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A person has two ears but only one mouth. 一个人有两只耳朵，但只有一张嘴巴。 That's because we are meant to listen, not to just speak. 这是因为我们天生就是要去倾听的，而不光是去说。 People talk too much. Everybody wants others to listen to them but forget to listen to others. 人们讲的话实在太多了。每个人都希望别人听他们讲，却忘了去倾听别人。 That's why we are not really communicating as much as we...

​If you don't want to do something for somebody, you should manage to say "No." in the first place. 如果你不想为一个人做什么事情，你一开始就应该说“不。" The moment you give in, you've given them the impression that they can use your time as long as they try hard enough. 你一旦让步，就会让他们以为只要多做些努力就能占用你的时间。 No "Let me see." 不要说“我看看。” No "Maybe." 不要说“可能吧。” Just "N...

What Are The Lessons People Most Often Learn Too Late In Life? 有哪些重要的事人们总是太晚才明白？ Just because you think its a good idea, doesn't mean it is a good idea. 只是因为你认为这是一个好主意，并不意味着这是一个好主意。 Be Careful What You Get Good At 对你擅长的事要小心。 Sacrificing your health to pursue wealth isn't worth it. 牺牲你的健康追求财富是不值得的。 Don't take your body for grant...

There is a saying that who you socialize with defines who you are. 有一句话叫：你的社交关系决定了你是什么样的人。 I find it very inspiring. 我觉得这非常醍醐灌顶。 Find a healthier socializing way. 找些更有营养的社交方式吧。 Don't fall into the pit of gossip, especially not in the office. 别掉进八卦的深坑，尤其不要在职场里。 The reason some people participate in workplace gossip in the first place...

Where you spend your time determines what kind of a person you become. 你把时间花在什么样的地方，决定了你成为什么样的人。 Remember, it's not where you came from but how hard you try that decides what level you finally end up in. 记住，决定你层次的，从来都不是你的出身，而是你的努力。 If you spend your time in working out, you'll end up in good shape. 你把时间花在了运动上，你就会拥有匀称的体型。 If...

Many people come to us in our lives. 会有许多人走进我们的人生 But most of them are just trivial passangers. 但他们中的大部分都是无关紧要的过客 They show up here and there, now and then. 他们时不时地出现 在这或是在那 But they never really know us. They never succeeded in opening the gate of our hearts. 但他们从没真正理解我们 他们从未成功地打开我们的心扉 One's time is limited. And we should spend it...

Why should I be a good man? 我为什么要善良？ What a silly question. 真是个傻问题。 I choose to be a good man because it is what makes us human. 我选择做一个善良的人，因为这就是人性。 It is our bottom line. 它是我们的底线。 I choose to be a good man because I know there are times that I need help from others. So I choose to give my help to others. 我选择做一个善良的人，因为我知道我也会需要其他人的...

A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted… 一个24岁的男孩子望着车窗外，大声说...... -“Dad, look the trees are going behind!” -“爸爸，看，那些树在后退！” Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed… 爸爸笑了。一对坐在附近的年轻夫妇看着这个24岁的男孩子，为他的幼稚行为感到可惜。突然，男孩子再次呼...

Sometimes The Day Comes 有那么一天 Sometimes the day comes When you try your level best To achieve something But you fail. 有那么一天 你使尽浑身解数 想要做成某事 却偏偏功败垂成。 Sometimes the day comes When nobody understands you And you feel that you are isolated From the world. 有那么一天 没人能够理解你 你觉得自己 被全世界孤立。 Sometimes the day comes When you want to help the needy But find y...

Promise-The Lord's right hand has done mighty things. In 1989 an 8.2 earthquake almost flattened America, killing over 30,000 people in less than four minutes. In the midst of utter devastation and chaos, a father left his wife safely at home and rushed to the school where his son was supposed to be, only to discover that the building was as flat as a pancake. 1989年，一次8.2级的地震几乎铲平美国，...

A box full of kisses The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy.” The man was embarrassed by his earl...

Christmas Eve A friend of mine named Paul received an automobile from his brother as Christmas present. On Christmas eve, when Paul came out of his office, a street urchin was looking around the shining new car, admiring it. "Is this your car, Mister?" he said. Paul nodded, "My brother gave it to me for Christmas." The boy was astounded, "You mean your brother gave it to you, and didn't cost you a...

Life inspiring A daughter complained to her father about her life and how things were so hard for her, She did not know she was going to make it and want to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose. 有一个女孩向她父亲抱怨她的生活，她觉得凡事都很艰难，不知该怎样挺过去，想放弃。她厌倦了不断的抗争和奋斗，似乎一个问题刚刚解决，另一个问题马...

Love is just a thread Sometimes I really doubt whether there is love between my parents. Every day they are very busy trying to earn money in order to pay the high tuition for my brother and me. They don’t act in the romantic ways that I read in books or I see on TV. In their opinion, “I love you” is too luxurious for them to say. Sending flowers to each other on Valentine’s Day is even more out o...

Author ：Joseph J. Mazzella I had the strangest dream last night. I was walking down a dirt road with snowy woods on either side of me. I was all alone. The road seemed to go on forever. I couldn’t see another person anywhere. All at once, however, I saw someone walking towards me in the distance. As this person got closer and closer I realized that it was me. It was me from many years ago, fresh...

This Is Your Life You have this Life. You were born for this Life. You want some people to be in your Life, but they don't. You don't want some people to be with you, but they do. You are endeavouring to come out of certain conditions of your life. But you are forced to live with them. You don't want to go outside in the Rain, but sometimes you have to. You are yearning for something to happen, bu...

Depression is quiet. Anyone can fall victim to it. And much like a mask. people hide it with a smile. I'm fine, and an I'm fine. Nobody can detect it but yourself, because disguising it is easy. The cheerier you are, the less they'll suspect. But you can't hide it forever. Everybody reaches a breaking point. But that's Okay. Don't be ashamed. There are people out there who understand. There is lov...