Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

How to get a great handle on the right mindset for your dating life in the middle of uncertain times.   Uncertainty While Dating:  The Benefits And The Bad Excuses is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 139 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer.   With all the mixed messages swirling around what will happen after this pandemic, it's undeniable th...

Do you have a hard time knowing what to say when you meet someone?  Are conversations boring and disconnected? Making meaningful conversations are key to having deeper connections with people. So what's the best way to engage someone in conversation? In this episode, Kimmy interviews entrepreneur, speaker and founder of the Turnkey Podcast Company, Doug Sandler. He's interviewed tons of celebs lik...

Do you truly feel confident in your body?  Do you lack self-confidence in how sexy you are?  There is a connection and symbiotic relationship between your health, body confidence and attraction. This week, Kimmy Seltzer is infusing fitness elements to your style, emotional and social intelligence and talking all about body confidence.   To help with this, Kimmy's bringing on an incredible fitness...

Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy:  Where Are They Now?  In this segment, Kimmy speaks directly with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with her and the secrets to their success! On this episode, you'll meet Heather who found Kimmy six years ago, recovering from a divorce as a newly single mom and how Kimmy...

Did you know that clutter can affect your love life?  If you're like us, you've been staying safe and healthy by sheltering in place to slow down the spread of coronavirus. With all this newfound time at home, you might be thinking it's time to purge your space of clutter! This week on the show, Kimmy Seltzer brings on Ken Lauher, a Feng Shui expert, consultant and coach who helps high-performers...

Do you have questions about dating during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer has surprising answers to your love questions on this special segment where she answers your dating and relationship questions during this uncertain time. With the advent of the coronavirus outbreak, those of us wading into the dating pool need to get creative with how we create connections with one another without being able...

Is it even possible with all that is going on in the media and across the world to be dating and staying connected to others during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer, shares her thoughts on maintaining personal connections in dating and in life with all the uncertainty and fear that is surrounding the coronavirus outbreak. Health officials and government warnings have kept an intense focus on a serie...

Why do some people actually accelerate and have success even when there are huge obstacles in their life and others don't? Do you allow the constant walls in front of you get in the way of achieving the life and love you want? You have the power to break down these barriers by challenging the way you think and act. When you're working towards a goal, how do you go about tackling your biggest obsta...

Welcome back to another episode of  Where Are They Now?  where you'll hear from inspirational women and men who have found success in love and life after coaching with Kim. In this episode, you'll meet Julie, a vibrant, classicly trained pianist podcast listener who found Kim because she was feeling paralyzed by her perfectionism and overanalyzed everything which was preventing her from finding lo...

Y ou're a smart, strong, successful woman. In nearly every area of your life, you're operating on the highest level. But when it comes to your love life you can't seem to find a worthy partner despite your best efforts. In this episode, Kim and her guest, dating coach Evan Marc Katz, debunk 3 major myths about why smart, strong successful women sometimes have trouble finding love. As a dating coac...

How well do you know yourself? Do you know what your purpose is and how true to yourself are you being when you put yourself out there into the dating universe? This week, Kim has a special returning guest who breaks down exactly what the most successful people out there do to find their purpose and passion (and how you can do it too). Corey Poirier is a multiple-time TEDx and sought-after keynote...

Love is in the air this week and you deserve to soak it all up! With Valentine's Day on the way, now is your opportunity to invest in you by building your relationship with yourself and learning to attract love! Every day Kim hears from people who don't know where to go to meet their match and has been wrapped up with their work life. An email from someone who would rather be alone than pick the w...

Are soul mates real? Is there one special, perfect person out there made especially for you? This week on the show, Kim and her expert guest answer some soulful questions: Does your relationship have a destiny? How do you find your soulmate? You'll benefit from the wisdom of Cynthia Clark, who has helped more than 7,000 busy professionals find lasting love and soulmate connections through the soul...

Do you believe that you are capable of everything you want to achieve in your life? Do you believe you deserve a loving, happy, and healthy relationship? This week, Kim tackles a BIG question we've all had: are you GOOD ENOUGH? It doesn't matter if you're already successful by other people's standards or if you're just starting your life's journey--we all deal with feeling like we're not *enough*...

Are you afraid to put yourself out there or are you ready to speak out and be heard?  Did you know that finding and owning your voice is a huge part of interaction and attraction?  When it comes to finding love, owning your voice is essential - but finding the courage to speak up AND be vulnerable can be tough. Luckily, Kim's bringing on an expert at finding the voice from within - celebrated voic...

We're back with the first "What Would Kim Do?" segment of 2020! Write in your dating and love questions to @SeltzerKimberly on Facebook, and your question could be featured on an upcoming episode. This week, Kim talks through how to conquer your fears around rejection, get comfortable with who you are, how to date as a single parent and get clarity on what you want in a partner. If you've ever str...

Are you comfortable being seen?  Now that it is a new year, it's a great time to push yourself to be more visible so that you can attract great things.  The image you project to others is a direct reflection of who you are and how others perceive you. So, you won't be surprised to learn that image is the first key to your ability to find love. This week, Kim interviews Debbi Dachinger. She's a med...

Kicking off 2020 with an inspiring success story, Kim's back with another episode of Where Are They Now? You'll hear from Cathy, a client of Kim's who, after coaching with Kim, has made some amazing strides. Her confidence has soared! Her ability to take action in alignment with what she wants has built positive momentum in all areas of her life. When Cathy first got in touch with Kim, she was str...

This holiday season, Kim asks the hard question: Are you naughty or nice? What if this holiday season was about receiving more than giving?  On this week's show, Kim reveals to 5 Ways You Can Be Naughty Instead of Nice in your love life. Listen in, some of her tips might surprise you! When it comes to dating, you can achieve a healthy balance by being a little naughty! This doesn't mean being over...

So how many times do you cover your ears or put on a fake smile in fear of being yourself?  How much energy do you expend worrying about being normal, proper or polite in order to be accepted?  This week, we're getting *real*. Really  freaking  real by learning how to be your authentic self to attract love. Kim interviews Lisa Cherney, host of the ground-breaking Get F**king Real Podcast and found...

Many of you may have heard of the Law of Attraction which is the ability for you to attract what you're focused on into your life. However, many of you may not have heard of the Law of Action...taking intentional actions that are in alignment with your goals. Without implementing the Law of Action into your life, the Law of Attraction will never generate results. In this episode of the Charisma Qu...

It's time for another episode of Where Are They Now?, the segment where Kim brings back former coaching clients to share success stories and progress. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! This week, you'll meet Ivy, a podcast listener of 2 years and a veteran of Kim's Flirt and Femininity Challenge and private coaching program. When Ivy started with Kim, she had no dating experience and had...

What does it truly mean to move from surviving to thriving? How do you maintain optimism throughout the challenges that life and love present? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in the realm of thriving, Lou Diamond, host of the Thrive Loud podcast. Kim and Lou talk about the difference between surviving and thriving in today's digital age and how to push yourself to meet all the g...

Do you have a strong desire to change but lack the motivation? When you're trying to change your behavior, your motivation needs to be stronger than your fears, but how do you actually make it happen? This week, Kim delivers  6 Motivation Hacks  that will help you stir up your passion and drive to make the changes you want in your life. If you listen to this podcast as part of your routine (we lov...

This week on the Charisma Quotient Kim and her guest, host of the Men on Purpose Podcast Emerald GreenForest are talking two major topics you might be surprised to find out are totally related -- Love and Money! Known as the Wealthy Life Mentor, Emerald shares the steps to her wealthy life mindset. You'll hear client stories and examples that show how interconnected the success of your love life a...