My Inner Torch

Send us Fan Mail We try to ignore it, we try to be normal. In the end, it's always there...the elephant in the room. Welcome to Podcast #12 of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail I recently received a letter. It was postmarked from 2017 and it held some revelations from the past that remains true today. Welcome to Podcast #11 of My Inner Torch Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes in dealing with our borderline we overlook something very important...our own self-worth. In Podcast #10 of My Inner Torch I explore this further as the journey of understanding, tolerating and moving forward with someone uBPD or diagnosed BPD continues.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Why do we expect the norm from someone with BPD when the borderline exhibits anything but normal behaviors. Listen for further insight in this Podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail ...that does not begin with  "L". This is a feeling/emotion I have been waking up with these last few weeks. Listen Support the show

Send us Fan Mail A seemingly innocent picture captured a moment years ago, a moment that holds special meaning, explaining so much to me years later. Listen. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Does your relationship with your borderline feel like a game of  Chutes and Ladders? In keeping with a game theme to further explore the highs and lows   of navigating the   oceans of emotion   this is Podcast 6 of   My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you feel like your   SO with BPD is like a weathervane? One minute they are pointing North only to swing erratically to the  South when triggered?    Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Would you argue with a lunatic pointing a gun at you? Join me as I share a tear-jerking listeners email about her family in this episode of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this Podcast I explore Emotional Intelligence and whether Borderlines have any. Are they really children trapped in an adults body when they rage and act out? Listen for my insight on this topic. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like you are building "emotional sandcastles" with someone who has BPD? Join me as I explain the theory of Emotional Sandcastles and how they play a role in the complicated web of relating to someone with BPD. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail I have spent years trying to figure out my wife of almost 18 years as her behaviors were outside of the normal realm. The rages, the "out of left field" comments, distorted realities, and gaslighting.  Seeing these behaviors for what they were/are has been like lifting a veil from my eyes. Understanding these behaviors, being able to put a label on them has been a game-c...