Ladies & Tangents

The title says best of patreon, but Jeri had a house full of sickos and wasn't able to record so we pulled together some clips from different exclusive episodes to share with you instead was a bit too long of a title. In this episode, we frankensteined some of our favorite moments from our bonus ho(rror) stories, scandals, bad reviews and game night with our sisters to bring you some form of conte...

It's that time again for our longest running tradition on the podcast, our annual new year's reflection. We've spent a lot of time in the past looking back and realizing that we both manifested and predicted a lot of future events, but in listening to last years episode, I realized that we did a lot less foreshadowing and a lot more pep talking to our future selves. We're so proud of where we've c...

We won't be fooled by the media, we know what this time of year really is, forced relationships with people who drain the actual life out of you. We perused the vast corners of reddit to find a few holiday inspired AITAH stories to throw our judgements at. If this reads kind of grinchy, it's because we've had a bahumbug kind of week and we're not really into spreading cheer right now. Cheers and h...

Ciara's on her ranker article insomnia kick again and decided to present us with a collection of her favorite scientific facts that were discovered in 2022. If you're curious, they aren't actually all that fun. Definitely more yikes than ooooh, if you know what we're saying. We also jump in for a hot sec to discuss the most recent episodes of one of the most deliciously terrible reality shows- Too...

We got way too silly again this episode sharing more of your Ho-rror stories! The graphic nature of this episode is not just highlighted by your incredibly written sexcapades, but also by Jeri explaining how she's relearning how to use the bathroom both in and out of her compression garment. Not sure if it's more of a hack or a shame. We'll let you decide.  WE'RE GOING ON TOUR - https://www.ladies...

Jeri got her procedure and decided that she could power through an easy breezy episode, as long as it was done from the comfort of her bed. Ciara has never met a bed she didn't like so recording a cozy sleepover ep was a no brainer. After a quick 30 minute retelling of Jeri's recent medical experience, we spend the rest of the time regretting choosing Most Likely To as our game. The submissions we...

There are few things in this world we love more than a buzzword and thanks to social media and reality shows, we have a new piping hot phrase being tossed like an equally hot potato - Weaponized Incompetence. Much like gaslighting, narcism, and toxic; weaponized incompetence has been finding its way into more and more people's vocabulary and when this happens, we like to pause an ask ourselves -wt...

We're back again with everyone's favorite series- sharing your scandals! We've got butt plugs, cemeteries, poop and texas roadhouse, what more could one ask for? Just before getting into the hot juicy goss, we pause to reflect on last weeks episode on our procedures and Love is Blind 3 reactions to expand on our thoughts and feelings girl in the back of the mean girls gym that doesn't even go ther...

It can't be a coincidence that Netflix dropped Love is Blind season 3 the same week as Ciara's procedure. Doctors ordered her to take it easy, so we obliged by giving you guys a chill catch up episode covering one of our favorite reality shows and giving you all the hot juicy goss from the week. Spoiler alerts for Love is Blind season 3 and the juicy goss involving Jeri dropping her pants at Ciara...

It is so crazy to be turning 3 years old. We are forever grateful that you all have laughed, cried, grown and sharted with us over these years. We truly feel like we’re not alone in the world because of each and every one of you. Thank you for learning with us and being committed partners in weeding our mind gardens. We love you endlessly. You keep us going. Happy anniversary, you beautiful humans...

Kind of paranormal, kind of true crime-y not really either but also somewhat adjacent...sorry if this sounds cryptic but there doesn't seem to be a better way to introduce an episode about the Mothman! Before we get into the legend of the not-so-moth-like-why-do-they-call-him-that-man, we do a little a catch up with you all and take a "what cryptid are you?" quiz! Click the link to take the quiz a...

We're continuing spooky season with some of your creepy kid stories! We did our best not to detour from the stories too much, but ultimately, we are who we are. Speaking of being who we are...we're also liars. You're not imagining things, this was supposed to be the mothman episode. Fear not! That one is coming next week! We promise! Not that it means anything since we're clearly unreliable and un...

You know those words that circulate society and you have no idea what it is, but you don't want to feel like an idiot so you nod along and pretend to know what's going on? That's us with the word Cryptids. We decided it was time to become enlightened and be able to add something meaningful to the conversation surrounding cryptozoology and connect with our inner pseudoscientist. Turns our we have n...

Happy first episode of October! You know we had to start it off with a spooky spookster of an episode! In true L&T fashion, in an hour and 15 minutes of content, we share probably 1 and a half ghost stories but we like to still think the episode in its entirety will still bring you joy. Let's get in the holiday spirit with some actual spirits- both liquid and apparitional. Is that a goose pimp on...

TW- ED, Childhood Trauma  It's Hispanic Heritage month and we asked our facebook group to give us some inspo about a topic where we could highlight and celebrate Hispanic history and culture. SO many requested The Chicano Movement. It is no surprise that we hadn't heard of it before and had essentially 0 frame of reference. This is us sharing what we learned with you! Please feel free to continue...

We're bringing this episode to you straight from the newly finished hole! Relax by the fireplace with us and be soothed by the sweet sounds of screaming cicadas and the air conditioner as we recap our trip to see Trixie & Katya and finish with a mental health check in. Contrary to a lot of our previous check-in's, we're doing surprisingly well thanks to more intensive therapy and a healthier work...

We're diving back into our mental health ish with this one. You ever use a word so frequently that you feel like you know what it means, but when prompted, you're like...."i feel like I know the gist, but now that you ask- idk sh*t about d*ck?" That perfectly describes our experience with the word *codependency.* Follow along as two absolute idiots discuss the words of an educated doctor and try t...

Who remembers that we had an AITAH submission form? Not me! But luckily after a bit of a whoopsie that resulted in a black eye and a mild concussion, Ciara showed up and saved the day with some of your entries! I don't know that we'll ever be able to call our listeners AHoles, so here is an episode of validation and "you're doing great, sweeties." WE'RE GOING ON TOUR - https://www.ladiesandtangent...

The second official installment of our new favorite series is finally here! This is sharing your Ho(rror) Stories 2.0! Per usual, you guys sent some absolute bangers in and for whatever reason, poop was a reoccurring theme. Not sure where in the world that came from...couldn't be one of our main character traits or anything. WE'RE GOING ON TOUR - https://www.ladiesandtangents.com/live-show WE’RE O...

CW- Childhood Trauma, Ab*se, Addiction This video is the equivalent of when a DJ says "we're going to slow it down for a couple songs" after playing dance bangers for 15 minutes straight. We're back in therapy so that means you're back in therapy and this week we discovered (the incredibly misleadingly named)- Magical Thinking. In short, the recipe for this sweet little coping skills reads as such...

We asked you to send us your hot takes and we fished them out of a pancake bowl. These opinions are all over the place. I'm talking one second we're discussing bodily autonomy and the next we're talking mad smack about cake. This is an extra long episode because you know we love to give an opinion! Let us know your hot takes for potential future episodes or what your thoughts are on the ones we sh...

It's everyone's favorite episode- the one where we share the absurd, scandalous and shocking stories you've submitted. We've got everything from ghost stories to poop stories and everything in between. What's in between ghosts and poop? Great question. The answer is either meatballs or condoms on a basketball. We'll let you be the judge. WE'RE GOING ON TOUR - https://www.ladiesandtangents.com/live...

This has been an episode nearly 12 years in the making. We are so excited to share with you a conversation with Reginald Lewis The Soul Teacher - Celebrity psychic medium, spiritual life coach & healer. In this episode we asked Reginald questions sent in by our patreon members and he shared with us his experience and insights about growth, healing and tapping into your highest self. With meditatio...

We have often discussed how thoughts of our existence and identity plague us. The idea of how we got here, why and from where was simply the straw that threw the camel into an existential crisis. Because we are both terrified of sending our DNA to undisclosed businesses, it seemed as if we'd always wonder how in the actual f word did our gene pool create the two of us in the same family. Turns out...

Once again, you brought the most incredible literary masterpieces into our inbox. The prompt this time? Ho Stories, or as we're titling it Ho-rror stories because frankly, some of these are sketchy. We've got rodeo clowns, three-legged cats and impromptu country songs. We are absolutely honored to have the audience that we do and to bond with you over these terrible inter(course)-actions. WE'RE GO...