The Susan Winter Show

Are you tired of hearing people preach the need for self-love before you'll find love? While it's preferable to love yourself, the recalibration you need may be that of mindset and simple mechanics: #selflove #mindset #datingadvice

You've seen your partner regularly for months. They've met your friends and family and talk of your future. Then, you discover they're dating others. Here's what happened and here's your next move: #player #datinggames #commitment #DTR

‘Praisebombing' is my term for a side door seduction technique to gain your attention (and affection) through excessive praise. Done in a non-dating environment, it creates attraction and receptivity to the praise bomber: #praisebombing #datingterm

The ex that dumped you makes contact and shows interest. Is this a game, or do they have a genuine change of heart? Here's how to decode this unexpected flirtation: #breakups #contact #ex

      Who decided the breakup was a good idea “for you both?” Was it for your benefit, or theirs? Here's the distinction between a preemptive dump and benevolent choice. #breakup #preemptivedump 

Feeling pulled toward a person and an indefinable form of connection? Welcome to your evolution. Here's how to benefit from the Law of Attraction, expansion, and evolutionary partnerships: #labels #connection #LOA

What's up with the ‘text-ghost-text-ghost' dance? Why would someone contact you only to go silent? Here's what's behind this BDB (bad dating behavior): #text #ghost #datinggames

Our partner's betrayal can affect our identity and self-worth. How do we allow ourselves to trust again? Moving on (and moving forward) with strength and confidence requires this: #betrayal #trust #breakuprecovery

Why do we fear that speaking up will make us look weak or needy? Speaking your truth is a powerful tool for communicating your needs and boundaries. Learn how to do so with confidence and diplomacy: #speakyourtruth #communication #empowerment

‘Pocketing' is a new term for the type of bad dating behavior that excludes you from your partner's social life. They love you in private but hide you from the public. Here's how to change that dynamic: #pocketing #exclusion For more detail on this topic, check out my feature on Today.com: https://www.today.com/tmrw/trending/what-is-pocketing-dating-relationships-rcna8209

Making the right choice can still feel painful. Here's what you need to remember to allow your well-being, confidence, and faith to flourish: #datingadvice #breakups

What is a twin flame? These hallmarks and characteristics separate this partner from all others as you enter a unique vehicle of personal evolution: #twinflames #catalyst #telepathy #connection

What's the difference between breaking up and giving up? How do you know the right move to make? Stay hoping, or call it quits? #breakups #stayorgo #situationship 

Exhausted from asking your partner to put effort into the relationship? Tired of hearing, "I'll work on it” or, “Now's not the time?" Here's how to handle a lazy mate: #excuses #lazy

No individual can be our ‘one and only.' Being our everything is too great an expectation to achieve. Offset relationship stress and gain enrichment and support by doing this: #OneAndOnly #The One #codependency, #video

Are you stuck in a loop of "what if?" Obsessing over a love that ended, or never started? ‘What if' won't get you the answers (or comfort) you need. This will: #obsession #whatif #thedream

They gave every indication they liked you. The connection and chemistry were there. Here's why they stopped texting: #hotandcold #texting #chemistry #attraction #connection #video

You sense a strong connection. How do you proceed? Here's the step-by-step process to bringing them closer: #connection #volley #inclusionmethod

Your partner wants ‘time and space.' Is that code for a breakup, or a relationship reboot for the better? Here's how to know for sure: #space #breakup

  Tired of ‘talking' about the issue at hand, but also afraid to create ‘consequences?' When words don't work, action can reboot your partner. Move past stasis and get to new ground by doing this: #ConflictResolution

Has your ‘honeymoon bubble' burst? Balance and individual fulfillment provide the next phase of loving integration for you and your partner. Here's how to do that: #honeymoonbubble #couples

Obsession is the hunt for a logical answer. It's the mind at ‘unrest' — stuck in a mental loop because nothing makes sense. Here's your exit to freedom: #obsession, #datingadvice

Have a series of bad dating experiences chipped away at your confidence? Are you questioning your ability to find love? Here's how to flip the script and boost your dating confidence with ease: #datingconfidence #selfworth #dirtymirror

How do you handle the guilt and remorse of knowing that you were the one that caused the breakup? Here's how to deal with the aftermath of that knowledge and create a benefit: #breakups #guilt

Want to learn the key to manifesting the love (and life) you desire? Learn how to activate the ‘mental equivalent.' #manifesting #mentalquivalent