students who are taking my online course, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast. […] The post Message for Retroactive Jealousy Suffere...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how you can define and specify the goal of beating retroactive jealousy for good as soon as possible. Read on to learn more about how to approach retroactive jealousy goals. Zachary Stockill: One of the main mistakes people make when they set goals is not being specific […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Goals: How to Get Clarity and Motivation [VIDEO] appe...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a way to reframe the question, “Does the number of people my girlfriend had sex with matter?” Hopefully, this will help you answer this question for yourself in a way that makes sense. Read on or watch the video below if you find yourself thinking “My girlfriend’s number […] The post “My Girlfriend’s Number is Too Much To Handle:” Think About This [VIDEO] appea...

In today’s video, I’m going to share some big lessons that I learned over the past year. I’m also going to talk about how this can help you beat retroactive or obsessive jealousy as soon as possible. Read on to learn more about how to effectively stop retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Have you’ve heard of […] The post How to Stop Retroactive Jealousy: “Begin With a Win” [VIDEO] appeared firs...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a few perspectives about struggling with retroactive jealousy if you’re living in the Western world in the 21st century. Read on to learn more about an antidote to retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I’ve spent the majority of my adult life living outside of my native Canada, most of […] The post My Antidote to Retroactive Jealousy: Listen to This [VIDEO] a...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what it’s like to overcome retroactive jealousy and whether or not retroactive jealousy is still an issue for me in my personal life. Read on or watch the video below to learn more about the process of recovery from retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I received a comment […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Recovery: What Does It Feel Like? [VIDEO] appea...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my top-5 lessons from the past year for retroactive jealousy survivors. Watch the video below, or read below to learn more about how to reach your goals as retroactive jealousy survivors. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while, I absolutely love having conversations with […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Survivors: 5 Key Lessons from L...

In today’s video, I’m going to share three practical, simple tips that you can use to start dealing with retroactive jealousy triggers. Watch or read below for three tips for retroactive jealousy triggers: Zachary Stockill: On this channel, I sometimes shy away from offering practical tips and tricks. The reason I’m more drawn to talk […] The post Tips for Retroactive Jealousy Triggers: These Real...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a social trend, a unique challenge among male retroactive jealousy sufferers, which is only getting worse. So: what is this problem among male retroactive jealousy sufferers? Zachary Stockill: I often get asked about the differences between male retroactive jealousy sufferers and female retroactive jealousy sufferers. What are […] The post Male Retroactive...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how remembering that I’m “crazy” helps me stay sane. Watch the video below for a counterintuitive approach for overcoming intrusive jealous thoughts. Zachary Stockill: Today, I want to talk about a practice that I’ve been cultivating and practicing for many years for overcoming intrusive jealous thoughts, one […] The post Overcoming Intrusive Jealous Thoug...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a bizarre but effective technique for getting through things like obsessive and retroactive jealousy. So: what’s a better method for dealing with jealous thoughts? Zachary Stockill: When was the last time you accomplished something small? And when you accomplished it, did you celebrate that mini-victory? I talk a […] The post Dealing with Jealous Thoughts: A St...

In today’s video, I’m going to share the number one lie that most retroactive jealousy sufferers tell themselves at least once a day. So: what is the #1 retroactive jealousy lie? Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, chances are good that you’re lying to yourself on at least one, but probably several levels. […] The post The #1 Retroactive Jealousy Lie: You CANNOT Belie...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a painful lesson that at least one retroactive jealousy sufferer is currently learning. How does it feel if your husband has retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: A big part of my motivation is trying to help people, people like you to avoid my mistakes, and to not mess up […] The post “My Husband Has Retroactive Jealousy… And It Destroyed Us” [VIDEO] appeare...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the virtues and benefits of meditation. I’m also going to dispel some of the myths around meditation. So: why is meditation for beating jealousy so helpful? Zachary Stockill: So I posted a poll recently on my YouTube channel, asking about how often my audience meditates and the […] The post Meditation for Beating Jealousy: DON’T Believe These Myths [VIDEO]...

In today’s video, I had a revealing and inspiring conversation with Simon, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Simon’s retroactive jealousy testimonial, and how’s he handling his retroactive jealousy with the help of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Zachary Stockill: Okay, Simon, first off, could you just […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Testimonial:...

In today’s video, I’m going to recommend five books which I believe every male retroactive jealousy sufferer should read. So: what are my top-5 recommended retroactive jealousy books for men? Zachary Stockill: The first book I’d like to recommend is by Dr. Robert Glover. It’s called No More Mr. Nice Guy. If you’re familiar with […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Books for Men: My Top-5 List [VIDEO]...

In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a viewer who’s struggling with how much he should tell his partner about his retroactive jealousy, and how to ask his partner to keep certain details away from him. So, can you tell your girlfriend about your retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: Is it okay to tell your […] The post “Tell My Girlfriend About Retroactive Jealousy?” My Response [VIDEO] app...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about my yearly review process. I’m going to show you exactly how to do one for yourself and how this can help you achieve your goals in overcoming retroactive and obsessive jealousy this new year. Read on to learn more about the tips for making a yearly review […] The post Yearly Review Practice: How To Conduct One For Yourself [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcom...

In today’s video, we’re going to hear from Nolan, who struggled with intense retroactive jealousy, and how my course, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast liberated him. Click below to listen to another Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast testimonial: Zachary: Well, first off, Nolan, can you just tell me a little bit, a testimonial, […] The post Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast Testimonial: Nolan’s St...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the number one mistake people make when they fall in love, particularly younger people. And that is: spending way too much time together. Read on to learn more about one of the counterintuitive causes of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I made this mistake when I was younger. […] The post Causes of Retroactive Jealousy: Ever Think About This One? [V...

In today’s video, I’m going to the questions: “What happens if you’re out there in the dating world, and you’ve found out that the world is not living up to your standards?” “Is it ever a good idea to change or compromise on your standards when you’re in the dating market? Should I lower my […] The post “Should I Lower My Dating Standards?” My Opinion [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroacti...