Character Analysis

In This Episode: Let's talk about the idea that being chronically single is bad and results from being “too broken.” Also in this episode: A woman’s crush on her therapist inspires a conversation about the connection between trauma and limerance. Join the fun! Become a paid subscriber for $4 a month and get two weekly Nuggets of Dating Advice podcast episodes and one weekly full-length Dateology C...

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/women-are-freezing-their-eggs-because#details In This Episode: We discuss a listener-submitted letter about a dehumanizing experience with a man on a dating app. How some men disguise their sexual dysfunction by not showing interest in physical intimacy and by “being respectful.” We review an article stating that the lack of quality...

Listen to three examples of men lecturing women about having standards and preferences. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/welcome-to-whiny-men-on-the-internet#details SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE 20% - PAY ONLY $4 A MONTH Join the fun! Become a paid subscriber at $4 a month and get access to weekly full-length podcast episodes and regular Nuggets of Dating Wisdom mini-podcast...

Enjoy our re-cap of And Just Like That Episode 5. In this week's installment, we learn Carrie is still socially inappropriate and makes us cringe. Also, the writers finally expose Che Diaz. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/men-using-manipulative-therapy-speak#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES & SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember...

He told her he thinks they should be FWB before dating. Bless his heart. He thinks the decision is up to him. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE - https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/myth-buster-women-not-men-are-the#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES & SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/

Listen to a story about a real-life Carrie, Big, Aidan toxic love triangle LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE - SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/

Boy are those feminine energy coaches going to be PISSED. We discuss an NPR article that shatters the myth that men are hunters who like the chase. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE - SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/ In This Episode: A woman fears a man will reject her if her appearance c...

LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES - SAVE 20% To listen to full-length podcast episodes, become a paying subscriber. For $5 a month, you’ll get the weekly full-length podcast & additional weekly Nuggets of Wisdom mini-podcasts. https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/is-being-single-by-choice-the-same#details In This Episode: Wh...

In this Nugget episode, I discuss preferences, standards, and how nobody gets to decide them for you. A man with significant debt keeps getting ghosted after he discloses his financial situation. Should he take a break from dating? A writer has many thoughts about a plus-sized woman having the audacity to be attracted to conventionally fit men. Single people with visible or invisible disabilities...

Enjoy a special And Just Like That… analysis episode. Spoiler alerts abound, so listen with caution. Topics covered: How women are discouraged from listening to their instincts. Miranda’s transformation into Carrie 2.0. Freeloading men. How women hold it all down when the men around them are losing it. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE - SUBSCRIBE FOR $4 A MONTH https://dateologycoach.substack.com/curren...

In “F*ck This Guy” news, a man on Tik Tok thinks that if a woman has a high body count, she has low standards. The problem with this argument is that it implies men only sleep with women that meet their standards. And we know that isn't true. SUBSCRIBE TO MY SUBSTACK & LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/a-double-dose-of-fck-that-guy#details

In this teaser episode, we talk about why scaring off your situationships is a superpower every woman needs. SUBSCRIBE AT 20% OFF AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/subscribe?coupon=58c60f68 IN THE FULL-LENGTH EPISODE: In This Episode: A man wonders why the single mom he’s dating doesn’t need him aka doesn’t make more time for him. We dissect the confirming the dat...

Listen as a man whines about women using filtered photos on dating apps as though he doesn't know humans have pores, and we aren't born with glittery pink shadow on our eyelids. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/who-lies-more-about-their-appearance#details In This Episode: Kim Cattrall is returning to And Just Like That for a cameo and we discuss why she left t...

Enjoy a teaser of this week’s podcast. Listen as we dissect the ranting of an angry man who thinks women should alter their preferences and lower their standards so more men can get laid. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/angry-short-men-breakup-guilt-and#details In This Episode: A man tells women to consider short men’s feelings and asks them how they’d feel if rej...

This week’s podcast teaser covers one of my favorite Sex & The City episodes, “I Love a Charade. We discuss the false narrative that women must fix themselves to find love, how society defines love and marriage, and why Carrie was the worst sex columnist ever. Also, a few of us met on Zoom last night, and everybody shared their dating profiles. People found the feedback so helpful I’ve scheduled a...

Will men ever get it together? We say YES. Listen as we discuss important signs that tell you a man will be a good partner. LISTEN TO THE 90 MINUTE EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-still-care-about-looks#details In The Full-Length Episode: We talk about Pear Rings and whether or not they’ll be the next big dating trend. Do men still care about looks, or is it all about br...

We discuss women who constantly brag about being in a relationship and why it’s toxic; a man who berates women for having the audacity to think their time is as valuable as their money; and dating profile tips to filter out fboys. LISTEN TO THE FULL 90-MINUTE EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/lets-normalize-disappointing-men#details JOIN OUR COMMUNITY OF BRILLIANT, EMPATHETIC, AN...

Never let anyone tell you to change who you are to get someone to love you. There are plenty of people out there who will love you for exactly who you are, as is. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/no-youre-not-single-because-youre#details *Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Course* dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofile *Submit Your Dating...

A listener wants to know why a man would spend weeks talking then cancel right before their first date. We tell her it's time to be toxic. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/always-swipe-left-on-this-red-flag#details In The Full Episode: In This Episode: A man writes hateful commentary about women and gets run off the internet. How women evaluate men’s looks vs. how...

Enjoy another teaser from this week’s podcast. We’re deconstructing the Carrie/Russian Samantha/Smith relationships. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/the-dangers-of-exposing-bad-men#details In The Full Episode: I share a story about a man harassing me since listening to my appearance on the Crawlspace podcast. We talk about an article from The Cut written by a woma...

Welcome to a teaser of this week’s podcast episode. To listen to the full episode, become a paid subscriber at https://dateologycoach.substack.com/ . In this episode, we’re discussing the dangers of Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook groups, why married men try to reconnect with old flames, and why Carrie and The Russian were doomed from the start. Listen to the full episode here: https://dateolo...

Enjoy a teaser of this week’s podcast. A woman writes in and wants to know what she’s doing wrong because she can’t get any second dates, and her friends told her to change to be more attractive to men. Plus, we dive into how Sex and The City’s Miranda wasn’t the catch she and everyone else who watched the show thought she was. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/woul...

In this bonus episode, we answer the age-old question, “Do men really love bitches?” In a nutshell? WHO CARES WHAT MEN LIKE? Listen to the full episode here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-really-love-bitches#details JOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPORT ZOOM SESSIONS: Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to sta...

What happens when avoidants like Carrie Bradshaw date insecure men like Aidan Shaw? Find out in this week’s teaser. Listen to the full episode: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/covert-manipulation-coded-language#details In The Full Episode: The sex was bad, so he pulled away and she broke things off. Now she’s wondering if she was too harsh. More Sex & The City analysis and why Berger wasn’t...

In this podcast teaser, we’re discussing garbage advice to women about moving in with someone, the importance of cohabitation agreements, and giving feedback to a woman dumped just a few weeks after she’s asked to be exclusive with someone she met on vacation. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/she-ditched-her-date-over-3-cheese#details JOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPO...