The Next Level

I heard Dr. Joe Dispenza answer a student's question with this statement: "Focus on the effort, not the outcome." At first I thought that sounded a little strange. I always hear the opposite. But the more I practice this the more useful it's proving to be to get out of some of my old ways of being and focus on the task at hand. On today's show I talk about: Why focusing on the outcome too much can...

I'm just going to come right out and say it... If you're hoping things would just get easier then you're not cut out to be an entrepreneur. Ok, now that we got that out of the way... The truth is it's tough. Every day comes with a new set of problems...

I was doing my bi-weekly track workout with a buddy this morning and we were chatting about goals. A couple of years ago I set the intention to let running teach me about goals. MAN what a fricken teacher. Especially when you test the limits in the right way. But you know what one of the biggest lessons has been? Missing an important goal or deadline can be devastating if you don't know how to lea...

Do you want to know how to get your business moving in the right direction? Stop standing still. While stillness is an essential step in the process of creation, staying in the same place for too long can lead to the all too common problem of paralysis by analysis. Especially for my spiritual folk and heart centered entrepreneurs out there because to us... everything means something. We've conditi...

Want to easily attract the perfect clients… those people who are MEANT to find you… without having to pretend to be confident and successful? Then you've gotta find the NOW version of you. If you fake it till you make it… you'll never make it. And if you do buy into the myth that you need to be someone else, that you have to have it all figured out, and that everything needs to be perfect in order...

I know I'm not the only one that's had dreams of turning all these devices off and moving to some remote tropical island. Although that would be nice for a hot second, it's definitely not the solution. But finding a way that works for you to reign back your attention is an absolute game changer! You see, in this day and age it can seem like a luxury to turn off your phone. And not even turning it...

So many times we attach a negative meaning to situations, circumstances and feelings. This causes unnecessary suffering and more often than not, being in a standoff with ourselves. Unable to move forward. And it's not just in that moment. It's pervasive. That moment of meaning gets transposed on everything and before you know it, you're doing from that level of defeat, frustration, and mixed meani...

Coping is how we adjust to stress in order to make the situation bearable. But when a coping mechanism (healthy or unhealthy) becomes a habit, we've missing the message that the situation and resulting emotion is trying to teach us. And when we try to cope our way through we don't make our way through. Just like physical pain, emotional pain is telling us to adjust something. To let go of somethin...

When you focus on mastery you foster depth. Seriously though… if you can't get into the training zone and practice your craft enough to continue learning, make distinctions, and further refine your craft, then you're not giving it the time it deserves. You're not executing with mastery. Yes, there are other things you need to focus on in your business. For instance, you need to market and stay on...

I picked up lacrosse really quick. And after playing from only my sophomore year in high school, I got a scholarship to a Division 1 college my senior year. Up until this point I had never injured anything. And so I had no reason to think that that would happen. And in all fairness, I was overly confident. Some may say I was cocky. It's true. But after getting injured it was almost as if my brain...

It's easy to lose steam when you lose sight of why you're doing what you're doing. How many times have you done this? How many times have you started a project, a new business, a new offer… and you were off to the races. You hit the ground running with sheer optimism. But over time you start to lose steam because it wasn't the instant success you hoped it would be. Instead of keeping your eye on t...

Life is always teaching you what you need to learn. But the majority of us, myself included, try to fight with reality. We either outwardly attack our current circumstances and judge the ever living shit out of them OR we blame other people, God, the universe, or any other creative source you want to conjure up. But fighting with some imaginary external opponent is not your best use of time. In fa...

This isn't something I normally dive into outside of my private client interactions, but it's such a game changer that I wanted to pull back the curtain and give you a glimpse into how this works. The majority of people I work with are doing. They're not sitting around waiting for something to happen. In most cases, the things they're doing aren't producing the desired results. They've read the bo...

What seemed like another lifetime ago I was a live in private chef. I'd live in someone's home anywhere from 2 weeks to a few months. In the beginning, the majority of these people had stage 3 or 4 cancer and the food and lifestyle approach was their last straw. The interesting thing about it was that some of these folks were way gone. They were coming to the end. I noticed there were two differen...

Regret is what happens when we wait too long to get started. We buy into the self-doubt, procrastination, the "someday I will(s)." But someday never comes and the vision of life becomes something hoped for instead of something being moved toward. The unimportant and the inconsequential find their way into the day and the pull of our heart gets pushed aside. Waiting too long turns into regret. And...

Striving to be perfect is nothing new. We get it pretty early on. Every family has their dos and don'ts. What they talk about and what they don't. What you need to do in order to be accepted and loved. But it's not for the reason you think. Usually there's shame or guilt attached it. In an attempt to save face, look good, and pretend our shit doesn't stink, we start to create our life to avoid tho...

After working with a client yesterday I've been reflecting on this one a bit. Have you ever told yourself on a continual basis that you needed to get better at time management, generate more leads, or consistently create content? You know you need to be more consistent generating leads or being more active producing useful messages but you tell yourself the same thing over and over again… I've got...

Something always bothered me about how we approach goal setting and achievement. There is this seeming contrast of setting goals to be attained and charging forward at all costs verses intending what you want and attracting outcomes. In the past 12 years or so...

One of the most frustrating things about wanting to achieve so much and feeling compelled to make a difference is the side effect of feeling overwhelmed and being worn out. Always anticipating the next thing. And on top of all that… feeling like it will never get done...

Today I talk about 3 subtle but powerful shifts that will completely change the way you work. These shifts made consistently accumulate over time. In this show, I dive into how we can start listening to our environment and our internal queues so we can stop trying to just power through and achieving with more ease. These shifts are: Give because you can, not because you expect something in return,...

In this episode I dive into how to harness the power of emotion, why we wrestle with emotions and making hard decisions, where that comes from, what effect it has in our lives and business, and what to do instead. See the full show notes at https://jeffagostinelli.com/podcast/how-to-harness-the-power-of-emotion/‎

Today I start off with how to think about time and attention and then go into 3 specific ways you can start to master your time and attention. - Everything exists in context. Nothing is a stand alone. - I don't necessarily buy into the myth that you have to sacrifice in order to be successful, but I do believe that there is only so much we can do. So choosing is important. Know what you value. - Y...

In this episode, I dive into How to Feel Content and Satisfied Now. I also outline what I'm going to talk about for the next handful of shows. This is in line with the handful of entrepreneurs I worked with this past year. Helping them overcome anxiety and overwhelm so they can grow their business while building a life they're proud of. I get into: I talk about my own journey with anxiety and over...

Welcome Back! This is the restart of the show after a little over a year off. In this episode I'll dive into why I put the show on pause and what's happened in the last year that led me to turn the show back on and what to expect from the podcast moving forward. You'll also hear about the decision process and how often times things don't make sense until we take the next big step. I get into what...

In times of uncertainty and transition, finding a semblance of peace in the unfolding can be difficult. There have been many times on my own journey where I've questioned my choices, even though it seemed like the right thing to do at the moment. Any time I'm in the midst of change, or speak with someone who is, I revisit one particular episode of the show and even offer it as sort of a prescripti...