The Powerful Man Show

Episode #1053 In this episode, Drew shares his raw, honest story of what it took to hit rock bottom and why that moment became the turning point that changed everything. You'll hear how he went from nearly losing his marriage to discovering a version of himself he didn't know existed. This isn't about fixing everything overnight. It's about learning the tools to stop pretending, take responsibilit...

Episode #1052 In this revisit episode, Doug sits down with TPM advisor Christopher Hansen to talk about something every married man needs to understand but few are ever taught. What it really means to lead in your marriage. They dig into what happens when a man steps back from leadership and how that slowly chips away at trust, safety, and intimacy over time. You'll hear why emotional safety matte...

Episode #1051 We're bringing this one back because it's one of the most important conversations you'll hear if you're a married man wanting deeper connection and real intimacy with your wife. Doug is joined by his wife Erin, a seasoned coach for women, to talk about something most guys miss. How emotional safety and real presence outside the bedroom shape what happens inside it. If you've ever fel...

Episode #1050 In this episode, we talk about what it actually means to let go and why it might be the one thing standing between you and the life you want. Doug shares a real story about a man whose marriage, business, and family were falling apart. Nothing was working. Then everything changed when he stopped holding onto the stories he believed were true. This isn't about pretending things are fi...

Episode #1049 If you're the kind of guy who puts everyone else first and leaves yourself last, this episode will hit home. Doug and Chris unpack why self care isn't optional if you want to lead well at home, in business, and in life. This isn't about pampering yourself. It's about learning how to consistently show up as the grounded, confident man your family needs. They walk through how putting y...

Episode #1048 If it feels like you and your wife have drifted apart, like you're just going through the motions or living as roommates, this episode is for you. Doug and Chris unpack one of the most common issues men bring up: how to bring back the spark and get the intimacy flowing again in your marriage. Most guys think the problem is sex. But the real issue usually starts way before the bedroom...

Episode #1047 Ever catch yourself wishing your wife would just change? That maybe if she did things differently, everything in your marriage would fall into place? In this episode, Doug breaks that myth wide open and flips the script because real change starts with you. Doug walks you through a practical, no-BS approach to becoming the kind of man, husband, and leader you'd be proud of. He shares...

Episode #1046 If you've ever been told to "open up more" but didn't know what that actually means or tried and felt it backfire, this episode is for you. Doug and Erin revisit one of the most important and misunderstood parts of any relationship: vulnerability. They break down why most men think they're being vulnerable when they're actually just offloading, and how that difference can either buil...

Episode #1045 You can be the man everyone respects at work and still feel powerless at home. In this episode, Doug and Chris answer real questions from men who feel like they're crushing it in business but falling apart in their marriage. If your wife shoots down your ideas, questions your decisions, or says she's no longer attracted to you, this conversation will hit home. They break down what's...

Episode #1044 Feel like every argument with your wife turns into a courtroom battle? You explain, defend, try to fix it, and somehow it only gets worse. In this episode, Doug and Chris answer real questions from men who are tired of walking on eggshells and ready to lead differently. You'll learn what DEER Mode really is and why it keeps you stuck. You'll also get real examples of how to stop reac...

Episode #1043 This episode is for the men who crossed the line and now don't know how to fix what's broken. If you've cheated, or you're carrying the weight of a past affair your wife doesn't know about, this conversation lays out exactly what happens next and what to do about it. Doug walks through what women actually feel after infidelity the confusion, the emotional fallout, and the way trust d...

Episode #1042 In this episode, Doug and Chris answer real questions from men dealing with the silent drift in their relationships. One guy's wife hides her phone and avoids conversation. Another gets shot down every time he tries to initiate intimacy. Sound familiar? They talk about why therapy often leaves couples stuck in the past and how most men unknowingly fall into the "nice guy" trap trying...

Episode #1041 In this episode, we're answering a straight-up question from a listener. "I feel like my wife and I are just roommates. There's no spark. How do I get the passion back without begging for sex?" Doug Holt and Chris Hansen dive into what's really going on when men feel stuck in this kind of dynamic. They talk about the shift from being a strong partner to slipping into the "nice guy" r...

Episode #1040 We're revisiting one of the most eye-opening conversations we've had on the show. Most men were never taught how women's cycles really work. Most women weren't either. Yet when you start to understand what's happening week by week, everything changes in your relationship. In this revisit, Doug is joined by his wife Erin, who breaks down the four phases of a woman's cycle and shows me...

Episode #1039 A lot of guys think they can only grow by surrounding themselves with men on their same level or above them. The truth is real growth happens when you reach back and help another man who is a few steps behind. In this episode, Doug and Coach Mike talk about what it really means to lead, why lifting other men up deepens your own mastery, and how staying humble keeps you moving forward...

Episode #1038 Most men say they're being real, but deep down, they know something's off. In this episode, Doug sits down with Eric "The Viking" at the TPM Ranch to talk about what actually changes when you stop hiding, drop the mask, and start showing up as your true self. Eric opens up about the shift that happened when he finally got honest with himself and others. It didn't come from a big brea...

Episode #1037 We're revisiting an important conversation that continues to hit home for so many men. What happens when the marriage is technically over, but you sense there's still a chance to reconnect? In this episode, Doug answers a listener's question about when and how to approach reconciliation after separation or divorce. He breaks down why chasing your ex or falling back into old habits pu...

Episode #1036 Are you truly living, or just getting through the day? In this episode, Doug and Coach Steve have an honest conversation about purpose, aging, marriage, and the kind of legacy most men never stop to think about. Not legacy in the financial sense, but how you show up as a man, how you lead at home, and what you're quietly passing on to your kids. They share stories of mentors, tough t...

Episode #1035 What really changes when a man stops pretending he's fine and finally asks for support? In this honest conversation, Doug sits down with a couple from the UK to talk about what it actually looks like to grow as a man, a husband and a father. They cover the shift from feeling isolated and emotionally shut down to building real friendships, taking the lead at home and showing up more f...

Episode #1034 In this throwback episode, we're revisiting a core conversation that's just as relevant now as when it first aired. If you've ever felt like you're doing all the right things but your wife still pulls away, this one's for you. Doug breaks down what really happens when men fall into the trap of chasing their wife. Whether it's constant texts, over-checking in, or trying too hard to fi...

Episode #1033 Most men want to be better at communicating with their wife but don't always know how. Especially when it comes to listening without turning it into a checklist or interrogation. In this episode, Doug and Chris break down what it looks like to build real connection through everyday conversations — even when things feel distant or tense. They talk about the "collecting berries" concep...

Episode #1032 What do you do when you're fighting with your wife and it feels like you didn't do anything wrong? How do you handle conflict without making things worse? In this episode, Doug and Chris talk through the real challenges men face when arguments come up out of nowhere. They break down what's actually going on under the surface, how to lead with calm confidence, and how to respond in a...

Episode #1031 Feeling stuck trying to figure out your purpose or what's next? You're not alone. In this episode, we dive into the real-life tension that comes when your work no longer feels aligned, but walking away from it all doesn't feel right either. Doug sits down with Austin and Alan at the TPM Ranch to talk about the difference between obsessive and harmonious passion, why so many men chase...

Episode #1030 In this episode, Doug sits down with two longtime TPM members at the end of an unforgettable event at the TPM Ranch. They unpack something a lot of high-performing men wrestle with what self-love really means, how we unknowingly block it, and why most guys don't realize they're missing real male connection until they finally experience it. They talk about the weight of leadership, wh...

Episode #1028 Most couples spend months planning the perfect wedding but how much time have you spent planning your  actual marriage? In this episode, Doug challenges you to think beyond the big day and start treating your relationship with the same intention and energy you bring to your business. He walks through why your marriage needs a clear vision, shared values, and regular check-ins just li...