F*ck Saving Face

In this episode of the Fuck Saving Face podcast, Judy Tsuei introduces her new book, 'How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps,' aimed at empowering Asian Americans and voices of color. The conversation explores themes of cultural identity, personal growth, and the importance of mental and emotional wellness.  Judy shares her journey of breaking free from societal expectation...

In this compelling season finale, join host Judy Tsuei as she takes you behind the scenes of her passion project turned book, set to launch next season. Discover the enriching experiences and connections fostered through the power of storytelling. Broadening Perspectives: Judy shares how expanding the narrative to include diverse voices has profoundly impacted her work. Learn about the emotional s...

🎙️ In this powerful episode, we chat with Dr. Stephanie J. Wong, a licensed clinical psychologist, entrepreneur, and author of " Cancel the Filter: Realities of a Psychologist, Podcaster, and Working Mother of Color." Dr. Wong is the brain behind the award-winning "Color of Success" podcast and a passionate advocate for mental health, especially within the Asian American commun...

Have you ever felt like an imposter in your own life? I know I have.  Jule Kim sheds light on the reality of imposter syndrome in our latest discussion. We explore how the relentless pursuit of external validation can eclipse our internal compass.  Tune in to hear our thoughts on finding genuine fulfillment.  As an Asian American and person of color, it's crucial to understand the 'why&a...

Join us for an eye-opening conversation with Elaine Lin Hering, author of "Unlearning Silence," as she delves into the crucial journey of breaking through silence to empower mental and emotional health — especially for Asian Americans and voices of color.  From her personal journey as a high-achieving Asian woman (she's the one our Asian tiger parents compared us to!) to the urgent...

Join me in this captivating episode as I sit down with Fiona Kong, the inspiring founder of Home Sweet Homes Journal. Fiona Kong's journey from adversity to triumph is nothing short of remarkable. As a single mompreneur, she transformed personal challenges into opportunities. After experiencing separation and job loss in 2019, Fiona courageously launched Home Sweet Homes Journal during the pa...

In this episode, we're diving deep into the enlightening wisdom of Sana Akhand, a marriage coach whose out-of-the-box approach to relationships has captured hearts worldwide. Sana shares her refreshing take on reinvigorating relationships, underlining the importance of creating space for oneself and one's partner. Using her expertise, she explores how epigenetics can profoundly shape our...

In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, host Judy Tsuei takes listeners on a captivating journey through the depths of healing, empowerment, and the pursuit of authenticity.  With raw honesty and relatable anecdotes, Judy delves into the importance of finding a therapist who shares your cultural background and the transformative power of having them as part of your support network. But th...

In this episode, Judy Tsuei discusses the importance of mental health and overcoming cultural norms with Misa Chen, the founder of The Authentic Asian . These two powerful founders explore the biases and stereotypes faced by Asian American women in business and the need for a supportive community. They're direct, honest, and authentic as they encourage AANHPI women everywhere to embrace indiv...

Welcome back to another awesome episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast! Today, Judy Tsuei takes listeners on a real journey through her book in progress, 'How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps, a Modern Asian American Guide.' Get ready to dive deep into some serious topics with Judy.  She talks about the importance of expressing your feelings, especially when it comes to...

In this episode, I interview Anna Hsu, a self-worth coach, about the journey to self-love and compassion. Growing up in traditional Asian households, we often face immense pressure to conform to strict standards of success, academic achievement, and filial piety! This pressure can lead to feelings of inadequacy, self-doubt, and a constant need to prove one's worthiness. Moreover, navigating b...

Ever grappled with the feeling of being stuck between your achievements and the nagging doubt of unworthiness?  A shift in perspective can change everything. I learned this through my father's journey from a traumatic accident in Taiwan to the life-altering move to the U.S. for his children's future. This story of sacrifice and love is just one of the many untold narratives from our pare...

Ever think about how much more powerful culturally competent therapy is for people of color? In this episode, I interview Asian American women authors and therapists, Susan Lee and Linda Yoon — they're the co-directors of the Yellow Chair Collective and co-authors of " Where I Belong: Healing Trauma and Embracing Asian American Identity. " The Yellow Chair Collective is a mental hea...

In the latest episode, I open the pages of my life to you, sharing the raw and real experiences that have shaped me.  I read a chapter of my upcoming memoir tentatively titled, "It Began in the Darkness" when I was left in an incubator by my parents because I was born a month premature. Here's a sampling:  "Born one month early, trained to live without touch, in the incubator s...

I'm thrilled to share with you the latest episode of our podcast. This week, I have the pleasure of hosting Ái  Wang, a Vietnamese-born, Texas-bred filmmaker, and co-founder of TÁPI Story, a production company that tells human-centered stories told from a systemic perspective with compassion, empathy, and dignity. Ái's journey is a fascinating one, filled with cultural exploration, self-...

Excavating through old writings, I discovered a piece titled "Reiki and the Reappearance of My Grandmother," a vivid recounting of the end of a relationship, my struggle with an eating disorder, and my decision to prioritize my well-being. There's a narrative power in our personal histories, the lessons we've learned, and the paths we've walked.  Grandmothers have a specia...

As a podcaster, I have the privilege of engaging in enlightening conversations with a variety of individuals. In this podcast episode, my guest Jerry Won is a keynote speaker, creative entrepreneur, and advocate for representation. Jerry is the founder and CEO of Just Like Media, an Asian storytelling company, which includes the award-winning Dear Asian Americans podcast — he's even interview...

Join us for a compelling journey as Judy Tsuei shares her deeply personal experiences, unraveling childhood secrets, cultural clashes, and the complexities surrounding pleasure and taboo — as she reads an excerpt from her upcoming memoir.  In this episode, Judy takes us through poignant moments that shaped her understanding of family, identity, and the unspoken dynamics that influenced her early y...

🎧 Hey everyone! I can't wait for you to listen to this podcast episode featuring Raja (the Malaysian word for "Princess") Jesrina Arshad. We dive deep into Jesrina's health journey, and how her royal lineage as a princess of Malaysia led to discovering the transformative power of ancient remedies from the rainforests of her native country. This podcast episode touches on empow...

🎧 Hey there! It's your host, Judy Tsuei.  In this episode, I reflect on my daughter's journey in learning to play soccer and how she's embracing mistakes as learning opportunities. 🏃‍♀️⚽️ Let's explore the power of a growth mindset together! In my journey since 2018, I've faced divorce, debt, and uncertainty. But today, I'm in a healthy relationship, debt-free, and...

What does the man who once invested over $1 billion for the Panda Express family now do? Business & Transformation Coach, Benjamin Yeh shares his transformation from a left-brain career to a heart-centered entrepreneur — get ready for some major motivational vibes!  Join me on this episode as I share my personal journey with anxiety, medication, and the challenges of diagnosing ADHD in women....

🎙️ Hey friends! Join me as we celebrate the 100th episode of F*ck Saving Face and reflect on the incredible journey so far. Find out how I transitioned to a sustainable pace and what inspired me to slow down. 🎧 Ready to be inspired? Tune in today to hear how my life has evolved from juggling being a divorced mom to coaching amazing women entrepreneurs of color. Get valuable insights from my world...

🎧 Want to dive deep into the relationship between money and mindset? Join me as I chat with Money Mindset Coach, Mary Li. 💔 If you give away your financial power, explore the societal pressure on women to break the taboo around money. Embrace your agency and control over your finances because you are capable of so much more than you think! 💪🏼 💰 Don't miss out on this eye-opening conversa...

Embracing the shift from happiness to contentment has been a profound journey. Thanks to therapy, I've discovered the power of being fully present in moments of joy and gathered them as memories to buoy me when times get tough — this is how we cultivate hope.  Remember, there's no shame in seeking the help we need. In this episode, I'll explain more about what Neuro Linguistic Progr...

As an Asian American, Judy Tsuei has often grappled with the concept of self-promotion. Cultural expectations, coupled with the generational trauma that has impacted many Asian cultures, can make it difficult for individuals to shine and be noticed. Traditional publishing houses often emphasize the need for authors to have a platform already or to do the work themselves to get noticed. In today&ap...