The C.S. Café

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode, we discuss the women's sect with love. A lot of women are out there who've never experienced love. They play games with it. They demand financial gain before trusting it. They try to put love in submission with the silent treatment and so many other childish tactics to mask their lack of poor communication. There's so much t...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we break down the men's version of love. I've talked to a lot of men about love and their first time they notice that they loved someone. Our first love could start as early as pre-k or as late as adulthood. This doesn't mean the more intimate love we all talk about but love in general. When was the first time you knew love?...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! People talk about love like learning a new vocab word and saying it excessively. That doesn't mean you know how to use it properly. Often times we think we're "in love" but you never truly love someone until you "choose to love them". Marriage isn't always the good times. That what the vows prepared you for. Do you really...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! How many of you got that one person that vents about their problems but ever solves them. It becomes a dumping ground upon your mental health but does nothing to them. Sometimes you have to put a pause on people who just vent just to vent. Tell me about your good times, accomplishments, goals, etc. If all they have to bring to the conversation is negatives...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Put them kids to sleep! It's time to get into Seduction 101. Let this episode seduce you but you can't touch the merchandise. Grab your partner and you know what to do.  Support the show

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Hide your kids tonight. This episode is a call to action of finding someone who can match the freak in you. some people like to omit/lie about what all their into but when it time to pull up they backdown. Handle what you can handle and if you're an explorer then find someone who matches your kink or open to learning how to. It's not easy telling...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Too many people are walking around with things they never let go of and they're bounded by the pain. Communication gets lost in translation. We tend to punish the future dragging the past behind us. We never go to therapy for it but we punish future partners and our children for our hurt. Others can see and so can we. Sometimes people choose not to ge...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! There are seven stages of grief and we all go through it at different rates. Some of us take a lifetime to fill the void that that person was. Sometimes grief hits you in an instance. Anything will make you reminisce and cry. Sometimes during the process things go unsaid. People don't get told off. Sometimes we off the whole world just for a quarter o...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! The truth is always a hard pill to swallow. Often times we stay running from it. Some of us hide it because we have a lot to lose. The truth will come out and you can't always take it to your grave. Deal with it. Take your ass to therapy if you must! Take the truth in, learn from it, don't repeat it, don't fight it, and move on from it. I ca...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Nothing has changed in the hunt to gun down innocent African Americans. I'm not going to put another hashtag to a person's name as if it solidifies that that was all they were. There was much life lived before they were murdered and it's about time we started talking about that. There needs to be reform and consequences for individuals whose...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Over the years there have been many well known black poets. In the arts, we've had to fight to have our say. Fight to have our books published. Fight to own the rights to our words. Through all of those who fought before me I'd never want to be anything but a poet in the black. What has poetry in the blck done for you? Support the show

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Everyone has a boiling point. Eventually you will say it with your chest. The truth will push out no matter how hard someone tries to stifle it. They say black Americans badger you with never forgetting that our ancestors were slaves and that we never got any reparations for that. Truths have a funny way of snatching reparations one way or the other. Tune...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Tell me where you was when you had that thought. Yes, that kind of thought at the most inopportune time. Where you're at work, in church, court, etc and you keep thinking of that person who turned you out. Could you control where your body sent you? Did you want to? Might want to make sure there are no kids present during this episode. Enjoy! Support...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Have you ever looked at the next generation and wondered where they child's play is at. Who nurtures children for adulthood? Why are these kids so consumed in video fames, streaming services, and tv? The imagination of children is fading. Role play in children are not as big as it was in the generations before. Let's get into it. Let me take you...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! It' time to crank it up a bit so you might want to leave your kids in another room if you have them. Let's lay it all on the floor and and come explore the four seasons on 7 continents but never leave the bedroom. You down? Support the show

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we pay homage to Reading Rainbow and talk about banned books. There are many banned books on the public school lists across the US but many books should not be there. Books about different cultures apart from ours. Where do we draw the line? Is one race's history the only history we should know? I would think not! Hidden in this piece...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we're sounding the alarm for everyone who's ever been judged by their pen, told to censor their art, told to stick to one genre, been a victim of plagiarism. We are the mold. We don't move to anyone's tune. Build your art and say it with your chest. Let them choke on your message. Let's get into it! Support the show

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! There are too many wars going on across the pond. There are too many children dying as casualties of war and never getting the chance to just be. Mothers dying on cold streets. Kids losing lives in classroom. Hiding from enemy lines and although I can't be there in the natural I can be there in spirit and advocate to stop the genocide from both sides....

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode, we pay homage to Avatar, The Last Airbender and flip it into the poetic version of mastering all elements of poetry. Are you ready to see a poet master erotic, trauma, teaching, and bars in one piece? Let's get into it.  Support the show

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Happy Mother's Day. In this episode, I pay homage to my lineage of mothers before me. What they stood for, What some died for, What some lived for. Although everyone before me were broken in some way, their pieces shaped a whole me. I pray this piece keeps you close to your mom. If your mom is no longer here, I pray this piece makes you reflect on you...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode, we delve into foster care kids who are aging out or have aged out already. Most foster care kids don't have a village to fall back on when they age out the system. Most of them don't even have the basic necessities to be on their own so a percentage of them end up homeless or fighting to survive. Articles pit them as invisible bu...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Ever told someone the most deepest part of you and heard it replayed by someone else? How did it make you feel? Our most destructive part of our body is our thoughts because they don't always make it to primetime and our body doesn't always act on them. Oh if we had a movie reel that replayed everything the world would be in jail. In this episode...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! There are too many talks about relationships, dating requirements in this day and age. Submission is more like a swear word and omission is positive to get your own way. Deception is a better way of explaining it. Why does a man need to pay a 5 course meal on the first date? Why should a woman have a joint bank account with her "boyfriend"? If yo...

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Ever wished you had a time machine to erase all of the bad that happened in your life? Would it make you better? Would it change you for the best? Would you have a testimony if you never faced adversity? How would you help someone close to you? Tune In. Support the show

You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode, we dive into doctor's appointments and hospital visits. Does your doctor see you or your race? Does your doctor see you or your weight? Does your doctor see you or your age? Some doctors have bedside manners while others ticket for the filling of pockets so they say anything. Physician biases shouldn't be in patient rooms because...