The Impossible Life

Why do so many Christian men feel stuck when it comes to growth? Not because they don’t want to grow…but because they don’t understand how growth actually works. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the 3 musts for growth and give the non-negotiable principles that determine whether your life moves forward or drifts backward. Becaus...

What does it actually mean to follow God? Not casually. Not halfway. But fully… as a true disciple. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the reality that most Christian men are living with partial surrender and missing the life God actually called them to. The truth is, discipleship isn’t about believing in God… it’s about being all...

Why do so many Christian men struggle to walk in their purpose? It’s not because they don’t care. It’s not because they don’t believe. It’s because they’re skipping the basics. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the three daily disciplines that every Christian must follow to grow in faith and step into their God-given purpose. Thi...

What does it actually mean to win when you’re not in control? In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach unpack one of the most important and challenging truths for anyone pursuing purpose, faith, and growth: God is sovereign and you are responsible. At first, those ideas seem to contradict each other. If God is in control of everything, what role d...

Why do so many Christian men struggle in marriage even when they love their wives? In this direct and practical episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the non-negotiables of a Godly marriage and why most men are missing them. This isn’t theory. This is about principles which are the repeatable forces that govern outcomes whether you’re aware of them o...

What if understanding the 2nd Coming of Christ completely changed how you live today? In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach sit down with bestselling author John Bevere to discuss one of the most important, and often misunderstood, topics in the Christian faith: the return of Christ and its connection to purpose. John Bevere shares why he avoid...

What can Christian men learn from Navy SEALs? In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, former Navy SEAL Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface unpack the lessons Garrett learned from the SEAL Teams — and why many of those principles apply directly to faith, purpose, and Christian leadership. Garrett shares how serving alongside some of the most disciplined and mission-focused individua...

Why does God allow war in our lives? In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach unpack a hard but essential truth: Christian men are not called to comfort — they are called to war. Not physical war, but the daily battle against passivity, sin, and the forces that pull men away from their faith, purpose, and leadership calling. Many Christians expect...

What do you do when you're trying to lead… but you're stuck under a bad leader? In this tactical and powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down how Christian men can lead with faith, purpose, and strength — even when leadership above them is weak, flawed, or ineffective. Most people ask the wrong question: "How do I deal with a bad leader?" But t...

What does it actually mean to become a man of faith? In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down what it truly looks like for Christian men to develop real faith, walk in purpose, and trust God when life gets difficult. After walking through one of the most intense personal trials of his life — watching his wife fight for her life in the h...

What do you do when you’re believing God for something… but it’s not happening? In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach dive into what it truly means to live with faith, purpose, and conviction as Christian men. This conversation explores the tension between trusting God’s timing and pursuing the purpose He’s placed inside you. Many Christian men...

What happens when your faith gets tested in real time? In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface, Garrett Unclebach, and their wives set out to run a 50-mile ultra marathon—but what unfolds becomes far more than a physical challenge. It becomes a real-life test of faith, purpose, and what it means to be a Christian man under pressure. Facing brutal heat, exhaustion, and...

How do you know if someone has real spiritual fruit in their life? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down how to discern biblical fruit through a spiritual lens — and why this matters so much for men of faith, Christian men, and anyone pursuing God’s purpose. Jesus said, “You will know them by their fruit.” But what does that actually mean in...

Everyone asks the same question: “What is my purpose?” But what if that’s actually the wrong question? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface unpack one of the most important ideas they’ve ever discussed: the purpose perspective. Instead of asking what your purpose is, the better question is: What is the purpose? When you zoom out and look at the entire...

Honor is one of the most powerful — and most misunderstood — principles in life. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down what honor really means, why it matters, and how it affects everything from leadership and relationships to faith and personal growth. Most people think honor simply means respect or admiration. But the Bible reveals somethin...

What happens when God prepares you for nearly two decades before revealing your next assignment? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface sit down with entrepreneur and community leader Rod Vilhauer, who shares the incredible journey that led him from business success… to personal desert… to stepping into a completely unexpected calling: running for mayor...

What if obedience isn’t about rules… but about your heart? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down what obedience really means and why most people misunderstand it. The problem isn’t usually that people don’t know what to do — the real challenge is why they’re doing it. Garrett explains that God cares more about the heart behind your actions th...

Most people think obedience is about control. It isn’t. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface unpack the real purpose of obedience — not restriction, but transformation. Drawing from Scripture, SEAL training, parenting, and real-life leadership experience, they explain why obedience is the pathway to confidence, freedom, and fruitfulness. The conversati...

A positive attitude isn’t pretending life is easy. It’s choosing how you respond — especially when it isn’t. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down why positive attitude is more than optimism — it’s a leadership skill, a mindset discipline, and a decision that determines the direction of your life. Using the aviation idea that attitude determi...

Everybody wants God’s favor. But most people misunderstand what it actually looks like. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down one of the most misunderstood ideas in Christianity — favor — and why it’s not about getting everything you want, winning every time, or avoiding difficulty. Using stories from Scripture — Noah, Joseph, David, and othe...

Repentance isn’t popular. But it might be the single greatest key to seeing God more clearly in your life. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface dive into what repentance actually means — not guilt, not shame, and not just saying “my bad,” but a true change of mind and heart that realigns you with God’s way. The word for repentance literally means “to t...

Most men think they’re living in peace. They’re not. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down the Rules for War—not physical warfare, but the spiritual, mental, and cultural battles happening every day in your words, your thoughts, and your actions. If you don’t see life through the lens of conflict, you’ll misinterpret what’s happening around y...

Fear rarely announces itself. It doesn’t walk into your life yelling. It whispers. It sounds logical. Responsible. Even wise. But underneath, it’s often just a negative imagined future—a story your mind is telling you that hasn’t happened and may never happen.  In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface unpack how fear actually works—and why so many people d...

Why do some men stay driven for decades—while others burn out, stall, or constantly need another motivational hit? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down the three forces that motivate every human being: pain, pleasure, and purpose—and why only one of them can sustain you long-term. Using real life examples, they explain why pain and pleasure...

Most men don’t fail because they lack motivation. They fail because they never set real standards. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down exactly how to create standards that actually hold up under pressure—not hype-driven rules you break a week later, but identity-based minimums that shape your life. Using examples from SEAL training, family...