The Nice Guy Show

Is love toxic?  For Nice Guys, understanding love can be a struggle.

You’ve done the work—you’ve read the books, gone to therapy, embraced your own growth, and finally stepped out of that old Nice Guy pattern. You’re more confident, more assertive, and you’ve started living with purpose and integrity. But here’s the thing: even though you’ve changed, she hasn’t. The relationship still feels like it’s stuck in the same cycle, the same dead end.  For Nice Guys, this...

There is one major red flag many of us ignore at the initial stages because it's the norm. Everyone does it, but those who do it all the time and do it with intensity are dangerous and you MUST in all circusmtances not take them. Never! Because if you do, they will eventually make your life a living hell and even ruin your professional world.

If you've been around the Manosphere, there's no doubt you've heard of the term pickup artist. These are gurus who will tell you how to pick up women like you're picking up samples at Costco. But there's a few problems with this. And today I want to talk about the pickup artist industry and why nice guys tend to follow their advice and maybe a little bit of like, what's wrong with this?

Never ever, ever start a sentence with this word. It’s all too commonly used by nice guys and it makes you look weak, you lose respect and it’s very uncharismatic.

We are given so many conflicting ideas about how to do sex or have sex. You’ve got to be dominant and lead. You’ve got to make sure you talk about and get consent for everything you do. You gotta make sure you please your partner.  You gotta focus on pleasing yourself. You’ve gotta schedule sex.  You’ve gotta be spontaneous. You should tap into your fantasies. You shouldn’t be so lost in fantasy....

In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Ari Graff opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach.  He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of change, the burden of expectations, and the need for connection and understanding among men.

In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Faisal Khokhar opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach, particularly focusing on the challenges of parenting and navigating a business transition. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of change, t...

In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Chuck Chapman opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach, particularly focusing on the challenges of parenting and navigating a business transition. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of change, th...

Nice Guys aren’t being nice—they're being manipulative, using approval-seeking and people-pleasing as a way to control how women see them, all because they’re too afraid to be rejected for who they really are. When it comes to women and men, I’ve come to the realization that it’s insecurity that drives us to seek approval from women. It’s subtle, often invisible, but it’s there—this craving for va...

Got a guy with a situation involving his mother and wife. He’s newly married, and they all live together—him, his wife, and his mother. It all started well. Everyone got along, and they were one happy family. But after a few months, fractures start to appear. The mother starts interfering, picking faults with his wife, and that’s when the tension starts building. Now, this guy’s caught in the midd...

What is the first thing you do when you wake up? Do you hit the snooze bar? Do you hate the world, hate your life, hate your job? Do you feel like the day is another day to get through? Do you scroll through instagram? Do you rush to get ready? Do you struggle with what to prioritize that day? Well good news, today we are going to explain what you must have in your morning routine to change your l...

If you’ve been into relationship development, you would have heard about Masculine & Feminine Energies and how important they are to relationships.  Men are grounded, stable, like a lighthouse. The feminine is ever-changing emotions and she is the storm. Men need to weather the storm. Really?  Now, I don’t know about you, but this statement or something like this keeps men in harmful relations...

Have you ever wanted to get your partner to be nicer? To help out more around the house? To get in shape and lose weight? To like sex or even like sex with you? To like your parents? To earn some money?  How much can you get your partner to change?

If you want to create polarity, attraction, and connection in a relationship, it’s up to you to lead. I know, it’s not fair! A lot of the men I work with ask, "What about her? When is it her turn to lead?" And women often say, "I want to lead too." Why is this? Nice Guys tend to avoid leading in their relationships because they fear rejection or upsetting their partners. So they hand over the rein...

Have you ever felt so stuck on getting women to meet your needs that it occupied nearly every free moment? Well that was me a couple years ago.  I was a few years out from my divorce.  When I wasn’t working or parenting, I was thinking about dating or sex.  I felt a chronic hunger for women that had been there since forever.  So I decided it was time to get off that hamster wheel.  I hit the ultim...

Before I even knew what a Nice Guy was in terms of the Nice Guy syndrome, I thought of myself as just that—a Nice Guy. And I truly believed I was. When I first read *No More Mr. Nice Guy* about 15 years ago, it was like looking into a mirror. Every page felt like it was written about me. But there was one thing in that book that hit me hard, like a punch to the gut: as a Nice Guy, I was actually r...

Do you think small? Do you poo poo any big idea you have as far fetched? Do you feel like big ideas and big things are for other people? Is it hopeless or is there a cure for thinking small?

So you’ve heard of the nice-guy syndrome and why nice-guys finish last. So what’s the female equivalent nice-guy syndrome and is she as nasty and manipulating as nice-guys or is she a helpless damsel in distress? Let’s find out…

Fear. If there is one thing that holds Nice Guys back from getting the life they want it’s fear. Fear is the filter every decision is made or not made because Nice Guys anticipate and imagine failure, rationalize being comfortable and avoid pressure and tension. They are scared fo being exposed as frauds, not meeting expectations and losing control. It is the number one thing that every Nice Guy n...

Do you find that women don’t respect you? Or maybe if you have kids, they fail to speak in a respectful way? Maybe your colleagues at work, your customers, or even your friends don’t treat you with the respect you deserve. In this podcast, we will explore why women, children, and even men don’t respect nice guys.

In No More Mr. Nice Guy, Robert Glover talks about how some radical feminists claimed that men were the cause of all of the problems in the world. Or that men were merely an unnecessary nuisance.  This contributed to a climate that convinced many men that it was not OK to be just who they were.  

Let’s say you’re dating someone or in a relationship, and the infamous topic of body count comes up. What’s the magic number that would make you question if you should stay with her? Does body count really matter when you're in a relationship? How do you get over your partner's past, especially if her count is higher than yours? Should you even bother talking about body count at all? These are som...

Have you ever fallen for a woman you knew was bad for you? You know something is off but the combination of hotness, excitement, and possibility of a love connection keep you hooked. 

In this podcast, we’re going to look at the crisis behind why so many men are struggling to get into relationships? Are men the problem? Or maybe women are the reason why men are single or is it society or maybe dating apps?  Who’s fault is it and can we rescue relationships? Should we rescue relationships and you are probably thinking, what’s wrong with being single?