Love Life With Matthew Hussey

What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible? Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing. Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bo...

How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again. In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us. --- ►► L...

What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media. Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere. Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media. Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you anal...

It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating. --- ►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat...

No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person.   And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem . . .   Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing you...

In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out. Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.) --- ►► Let...

If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship. Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!) --- ►► Protect your time, energy & your heart...

"How do I let go of someone I absolutely adore?" What if you met the "right person at the wrong time?" Many people have been through the feeling of someone breaking up with them because of a specific obstacle. It makes us think,  if only that wasn't an issue, we would be perfect. If you've struggled to move on from someone who seemed perfect for you, join Matt for this solo episode to learn h...

I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair. When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?” You feel amazing. Over the next few weeks, it’s a w...

Sick of being asked "why are you still single?" Tired of society deciding people are more successful just because they are in a relationship? Me too.  Here's why you should never judge anyone or yourself by their relationship status, and what really matters when thinking about your current stage of life. --- ►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The...

Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you? Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't? This is called microdosing.  And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term. In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest ques...

How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently? Whether it’s due to: A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier. A family member you could’ve created more distance with. A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted. But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go...

How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start . . . --- ►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join me in-person for the return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy fo...

Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier. We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this. We tell ourselves that once we finally find a partner, secure a better job, or lose weight, life will be good and we will finally be happy. But even when we achieve some of those goals, the “happiness goalposts” appear to move a little further down th...

In this killer clip with Matt and Ed Mylett , you'll learn: The #1 question you should ask yourself before you sleep together. Why you should never decide to sleep with someone just because you’re afraid someone else will beat you to it. What a GOOD reason to jump into bed with someone looks like. How to gauge someone’s intentions. Why owning your actions is sexy. --- ►► FREE download: “9 Tex...

Matt gives some psychological and practical tips on irresistible traits that boost your attraction both in the long-term and courtship stages of dating. --- ►► Download our free "5 Compliments" guide: SayThisToHim.com   ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta:  @stephenhhussey   ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback...

Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our own thoughts about what keeps desire early on in a relationship.  --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”:  9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com ►► Follow Matt on Insta:  @th...

In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation. The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relationship? But is this the right way to think about looking for a romantic partner? We want high standards, but what things (if any) should we settle on in a relationship?  In this episode, Matthew talks about h...

Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: When to be picky vs. when to be open-minded when falling in love. How true commitment changes your view of relationships. The things that really matter when choosing a partner. The cognitive bias that keeps you with the wrong person. --- ►►...

Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy? Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in REAL LIFE? Here are 7 elegant and simple ways to have a guy approach you (without feeling like you're doing all the work) . . . --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”:...

So . . . Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet!  And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious with you? Matt explains that 11 behaviours to look for that tell you he's thinking about a long-term relationship and doesn't have one foot out of the door . . . --- ►► Come join our special "Commitment Masterclass" with Matthew on February 23rd...

Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone . . . Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to  MHVirtualRetreat.com  and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9t...

You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone. Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in your social circle, or at a party. You want to flirt. You want to get him to notice you. Then at the crucial moment, you shrink. “H--hey”, you say, trying to play it cool. You make small talk. Chit-chat...

What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone*. Instead of focusing on short-term attention, focus on these in the long-term and you won't find yourself playing games to keep someone interested.  --- ►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to  MHVirtualRetreat.com  and spe...

Does "The One" exist? Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts. There may not be one quick formula for knowing if someone is right for a long-lasting relationship, but here are four questions that you should definitely ask yourself before you dive in deeper . . . --- ►► Join us on our virtual retreat o...