Coaching Culture

The 4th Mindtrap in Jennifer Garvey Berger’s Book Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps is Control. JP and Nate discuss the effects of trying to control too much as a coach. They emphasize the importance of making a shift from controlling players or situations to influencing them. Mastering the art of stepping in at the right time takes awareness and practice. Tune in for practical steps to overcoming th...

JP Nerbun and Nate Sanderson continue their conversation with Erica Marrari, the COO of GapingVoid, a culture design organization and consulting group. They discuss how organizations can use semiotics to influence and visualize beliefs & values. The episode also explores the challenges of meeting resistance and rewarding the norms that mirror change. Get a glimpse into the value that GapingVoi...

JP Nerbun and Nate Sanderson interview Erica Marrari, the COO of GapingVoid, a culture design organization and consulting group. They discuss the importance of culture in driving team results and how to accelerate culture change. The episode also explores the power of storytelling and how to create and use culture language to shape the desired culture. Get the Podcast Notes and Subscribe to our we...

JP & Nate discuss how our brain's natural reactions can hurt our effectiveness as leaders. They focus on the mind trap of being trapped by agreement, where leaders want to be liked and avoid conflict, hindering their ability to give feedback and have difficult conversations. Get the Podcast Notes and Subscribe to our weekly newsletter!   https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter Online Course:...

In this episode, JP and Nate continue their conversation with Annie Duke, a New York Times bestselling author and former World Series of Poker champion. They discuss the challenges that coaches face when it comes to winning and losing, including the fear of failure and the tendency to let losses derail their strategy and leadership. They explore ways to stay focused on the process and not let the...

Annie is a formal professional poker player turned author, speaker, and consultant in the decision-making space. Annie discusses how coaches can frame and evaluate their decisions based on probability. She gives us tools to make the best decision with the information on hand. Get the Podcast Notes and Subscribe to Our Weekly Newsletter https://www.tocculture.com Take your personal coaching develop...

JP and Nate discuss the second of five Mindtraps from Jennifer Garvey Berger’s book " Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps ".   In this episode, JP and Nate highlight  The significance of humility in the learning process.  Letting go of the need for control and certainty will allow us to focus on making the best possible decisions with the information at hand.  The mindset that allows us to be...

Two decades ago, mental performance coaching played a significant role in training athletes. Today, the spotlight has shifted towards mental health. In this episode, special guest Lisa Mitzel shares in Part 2 of our conversation, stories and strategies focused on mental well-being. Lisa is a distinguished mental training and mental health coach, an author of two books, and the founder and presiden...

The mental aspect of sports is often the most significant obstacle preventing athletes from reaching their full potential. Yet, many coaches lack confidence in guiding their athletes to overcome these mental challenges. In this episode, JP and Nate are joined by a special guest, Lisa Mitzel . She is a renowned mental training and mental health coach, author of two books, and the founder and presid...

Navigating leadership in today's world is more challenging than ever, marked by its unpredictability and rapid changes. Despite this, many still rely on traditional tactics, even when they prove ineffective. In her book " Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps ," leadership consultant, researcher, and coach Jennifer Garvey Berger identifies common shortcuts, or mindtraps, that people fall in...

In the second segment of our two-part conversation, we are joined again by two world-class water polo players, Cris Pinciroli and her daughter Alissa. JP and Nate discuss with Cris and Alissa how coaches and parents can work together to support high performance athletes with rest, support, and mental health. This discussion encompasses those athletes that are highly inspired and also the ones livi...

The demands on athletes have never been higher. In the first segment of our two-part conversation, we are joined by two world-class water polo players, Cris Pinciroli and her daughter Alissa. Cris, the founder of WeTeam, a consulting company focused on high performance and positive psychology, served as the captain of the Brazilian women's water polo team for 15 years and, at one point, was ra...

A prevalent challenge in the modern-day sports environment is the departure of players due to transfers or personal reasons, which can lead individuals away from their teams. This phenomenon occurs across various levels, including youth, high school, collegiate, and even professional ranks. In this episode, JP and Nate engage in a conversation addressing this reality of players leaving and provide...

Leadership in today’s world is complex, particularly when considering the delicate balance between compassion and candor. In Part 2 of their conversation, JP and Nate further explore this dynamic with guest Kim Scott. This episode is rich with insights on enhancing communication and feedback. The discussion revolves around Kim's book,  Radical Candor . √ In emotionally charged exchanges, get c...

Leadership in today’s world is complex. It involves many polarities, such as autonomy and control, support and accountability, love and truth. Effective leadership goes beyond either/or thinking. It necessitates the integration of these opposing concepts. In this episode, JP and Nate are delighted to host Kim Scott, a New York Times best-selling author and renowned expert in leadership. Kim is cel...

Over the past two episodes, our distinguished guest from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, Richard Weissbourd, unveiled some poignant realities about the role of a sports parent. In this conversation, JP and Nate aim to address a crucial question: How can we skillfully navigate these challenges to steer clear of the detrimental sports parenting behaviors discussed in Episode 309? Tune in a...

JP and Nate continue the 2-part conversation with Richard Weissbourd from the Harvard Graduate School of Education. He is an expert in Children’s Moral and Emotional Development. His work focuses on moral development, the nature of hope, vulnerability and resilience in childhood, parenting and effective schools and services for children. He is the author of the previously mentioned book on the pod...

In this episode, JP and Nate bring onboard a special guest from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, Richard Weissbourd. He is an expert in Children’s Moral and Emotional Development. His work focuses on moral development, the nature of hope, vulnerability and resilience in childhood, parenting and effective schools and services for children. He is the author of the previously mentioned book...

The superpower of being a transformational leader lies in being transparent about our own growth journey and exemplifying it for others. Demonstrating transparency provides credibility, especially when we seek to make improvements based on feedback from our stakeholders, such as our athletes. This approach not only enhances our connection with others but also deepens our overall impact. In this ep...

In this episode, John O'Sullivan joins JP and Nate in an insightful discussion, highlighting the significance of John's newest book, The Champion Teammate: Timeless Lessons to Connect, Compete and Lead in Sports and Life , with Jerry Lynch. Included in the book are ideas on how coaches can guide their athletes to become better performers. Throughout the conversation, the importance of crea...

As coaches, we may not be directly responsible for our athletes' experiences, but we have the power to positively influence them through our actions. In this episode, JP hosts a discussion with Keith Mayer and his son David. Keith, who has been coaching soccer since 1981, currently holds the position of academy coach at Liverpool FC and David is a part of the Red Wolves club in Utah. Both Keit...

Great leaders aren’t just intelligent, highly skilled communicators, motivators, and story-tellers. They are able to step back and consider different perspectives. In this episode, JP initiates the discussion by sharing personal stories from his childhood, reflecting on moments where he was inclined to argue and impose his will on others. However, he emphasizes the substantial growth he has experi...

JP and Nate are joined once again by their special guest, Dr. Alex Auerbach from the Toronto Raptors. Dr. Auerbach holds the position of Senior Director of Wellness and Development, overseeing the Offcourt Development of Leadership and Character within the organization. In this episode, the conversation transitions from exploring the three mindsets of mental performance to discussing specific prot...

Shortly before the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, the Toronto Raptors made a significant move by hiring Dr. Alex Auerbach as their Senior Director of Wellness and Development. Recognizing the immense value of his perspective and insights, they entrusted him with the responsibility of Offcourt Development of Leadership and Character. Additionally, he was granted a seat on their Executive Leadershi...

For many coaches who choose to welcome feedback, the strategy can become overwhelming, especially when it coincides with the conclusion of a season. JP and Nate have previously emphasized the significance of actively seeking feedback. As part of the mentorship program with TOC, one of the initial stages involves completing a comprehensive 360-degree feedback form across various aspects of life. In...