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We thought it would be fun to answer questions asked on the BDSM Advice subReddit. And we had so much fun that we think this will become a regular thing. If you come across some questions that you would like to share, please send us the link.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save...

WARNING -   Any activity which constricts or blocks a person’s air or blood flow comes with risk, and can never be 100 percent safe. There’s always a chance of something going wrong, and anyone who takes part in this kind of play needs to be aware of this prior to engaging. DO NOT try anything involving breath play without being aware of the risks involved. This is not something to be done li...

What exactly is vetting and how does it pertain to BDSM? What are some questions to ask during the vetting process? We answer these questions and so much more. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your orde...

We couldn't let Thanksgiving pass without sharing all the kinky things we are grateful for. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and f...

We often hear in the kink lifestyle that submission is a gift. But is it? You can't take a gift back but you can rescind your submission. And if submission is a gift, then what about dominance? Should you earn someone's submission? Should you earn their dominance? We have a very lively discussion answering these questions and more. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto....

When we think of kink including floggers, wax play, or restraints, we generally don’t include disabled people in that image. And why don't we? Being disabled shouldn't cut you out of the kink scene. For many people with disabilities, BDSM is just one facet of life in which they have learned to make adjustments so that they can enjoy the lifestyle. Kink can be a powerful tool for managing their chr...

Your kink is not my kink and that's okay. It's the principal we in the kink community are supposed to live by. But do we actually or do we found ourselves judging instead? And what about people who use YKINMKATOK to try to justify abuse? It's never simple when it comes to kink and judgement.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on you...

Gatekeeping in kink is defined as "restricting or limiting access to the lifestyle or community or invalidating someone's actions or feelings, usually based on personal bias and prejudice.” An example would be saying you can't be a dominant if you are female or you can't be a rope bunny if you are overweight. People who decide that their way to kink is the only way to kink are bad for the communit...

We interview Sir Ezra, Intimacy and BDSM Coach at House Of Algos Inc. and Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX, about his new book Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism. We talk about common practices, how to distinguish between ethical, consensual and erotic mindfucking and mindfucking that is not all three. We cover both the basics including fundament...

Some kinks are viewed as forbidden by society’s standards and therefore are rarely talked about openly. Some are less taboo then they were in the past and some are more taboo then ever. But these kinks exist and so we are going to talk about them. What are they? Is it okay to object to them? Should we just accept that we may see these kinks in our public dungeons? There is so much to talk about so...

As part of Rara's birthday celebrations, Dara and Rara challenged each other to see who knew more about the other one. Join us as we play our very own twisted version of The Newlywed Game in front of a live studio audience. Play along and see how well you know us.

We get so many questions about trying to date when you are kinky so we decided to just do an episode about it. We talk about the best way to begin the process of looking for a kinky partner. We talk about our own adventures dating and what worked and what didn't and finish up with a discussion of several kinky dating sites. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for...

A mentor is a person with specialized knowledge whom you may enlist to educate and motivate you. But is a mentor necessary in the kink lifestyle. We speak with Moxie, who in addition to being a Bootblacking titleholder, teaches a class on Mentoring in BDSM. We talk about how having a mentor can help, what qualities you should look for in a mentor and a mentee, and whether or not mentors should cro...

This time it's Rara's birthday that we are celebrating so we are devoting the episode to one of Rara's favorite subjects - Impact. An entire episode devoted to all things thuddy and stingy. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use co...

Throughout our lives, people attach labels to us, and those labels reflect and affect how others think about our identities as well as how we think about ourselves.  That said, we've gotten in the habit of over labeling things, situations, and people, which has ultimately boxed us into these predetermined beliefs about what that particular label "should be" about, rather than just what it IS...

Fire play is an incredibly sensual play involving not just the fire but touch too. It is obviously edge play so we bring in an expert to talk about the different kinds of fire play and safety. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com  Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800  Affiliates -  SireDonLeat...

It's Dara's birthday and we are celebrating with an entire episode all about her favorite subject - Electro!  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to...

Whether you are a longtime member of the kink world or a newbie just exploring, you may have noticed something a bit concerning. Kink often has an issue with elitism. In the kink community, there is often a sense of hierarchy: what kinks are the best kinks... and the kinkier, the better. But this competition is unhealthy for you and your partners. We discuss why and how to avoid falling into the t...

TW: CNC/Rape Play It is sometimes hard to understand why we enjoy some of the kinks we have. Whether it's being a sadist and wanting to hurt someone, dress up diapers and using a bottle and pacifier, or even wanting to participate in rape role play, some of our kinks are a little more difficult to wrap our heads around. We tell our stories of acceptance and share the stories our listeners were bra...

Hypnosis has been used for centuries to induce dreams, recall memories, and transform habits. So it makes sense that it could also be used to elicit pleasure. We speak with Mr. Taqtiks, a certified hypnotist, to learn all about how to use hynposis in your BDSM play.  Follow Mr. Taqtiks on Fetlife at https://fetlife.com/users/110316 Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyip...

Consent. It is the foundation of BDSM. Without consent, what we do is nothing more than abuse. We discuss how best to ensure you have consent in a scene. But there are multiple ways to consent so we also talk about which ways are more effective than others.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact h...

Many people believe that long distance D/s relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. But if you communicate and work together, you can have a successful relationship.  We discuss a...

Kink within polyamory relationships provide extra challenges. How do you incorporate D/s rules into your other relationships? What do you do if one partner doesn't like bruises and another does? We talk about all this and more as we try to navigate the challenge of meshing two lifestyles together. Polyamory resource - Tik Tok: Two good resources are Polyammering and Polypages  Visit us at pin...

Rope bondage has gained in popularity as more people have come to admire the artistry that can be created with rope. But rope is considered edge play because of the risks involved. We speak with Simple_Beauty, an accomplished rope top, and Rara's rigger. We talk about why Simple Beauty loves rope, the different kinds of rope, the risks involved and more.  Follow Simple_Beauty on FetLife at ww...

Kink has dangers. Dangers to our social standing, to our health, to our sanity. Anyone who tells you that BDSM is “totally safe” is probably lying, or is too ignorant to play with. But something being risky doesn’t automatically make it bad. After all, people bungee jump and sky dive and swim with sharks. It all comes down to what activities you are willing to do, even when knowing all the risks i...