Carlie's Couch

In a world that constantly tells us to “sell it,” “post it,” and “turn it into a brand,” it can be hard to just enjoy something for the joy of it. This week, Carlie & Lex talk about the pressure to monetize your skills and passions—and why it’s okay to keep some things just for you. Watch this episode on YouTube

Is doing things for the haters or to prove people wrong a bad thing? This week on Carlie’s Couch, we explore the concept of letting naysayers fuel our dreams, how not to let our motivations be driven by others, and discuss ways to let go of the need to prove ourselves to others. Watch this episode on YouTube

What is discretion; and why do some people seem to have none? This week on Carlie’s Couch, we’re exploring the quiet superpower of discretion: knowing what to share, when to share it, and when to keep things to yourself. Whether it’s online oversharing, messy group chats, or telling too much too soon, a lack of discretion can cost you peace, privacy, and power. We’re unpacking how to practice it,...

Why do certain people get under your skin? This week on Carlie’s Couch, we’re talking about the idea that what triggers you in others might be reflecting something unresolved in yourself. From jealousy to judgement to comparison and discomfort; we unpack how dislike can be a powerful tool for self discovery. Tune in as we explore how to turn irritation into insight and walk through an exercise to...

You say you want to be successful, loved, and celebrated, but are you actually allowing yourself to be seen? This week on Carlie’s Couch, we’re unpacking the fear of being perceived, why so many of us hide our true selves, how it keeps us stuck, and what it looks like to finally stop shrinking. If you’ve been playing small, this one’s for you.

In this episode of Carlie’s Couch, we ask a big question: do the choices we make every day—what we eat, who we date, how we work—reflect how much we love ourselves? We talk about how self-love shows up (or doesn’t) in every area of life, and how taking stock of our patterns can reveal where we’re thriving and where we might want to choose better. Tune in for a thoughtful conversation on aligning y...

What’s the status of your mental health? How do you know when something is off or different with you? May is Mental Health Awareness month. This week on Carlie’s Couch, we discuss signs to pay attention to when you’re feeling off and our most impactful tools and tips to take care of y-o-u. Watch this episode on Youtube

Kegels aren't enough! Everyone should be paying attention to their pelvic floor. This week we speak with Dr. Josephine Duncan licensed pelvic floor physical therapist and founder of Functionally Flawless Design who merges her clinical expertise with her creative vision to empower others to thrive in both body and space. Follow her on socials, ask questions, and learn more about thriving physically...

How do you know when you should take a pause? Life can be stressful, let’s add to our self-regulation toolkit. This week, Carlie & Lex discuss tips to notice when you’re dysregulated, how to build resilience, and breakdown Dr. Dan Siegel’s “flipping your lid” model for emotional regulation to help you get back to equilibrium.

This week on Carlie’s Couch, we’re unpacking the power of exposure, the difference between building courage and overwhelming yourself, and whether action can really quiet anxiety. Tune in for honest stories, surprising insights, and tools for moving from fear to freedom.

We’ve all been there — expecting more from someone who keeps letting us down. In this episode of Carlie’s Couch, we unpack why we keep ordering things that aren’t on the menu, what it reveals about our own needs, and how to start managing expectations with more clarity and compassion. Let’s talk about choosing peace over disappointment. Watch this episode on Youtube

It’s not “if” you’re going to fail, but “how” you fail. This week on Carlie’s Couch, we explore 5 practical steps to help you reframe your outlook on failure and discuss how we can all fail better. Watch this episode and subscribe on YouTube!

When was the last time you let yourself enjoy the peace of doing nothing? This week on Carlie’s Couch, Carlie & Lex explore the importance of dilly-dallying, the scientific benefits of being present, and ways to be more intentional about rest, mindfulness, and disconnecting. Watch this episode on Youtube

What if you didn’t have to be who you think you are right now? In this episode of Carlie’s Couch, we explore the Tomorrow Man Theory—the idea that every choice you make today shapes the version of you that wakes up tomorrow. With the Spring Equinox as a fresh start, we’re breaking out of fixed identities and stepping into the power of small shifts that create big transformations. Tune in and start...

Does being humble mean shrinking yourself? Can you have humility and still be wildly successful? This week on Carlie’s Couch, we’re unpacking what humility really is (and isn’t), how it impacts success, and why true confidence and humility go hand in hand. If you’ve ever struggled with balancing self-assurance and staying grounded, tune in and learn how humility can help you without downplaying yo...

Do you have a strong sense of purpose, or are you still figuring it out? In this episode of Carlie’s Couch, we dive into what purpose means, why it’s linked to fulfillment and longevity, and whether everyone is meant to have one. We also explore how life experiences, values, and personal strengths shape our purpose—and whether making money from it should be the goal. Watch this episode on Youtube

Fear can either protect you or keep you stuck—but how do you know the difference? This week on Carlie’s Couch , we explore how fear shows up in our bodies and minds, the key questions to assess whether it’s keeping you safe or just comfortable, and how to push through when it’s holding you back. Tune in to learn how to reframe fear, challenge self-doubt, and take small steps toward growth. Watch t...

Are you really in control of your attention, or is it being spent for you? This week on Carlie’s Couch , we break down the quote “Where you spend your attention is where you spend your life” and take an honest look at whether our focus aligns with our values. Tune in as we explore the attention economy , how to reclaim your time, and simple ways to be more intentional with your most valuable resou...

Why do we sometimes feel stuck in achieving goals or making manifestations work? Could competing beliefs be the silent culprits? In this episode of Carlie’s Couch, we discuss competing beliefs, how they sabotage progress, and practical steps to resolve them. Watch this episode on YouTube

“I know.” Do you, really? Knowing everything, or having a closed mindset, keeps you from growing and learning. This week, Carlie & Lex explore how being a know-it-all and having a fixed mindset is holding us back and discuss actionable ways to open our minds to curiosity and new possibilities.

“Those who don’t ask for anything deserve everything,” —a quote highlighting the honor and self-sufficiency of someone, or a quote to keep people from asking for more? This week on Carlie’s Couch, we explore the origin and implications of this quote and the deeper importance of learning to ask for what you want and advocate for yourself. Watch this episode on youtube

What’s your conflict language? In this episode of Carlie's Couch, we explore the five conflict management styles—competing, avoiding, accommodating, compromising, and collaborating—breaking down when and how each one works best. Tune in to discover which “conflict animal” you relate to and how understanding these styles can improve your relationships.

In this episode of Carlie’s Couch , we dive into the topic of body image and explore how to reclaim and improve the way we see ourselves. From embracing self-love to learning to appreciate our bodies at every stage, we discuss practical ways to nurture a healthier relationship with our physical selves. Watch this episode on YouTube

If you want to change the world, start with yourself. Let’s start with empathy. This week on Carlie’s Couch, we get a better understanding of empathy, its importance, and share actionable ways to strengthen your empathy muscle. If you’re looking for resources to help or receive support to LA fire victims, please check out this spreadsheet from Mutual Aid LA Network.

What does it mean to live with romance as a way of life? This week on Carlie’s Couch , we explore how infusing care, beauty, and intention into everyday actions can enhance your relationships, uplift your experiences, and make life feel more fulfilling. Tune in as we discuss why romance isn’t about money, what holds people back, and how to embrace it in your own unique way. Watch this episode on Y...