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Fresh off the high of their shows in the UK & Ireland, FK & Jollz give a recap of the live shows and lessons learned. Dilemmas include a  lopsided bum saga and a 30 year old who feels their life is stuck in reverse. The girls round up the show with a conversation on how to combat the pressure to make the most of the last few months of the year. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWI...

This episode, Jola and FK talk about what way too many things, because that’s what happened when there’s no guest to moderate the madness. After dreaming of big podcast money (shoutout to Alex Cooper), they tackle dilemmas of thieving family members, the mistake of missing your ex,  suppressed long term love and unwelcome body licking. Finally, the ladies posit who they would be if they...

This week, FK and Jollz are alone with their thoughts in the studio and of course, some chaos. After dreaming about athletic careers that never were, they tackle some tough family dilemmas and discuss the true meaning of giving your friends grace. Buy tickets to our UK Live Shows which are only a few days away Manchester - 6th September - https://www.manchesteracademy.net/order/tickets/13373867/i-...

This week, FK and Jollz are joined by their friend and repeat guest, Alma Chronicle! After tackling dilemmas about difficult polygamous families and people thinking they can do better than their current partner, the ladies discuss what it's like to start life over in a new country and how to plan for a year-long sabbatical. Buy tickets to our UK & Ireland Live Shows Dublin - 1st September - ht...

This week, FK & Jollz are joined by everyone’s culinary guide and recipe champion Sisi Yemmie , an OG in the content game and an all round fabulous babe. After taking on a few dilemmas about estranged parents and overly available boyfriends, Sisi Yemmie talks about having a surprise twin pregnancy, creating amazing and relevant food and lifestyle content for a decade and living life in the pub...

This week, FK & Jollz are joined by Dodos Uvieghara , an amazing makeup artist and one of Nigeria's most prolific content creators. After tackling a dilemma about cantankerous inlaws, the ladies get into the world of content creation and makeup artistry as well as what new motherhood has taught Dodos. Buy tickets to our UK & Ireland Live Shows *  Dublin - 1st September - https://takey...

This week the bounce is joined by the one and only Chigul for a spectacularly hilarious 2-hour episode as the best agony aunt ever. After recapping a friend of the pod, Dimma's gorgeous weekend over the weekend, Chigul helps solve an array of crazy dilemmas before ending with a hot rant about the never-ending crimes of Lagos landlords and other partners in wickedness, agents. Tickets to our shows...

This week, FK & Jollz are joined by their friend, hypeman extraordinaire and party starter, Soji. While constantly declaring his undying love for FK, Soji helps solve some dilemmas (he makes them worse, to be honest) and walks through what it's like being a party starter and hypeman! Buy tickets to our UK & Ireland Live Shows Dublin - 1st September - https://takeyourseats.ticketsolve.com/t...

This week, the podcast is joined by the baddie queen of vibes, Ashley Okoli! After giving some sage advice, Ashley talks about growing up in Ojo as a first daughter, dropping out of university and treading the path less beaten with not just makeup and fashion, but also life. She also introduces us to her film "Gemini Confessions" and explains what it's like to live life on vibes! You can buy ticke...

Welcome back Tolani as our first bonus episode guest! Years ago, she first came on the show to talk about the struggles of being an overworked and underpaid party usher while at University. Now she's back to talk about building an event planning company, being a newlywed and what it takes to mak sure your party is popping! Dilemmas this week include career decisions, assuming you're in a relations...

This week's episode started light and bubbly but got quite serious towards the end because if your girls are not anything, they are multifaceted! The episode began with a recap of a friend of the pod, Dimma's wedding in Enugu. Dilemmas this week are all over the place, from a young man who has reconciled with his dad behind his siblings' backs to a young lady tired of her friends always having con...

Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, it has happened! In August and September, to celebrate the podcast's 7th birthday, ISWIS will release 2 episodes a week! So for the next 8 weeks, you will get a fabulous extra episode every Wednesday and Saturday. What can we say, you girls are deeply benevolent queens! So get ready guys, it's about to be double the trouble, fun and absolute insanity! Don’t fo...

Happy International Friendship day! This week is all about the ups and downs of friendship! After a mini celebration of FK's half birthday (yes, it's a thing!), your favourite girls get into dilemmas (as usual) before reading your incredible submissions on some of the most amazing and hurtful things you've experienced in friendship. FK & Jollz also discuss managing the expectations of your fri...

This week, FK & Jola are joined by Gbemi & Mayorfit, two fitness and wellness practitioners! After discussing some dilemmas involving a possessive mother-in-law & a lady worried about her friends not liking her romantic partner, they enter the world of fitness and wellness! The guests are honest with Jola about her hopes to lose 15kg in 10 days, creating a better relationship with food...

FK & Jola are all on their lonesome this week, sharing deep wisdom. After discussing their active weekends and laughing at England's inability to bring it home unsuccessfully, they delve into dilemmas before ending the podcast with some experiences of having tough conversations. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate t...

Your favourite girls and Harmony are back and it's a deeper and more serious chat. This part of the episode is all about reviewing the year so far in a truly befitting gbeborun manner by splitting into categories, grading them and being honest about why you're feeling the way you are. The hope is that being honest about where you are and why you feel the way you do will help you think proactively...

This week's episode was so fun and intense (and to be honest, long) that we decided to split it into two. FK and Jollz are joined by Harmony Adenipekun, a lawyer, luxury event planner and all-around bag of fun! In part one, they discussed crazy wedding expectations and weekend shenanigans before giving their two cents on a wide range of dilemmas like being "less intelligent" than your partner, in...

This week, your favourite podcasters are joined by hit producer, Big Rage to discuss where we can find love (Jola was right, there is love in Ebeano) before getting into a heated argument about "modest dressing" and to what degree people can have a say over what you wear. He also spoke about his career trajectory and experiences as a producer as well as the future project he is excited about Don’t...

Season 6, Episode 20 Guess who's back from a quick holiday! FK & Jollz catch you up on their early summer shenanigans, before going into a series of lamentations about Nigeria and low expectations and solving some dilemmas (look out for the woman whose husband got carried away with her sister's BBL). The bounce is back! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while l...

This is a hot and steamy episode! As usual, Jola & FK update you on their recent experiences before diving into some really interesting dilemmas (look out for the one where a friend feels left behind) and talking about shit etiquette - where, when and how do you shit around those you love, like or lust. Honestly, this podcast is truly the gift that keeps on giving Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or...

It's the podcast's 200th episode (well, sorta kinda in an ISWIS mathematics way) and no better way to celebrate than a brand new installment of the crowd favourite, "Secrets & Lies". Submissions range from spicy to hilarious and very vulnerable but through them all, Jollz & FK are there for you! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podca...

This week, the bounce is joined by Ahmed and Faith; two incredible young people. They discuss their weekends before giving some pretty fabulous advice to some crazy dilemmas and then diving into an honest, hilarious and vulnerable conversation about what it means to be blind in Nigeria and how organisations like the Bethesda Home for the Blind continue to do the Lords work in helping them attain a...

Happy Children's Day! This week's episode is super special, as FK & Jollz are joined by two super cool kids, Regina and Charissa. The 12 and 10-year-olds discuss what's hot in the world of children, and also ask some pretty interesting questions! A good time was had by all! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the sh...

This week, FK & Jollz talk about irrational behaviour that makes sense to no one but you and solve some very interesting dilemmas ranging from pending breakups to potentially letting go of dream destination weddings. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a revie...

This week, FK & Jollz talk about the dangers of pretending to be someone else and acting brand new to impress people you would love to be like. There are, as usual, some very interesting dilemmas (look out for the unhygienic boyfriend) and we have a brand new question this week! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate t...