Married A.F.

We break down society's perception of marriage as an outdated tradition and delve into why sex remains a taboo subject both socially and biblically. Through candid discussions, we'll challenge common misconceptions and emphasize the value of open communication to boost marital satisfaction and intimacy. Discover the extensive health benefits of a fulfilling sex life—from lowering blood p...

We take a moment to celebrate our incredible milestone of 25,000 downloads from listeners across 38 countries and 722 cities, with special shout-outs to our top listener locations like Los Angeles, San Jose, New York City, and Miami. Your unexpected support continues to fuel our passion for sharing valuable insights, even as one of us navigates the podcasting world without being a social media afi...

Ever wondered if conspiracy theories could tear a marriage apart? We share a heartfelt story of a wife struggling with her husband's flat earth beliefs, which have only intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic. As we navigate the complexities of dealing with a spouse’s extreme views, we examine whether such convictions are grounds for divorce from a biblical perspective. Plus, we lighten the...

Ever found yourself haunted by past flames even while in a happy marriage? We dissect a real-life scenario where a newly married woman grapples with lingering emotions for a former friend with benefits, and how social media stirs the pot of jealousy and unresolved feelings. Should she come clean to her husband? We debate the pros and cons and give you actionable advice on fortifying your marital b...

Trust and boundaries in marriage can be incredibly complex, especially when business and personal lives intertwine. This episode uncovers the subtle but significant difference between friendly behavior and actions that might erode trust. We emphasize the importance of open communication and discuss the controversial approach of giving a taste of one's own medicine. As we debate the idea of mo...

We share some thrilling news about our podcast's rapid growth—over 20,000 downloads and listeners spanning 36 countries and 713 cities! Can you guess which city has the highest number of our listeners? In our next segment, we dive deep into the heart of relationship struggles and communication issues. Listen to the powerful narrative of a husband feeling overwhelmed by household responsibilit...

Are men becoming obsolete? This provocative question fuels our heated debate on gender roles and societal perceptions. Using a clip from “The View,” we dissect various opinions on the value of men and women in modern society. We examine how both genders excel in different ways, making each indispensable. Our conversation covers societal expectations, marital dynamics, and the indispensable role of...

Have you ever sat across from someone and wondered, "Is this the pinnacle of togetherness, or are we just ticking societal checkboxes?" Well, buckle up, because Matthew and I are ripping the lid off the marriage box in this unfiltered episode. As young adults increasingly question the institution's relevance, we're tossing in our own stories—from our son's dreams on the ba...

Buckle up as we mark our 51st flight through the podcasting universe, navigating through tumultuous debates on whether marriage has lost its sheen among millennials. With a dash of humor, we dissect the everyday oddities that bind us, like the dreaded post-meal teeth check or the silent gym selfie culture. We're peeling back layers of societal expectations, unearthing the roots of marital ske...

As we peel back the layers of modern relationship dynamics, one man's tale of open marriage regret becomes our springboard into the deeper waters of love, attraction, and the unforeseen complexities they bring into our lives. We pour over your comments, deep-diving into the quagmire of workplace crushes and the steps we can take to fan the flames of attraction within our own marriages. Our pe...

With a blend of humor and heartfelt discussion, we share a snapshot of our own life as Monica mends from oral surgery, bravely battling the world of soft foods, while also rejoicing in Cody Rhodes's epic victory at WrestleMania. And for those of you who've ever scratched your heads at the frenzy over solar eclipses, we're right there with you, wondering why a few minutes of celestia...

Buckle up as we venture into the bedroom—where the heart meets the heat. We're candidly discussing the challenges that can arise after infidelity shakes the foundations of a relationship. With a mix of personal stories and listener contributions, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of maintaining intimacy, harmonizing mismatched desires, and—most importantly—the art of forgiveness. It&apo...

Have we slapped an expiration date on the institution of marriage without even realizing it? Tackling the weighty question of matrimonial relevance, this episode wades into the perspectives of young adults who label marriage as passé and scrutinizes the significance of lifelong vows amidst the backdrop of soaring divorce rates. As your hosts, we don't shy away from the tough topics. We return...

It's one thing to manage your money, but it's another to manage it together. Stick with us as we tackle the gritty, often avoided conversations about fiscal stress and how faith can shine a light in the darkest of times. We're not just talking dollars and cents. We're talking about what it means to be wealthy in love and life. Discover how our own journey through unexpected exp...

Join us as we unpack new research pointing to a generational shift in mindset, and share our heartfelt thanks to you, our listeners, from every corner of the globe—from the buzzing streets of Los Angeles to the sun-kissed shores of Miami. Your voices and stories fuel our passion, and for that, we're eternally grateful. Let's strip back the layers of intimacy, peeling away the physical to...

Amidst the bloom of bouquets and Valentine's Day blitz, we're stepping out to question if society's grand romantic gestures are overshadowing the true essence of lasting partnerships. As we navigate through the maze of modern dating, from the adrenaline rush of the first crush to the sobering moment of a breakup text, our discussion lays bare the humor and humanity of seeking connec...

 I can't contain my enthusiasm as we discuss the return of Theo Epstein to the Red Sox and the fresh hope he brings to our beloved team. The story of Joseph has always been a testament to patience and perseverance, but its relevance hits home as we draw parallels with our own relational sojourn. We muse over the enduring virtues that saw us through trials and tribulations, and the profound in...

Let's talk about the secret sauce to any robust relationship—taking care of yourself. We're getting real about the sweaty tales from the gym and the quirkiness of our mutual grooming sessions (nose hairs, be gone!). Discover how staying fit together isn't just about chiseled abs but forging an ironclad partnership that thrives through pandemics and life's curveballs. We're...

We take a raw and humorous look at the complexities of marriage, serving up our truths alongside a side of laughter, as we unpack what it means to be hitched in the modern age. Now, don't think we've skipped over the bread and butter of married life—the daily grind, the quirks of growing older together, and the surprises that life tosses your way like confetti. From entertaining tales of...

Ever imagined what it's like to break free from the daily grind and jet off to Hawaii with your partner? Well, buckle up because that's exactly what we're doing! After 15 years of marriage, my wife Monica and I, Matthew, are set to embark on an adventure that includes surfing, volcano exploration and much more! But this episode isn’t just about our exotic plans, we also take a momen...

Imagine being married for 20 years, still sharing laughter and playful touches as if you're back in high school. That's our reality, and we want to share with you how we keep our marriage fun and vibrant. We've learned through our personal experiences that laughter truly is the best medicine. Even when we faced a pushy  salesperson, we found humor in the situation and it brought us...

Have you ever considered how jealousy works in relationships and marriages? We'll be stripping this complex emotion down to its bare bones, sharing personal anecdotes that expose the reasons behind jealousy, from lack of self-confidence and feelings of inadequacy to the fear of losing one's partner. You'll hear how we've navigated the murky waters of jealousy in our relationshi...

Vacations, those magical times that create memories for a lifetime. Do you ever wonder what makes them memorable? Is it the people we journey with, the meticulously planned itinerary, or the thrill of last-minute adventures? Join our discussion where we delve into the heart of this matter. We also share our perspectives on the intriguing spectrum of vacation styles - each unique and potentially li...

Does your marriage seem more like a series of negotiations than a sacred union? Are you losing sleep over home safety or the pressure of parenthood? Join us as we unravel the complexities of modern relationships and discuss how to navigate them with grace and understanding. We promise that by the end of this episode, you'll have fresh insights and practical advice to help you find balance and...

Think back to your first roller coaster ride - the anticipation, the thrill, the exhilaration. That’s where we are taking you in today's episode, as we navigate the roller coaster journey of modern relationships and adventure. We're peeling back the layers on the enigma of declining marriage rates and sharing one listener's deeply personal struggle with a 15-year marriage, strained...