Dying Alone, Together

Jack hates performing for gay people, specifically cis white gay men. SEND YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP/LIFE QUESTIONS: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast necessaryoutlet@gmail.com (letters or voice memos) Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

Jack met the next generation and he has concerns. SEND YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP/LIFE QUESTIONS: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast necessaryoutlet@gmail.com (letters or voice memos) Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

Jack’s advice on the litmus test for entering a serious relationship. SEND YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP/LIFE QUESTIONS: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast necessaryoutlet@gmail.com (letters or voice memos) Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

Jack hops on for a quick note about the changes to Dying Alone, Together. See you next week with a full episode. SEND YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP/LIFE QUESTIONS: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast necessaryoutlet@gmail.com (letters or voice memos) Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

We're taking a little break to revamp the show, but we didn't want to leave you empty handed. So this week enjoy a mini episode where JJ talks about Pride Month. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.c...

We're taking a little break to revamp the show, but we didn't want to leave you empty handed. So this week enjoy a mini episode where Jack talks about Pride Month. Don’t forget to get tickets to Jack & Brita’s abortion rights fundraiser at The Stonewall Inn in NYC on June 30th.  Tickets at abortthecourt.eventbrite.com Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jackt...

It's our anniversary, so the boys have the pod's very first guest Sherry Vine (https://www.instagram.com/misssherryvine) return to chat about best/worst hookups. Before that, the boys talk about Jack's struggle to find artistic community and queer support as well as his journey with suicidal ideation. Finally JJ picks a fight with overuse of neurodivergency on social media and Jack leaves love and...

JJ is missing—check all windowless vans—so Jack is joined by special guest co-host Jizzelle ( www.instagram.com/theonlyjizzelle ) to talk about Jack’s last matchmaker date, Jizzelle’s Provincetown gig and what it means to be a “side”.  Today’s guest is iconic NYC drag performer, activist and RuPaul’s Drag Race contestant Brita Filter ( www.instagram.com/thebritafilter ) who talks about her re...

JJ starts off the pod this week with a discussion of anticipation, both positive and negative, for the Fire Island movie. On Scruff, the boys’ swiping quickly turns into a discussion about muting, unfollowing and blocking on instagram, with Jack surprising no one by saying he’s strongly anti-mute—unfollows only. Today’s guest is drag performer Nicole Anadyme ( www.instagram.com/dymequeennyc ) who...

Pop those poppers, because this week the boys start off discussing VHS head cleaner and the more general concept of having to give up vices. In the swiping segment, JJ picks Tinder and Jack realizes he may have already swiped all of NYC as the only matches lately appear to be from Brazil (which he’s not necessarily mad at). Then LGBTQ+ rapper EarthTone ( www.instagram.com/earthtonemuziq ) joins to...

It's a wild one folks. The boys start off talking about jealousy and it somehow meanders into Jack remembering he used to lay in bed at night as a child and pray he'd die before 40. That revelation sucks up the second segment, so no swiping today. Then fellow gay sex podcaster Steve Rodriguez of TAGS Live ( www.instagram.com/tagspodcast ) joins to detail his best and worst relationships. Finally,...

It's a very special occasion, one that only comes about once a year--or twice a month if you're JJ. It's JJ's boo-iversary. After a highly caffeinated and meandering conversation about ? the boys jump into the Feeld app for the first time to look at poly couples on the hunt. This week's guest IKP (https://www.instagram.com/ikp4president/) joins for some red flags and finally Jack picks a fight wit...

Jack and JJ are manifesting a discussion about manifesting on this week’s open. After they jump to Scruff to find your standard collection of couples and bottoms, and one man who is leather daddy from the neck down, and superintendent from the neck up. Jack then talks to NYC nightlife mainstay DJ Gingy (https://www.instagram.com/djgingynyc/) about his dealbreakers, before JJ picks a fight with sur...

Today’s pod starts with JJ gushing about his new boo Chris as Jack seethes.  Attempting to find romance for Jack, the boys then head to Tinder for a land of blank profiles, which leads to a discussion of Jack’s “automatic swipe left” profile inclusions.  Then we have our very first Ru-girl, the iconic Honey Davenport ( https://www.instagram.com/honeydavenportofficial/ ) who takes a break...

Jack's got a beef with self-care--or more specifically when it's weaponized to justify unreliability. JJ takes Jack into the wasteland that is Grindr to find some masc-onlys, gimps and all around slim pickings. After, Jack is joined by colleague Deshawn Aaron Jenkins (https://www.instagram.com/deshawndreams/) to "look back at" some old behaviors they've retired, and Deshawn dishes on his current p...

JJ’s hole is a mood ring, we discover, as the boys discuss some STI journeys. After the break, they move onto Hinge swiping to find a cute musician with coded Star Wars references and someone who bravely admits that they like…the gym. Jack flies solo again this week and plays a game of dealbreakers with the winner of the 6th cycle of NYC’s Lady Liberty drag competition, Freeda Kulo (https://www.in...

The boys start discussing the eyes of Tammy Gay—gay eyes, which Jack only recently recognized as what he thought were hateful glares for the last 28 years. JJ talks about accidentally employing the tactic and Jack’s receipt of them in Crossfit from a cavalcade of bottoms. Next, Jack breaks down his latest date through his matchmaking service and bemoans "travel gays." Finally, powerhouse entertain...

"TURN THE MICS ON!" JJ screamed on their break between recordings for Jack to retell his induction into top daddy-hood. After the break, Jack reveals the desolate wasteland that is Astoria Grindr. In the third act, LGBTQ+ recording artist, nightlife mainstay and all around hustler Marcel The Artist ( www.instagram.com/marcel_theartist ) joins to talk best/worst movies. Finally, JJ picks a fight wi...

JJ is in control this week, suggesting the topic of what to do when someone likes you more than you like them. Next, instead of swiping, JJ notes the changes in Jack since he began his mood stabilizers. In the third act, the filthiest gay rapper in NYC Bryce Quartz (https://www.instagram.com/realbrycequartz/) joins to exchange red flags. Finally, Jack picks a fight with delusional artists while JJ...

Active interest is the first subject this week with Jack telling JJ he’s all about quitting things he doesn’t want to do and only engaging with people who have active interest in him. Next the boys swipe Hinge and JJ explains why dogs are the cologne of pictures…yup, that’s a thing. Recording artist Danielle Cardona ( www.instagram.com/danielle_cardona_/ ) then joins to play a brand new game—Look...

JJ is fired from the podcast because he HAS A BOYFRIEND. JJ tells Jack the story of how they got together and how he introduced him to his squad. Buckle up. Jack tries to find love of his own on OKCupid which sparks a discussion of some “masc 4 masc” profiles. Then Bear World Magazine founder Richard Jones ( www.instagram.com/bearworldmag ) joins to talk through some dealbreakers. Finally, JJ pick...

Jack has been dumped 4 times recently, and completely blindsided by each. He takes JJ through the carnage before diving into Scruff to refill his dance card. In segment three, comedian Brittany Brave (https://www.instagram.com/brittanybrave) joins to play a game of Virtue Signal and somehow they get into Rugrats-themed roleplay ideas...cringe. Finally, Jack picks a fight with dates who ask for a s...

It’s the Quarantine Special we’ve alluded to, as Jack just found JJ’s audio from our January recording (a bit out of sequence, sorry). Join us as Jack decides to shit where he eats and details his latest match with Voldemort’s doppelgänger. After we are joined by alternative music artist Jake Benjamin ( www.instagram.com/jakebenjmusic ) to sort through some dealbreakers. To close us out, JJ goes c...

Jack's brain is broken and now requires medication, which he tells JJ all about in the first segment. After, the boys take their first trip into The Pattern app to see if the stars can find Jack a match. Drag queen Jizzelle Amore ( www.instagram.com/jizzelleamore ) joins to play a round of dealbreakers before JJ picks a fight with Euphoria and Jack leaves love and light to movie theaters. Talk to...

JJ comes full circle with his hookup buddies as we discuss the problematic nature of the term "eskimo twinning" before Jack goes through his OKCupid. After, the boys are joined by professional Trekkie and writer/creator extraordinaire Sean Ferrick (www.instagram.com/seanferrick) to talk Star Trek roleplays and best/worst dates. Finally Jack picks a fight with rich white gays that won't pay a $15 c...