The Vision-Driven Marriage

Ready to turn your marriage from auto-pilot to intentional? We're Doug and Leslie Davis, and we're welcoming you to this episode of the Vision Driven Marriage Podcast, where we'll be your guides on a journey to deepening your marital bond through purposeful action. Inspired by the wisdom of 1 John 3:18, we'll unpack what it means to truly love with truth and action. We'll...

Ever imagined what unrealistic expectations can do to your marriage? Well, you're not alone! Let's embark on an enlightening journey, exploring the treacherous terrain of preconceived notions that often lead to unattainable expectations. These hidden menaces, stemming from past experiences, media, and even pornography, can subtly sabotage the trust and connection in your relationship. Li...

What if the deepest despair could be transformed into the greatest redemption? What if the wounds of the past could be replaced with a purpose for the future? This is the inspiring journey of Anna McLaughlin, who emerged from the traumas of her non-Christian childhood and found faith, healing, and a life of purpose. Anna's story is an experience of revival, a testament to the power of God&apo...

Are you feeling the strain in your marriage? The silent battles, the escalating arguments, and the disconnection can take a toll. But what if we said that there are four destructive behaviors, identified by Dr. John Gottman, that could be the root cause? These four horsemen - criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling - are lurking in the shadows of your relationship, leading to its slow...

Feeling overwhelmed by negative moods in your marriage? Looking for practical strategies to navigate through them? Well, you're in the right place. Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we unpack the complex issue of managing negative moods in a relationship and provide you with tips and strategies to help you and your spouse find balance and harmony. We kick off the conversation by defining wha...

Ready to dethrone your inner critic? Arm yourselves with the strategies we, Doug and Leslie Davis, lay out in this enlightening episode. We navigate the murky waters of negative self-talk and how it can stealthily impact our lives and relationships. We unveil how this internal critic operates on autopilot, spreading its influence beyond ourselves, affecting even those around us. Be prepared for a...

Do you ever find yourself caught in a cycle of negative self-talk, impacting your marriage and emotional well-being? Today, we're joined by Melanie Yates, an author and coach who specializes in helping individuals overcome this damaging mindset and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Melanie shares her insights on managing our emotions, fostering vulnerability and intimacy within...

Have you ever noticed certain situations or interactions that seem to trigger an intense emotional response? This powerful episode features a candid conversation with our guest, Angie Baughman, who bravely shares her journey of addressing childhood trauma and abuse in order to heal and grow. Angie's insights on recognizing and talking to our triggers provide invaluable wisdom for nurturing ou...

Are you and your spouse struggling with triggers from past traumas? Discover the power of pre and post-trigger care in building a stronger, more resilient marriage in today's episode of the Vision Driven Marriage Podcast. We're excited to share practical strategies and insights that can help foster healing and deepen your connection with one another. Join us as we discuss the importance...

Navigating the complexities of shared trauma can be overwhelming, but what if you could empower your spouse and create a stronger bond through tough times? Join us as we explore the importance of understanding and supporting each other during these challenging moments. We discuss the dangers of simply going with the flow and highlight the significance of being a trauma-informed spouse, resisting t...

Doug and Leslie discuss why it's hard when your spouse is triggered because of a past trauma and eight things you can do to be a supportive spouse. Where to find HeartCall Ministries: Website: HeartCall Ministries   Email Doug & Leslie at: leslie@heartcallministries.org Find them on Facebook Grab freebies and subscribe to the HeartCall newsletter at HERE Looking for something not listed?...

Doug and Leslie talk with Ron and Halee Wood about how trauma responses can affect relationships. They define what happens in the brain when a person is triggered and discuss ways to help someone who is suffering through a trauma response. Where to find Ron and Halee Run the Race Together. Ron & Halee Wood www. RunTheRaceTogether.com The Simple Marriage  Get your free resource from Ron & H...

Doug and Leslie share the definition and concepts of complementarianism. This insightful episode contrasts complementarianism with egalitarianism. Verses Mentioned: Exodus 18:4   Leave us a question: Podcast - Heart Call Ministries   Click “Leave A Message” Book Mentioned: I’d like you more if you were more like me: getting real about getting close John Ortberg The quote mentioned: “The whole is g...

Doug and Leslie discuss how finding your identity in Christ helps strengthen your marriage. Idols can creep in without our awareness especially in the area of our family. We discuss what that might look like and how finding your identity in Christ can eliminate falling to idols. Verses mentioned. Matthew 6:33 Matthew 6 (CSB) - But seek first the kingdom (blueletterbible.org) The Vision-Driven Marr...

Doug and Leslie unpack two simple verses to distinguish between healing masculinity and toxic masculinity. Verses Mentioned: 1 Corinthians 16:14 & 14 Micah 6:8 HCM LINKS https://heartcallministries.org/ Email Doug & Leslie at: leslie@heartcallministries.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeartCallMinistries Grab freebies and subscribe to the HeartCall newsletter at: https://lp.constant...

Doug and Leslie talk with James and Mindy Bradford about how he came to understand how Biblical Masculinity is defined and what to do to take steps toward being masculine in the Lord. Our conversation with James and Mindy Bradford is a special one. Jim’s heart to be submitted to the Lord has brought forth a message on Biblical masculinity that every man needs to hear. He talks about the struggles...

Doug and Leslie differentiate between setting personal boundaries and setting couple boundaries. They discuss how setting boundaries as a couple can solidify your marriage. If you’re interested in learning more about the quiz that Leslie mentions in the episode, you can access it here: https://heartcallministries.org/n3gk Scripture mentioned in the episode: Titus 2:11 & 12 The book of Proverbs...

Taking Care Of One Another: Serving So Your Spouse Feels Honored And Understood Doug and Leslie discuss how Gal 5:13 “serve one another in love” can help you solidify your marriage. Mentions: The Tess Scott Interview: Being Honest and Vulnerable when Real Life Happens with Tess Scott - Heart Call Ministries Praying with your Spouse: A brief guide: Click here to receive this free resource. https://...

Doug and Leslie discuss the definition of reconciliation and how to reconcile your relationship once an offense has occurred. Scripture mentioned: 2 Cor 5:18-20 Come to the process with humility. Let your spouse know that you intend to work on rebuilding the things that are broken. Be willing to make changes with purpose and make them. Admit your own feelings and encourage to share their feelings...

Tess Scott shares a heartwarming story of God's grace through her divorce and remarriage, and cancer diagnosis. She encourages couple to stick it out when times get hard. God blesses our efforts and redeems our failures. GUEST LINKS/BOOK/RESOURCES/FREEBIES Email: tess@listensister.ca Website: http://tessscott.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/listensistertessscott Instagram: http:// www.instagra...

Annette and I discuss boundary issues in marriages and why they are important. Annette helps Christian women rebuild a beautiful life after leaving a narcissistic relationship. But it’s more than that. Her heart and gentle spirit shine through in the café, where she provides not just comfy conversations but tailored coaching through The Beautiful Life Academy and specific support in overcoming tra...

Doug and Leslie continue their discussion of the types of intimacies and help you recognize how to strengthen your marriage by expanding your understanding of intimacies. Things Mentioned in this episode: Podcast Episode #5 Rick and Nancy Kay Grace interview  Free PDF with the 12 types of intimacies and descriptions:  HCM LINKS https://heartcallministries.org/ Email Doug & Leslie at: leslie@he...

Doug and Leslie interpret the well-known types of intimacies and help you recognize how you can strengthen your marriage by expanding your understanding of intimacies. HCM LINKS https://heartcallministries.org/ Email Doug & Leslie at: leslie@heartcallministries.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeartCallMinistries Grab freebies and subscribe to the HeartCall newsletter at: https://lp.cons...

Honor has been called the forgotten virtue, but if we take God’s word seriously, we are to outdo one another in giving honor (Romans 12:10). In this episode we share how to solidify your marriage by honoring your spouse. We breakdown specific ways to give honor in hopes that it will help you take steps to give your spouse honor. If you’re interested in learning more about Affair-proofing your rela...

Revolutionize Your Marriage Rick and Nancy Kay share with us four types of intimacy and a Bible verse that, when the concept is applied to your marriage, can revolutionize your relationship. Rick and Nancy Kay Grace bring a wealth of encouragement and practical information wrapped in humor. We laughed, learned, and laughed some more as we conversed about intimacy in marriage. Rick and Nancy Kay sp...