My Inner Torch

Send us Fan Mail I was inspired by a quote that I share in this podcast of staying in a situation where we clearly do not belong. Welcome to this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Speaker beware, for what you say to your borderline or narc can and WILL be used against you or at the very least trigger them, if not both. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail So many times we accept the blame for a circumstance that has nothing to do with us. In this 60th podcast of My Inner Torch I explore this phenenom.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like your soul has been sucked from your body by your borderline? I explore this idea in this Podcast of My Inner Torch, Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you spend hours and days ruminating about how you should have handled a situation with your Cluster B?  Welcome to this Podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail I see seven distinct stages we pass through in our relationship with a Cluster B.  I explore these stages in this Podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like you make excuses for your borderline and their behaviors? Accept owness for their abuse? Welcome to Podcast #55 of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Nobody likes being a victim of Bait and Switch, but when you think about it, aren't we all victims of this in our relationship with someone who has a Cluster B disorder? Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Being with someone with a Cluster B personality disorder can feel like living in a "Back to the Future" movie. Listen to what I mean in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail How much abuse will it take...how much crazymaking and magical thinking will you endure, when will you feel that you have had enough and "cry Uncle"?  Welcome to Podcast #53 of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail A day in the life of dealing with a Borderline or Narcissist can and does involve crazymaking. Join me for a day in the life of crazymaking with my uBPD /Narcissist wife. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this 50th podcast of My Inner Torch I explore the empty hole most of us feel after we have been split and devalued by our BPD SO resulting in what can only be described as "intimate anorexia".  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever wish that life with your personality-disordered significant other could be like a Hollywood movie with a happy ending? Keep wishing, I explore some harsh realities in podcast #49 of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail You may be familiar with a game called "the seven degrees of Kevin Bacon" in which each player tries to see if they have a tie to the '80's actor Kevin Bacon. In your relationship with someone with a personality disorder like BPD do you feel that all roads of blame lead to you? Listen to this podcast of My Inner Torch for further insight. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like all you are doing in your relationship is making deposits and getting nothing in return? Welcome to this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail What if there was a reset button on our disordered loved one...would you push it?  Welcome to this podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you have a feeling of "emptiness"? A hole that cannot be filled by your disordered partner? Welcome to this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Each day, every day we put ourselves on the firing line with someone who has BPD. We endure, we rise above, we are Saints. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail A while ago I talked about "Emotional Sandcastle's" Here's one of my own. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail "Breadcrumbing"...it is a thing and you'll get the full loaf in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Why do we do what we do with our borderlines? Why do we bother? I give you some insight in this 41st podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Understanding what I now know, I am starting a new journey in this 40th Podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail I may have figured this all wrong... Welcome to Podcast #39 of my Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail How long can a borderline mirror you? We look at this from a borderline's view in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail How do you love a person with BPD? In this podcast of My Inner Torch I go over a checklist. See if you agree/  Support the show